Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

just wondering, is it vanilla, berry, fruity, flowery? u name it!

2007-11-13 13:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Let_it_go 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do Mature Older Woman cheat on there Husbands for Younger men ?


I only ask this since im 20 and iv got acouple of mates and they have all hooked up with married woman that have husbands ? Why do Married woman feel they need to do this ? Do you get Fed up with your Husband and just want some fun

2007-11-13 12:59:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married and have a crush on my supervisor who is also married and has 2 children. I know this is a hopeless, bad situation but I can't stop thinking about him. We connect with eachother in so many ways. This is starting to really affect me outside of work and it's affecting my marriage with my husband. I am wondering if I should tell my supervisor about my feelings b/c I can't stand this secret anymore. HELP!

2007-11-13 12:58:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is that hot or kind of scary?

2007-11-13 12:57:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are fours hours apart...we both think its goin to work but at the same time...we have doubts...me especially..but i love him! lol

2007-11-13 12:57:36 · 3 answers · asked by beauty iz me 1 in Singles & Dating

can i ask you something........

then the rest is blank, is there anything i can put with this to say to this girl that will make a kind of conversation out of or a little

2007-11-13 12:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend had his heart broken by his high school sweetheart after she brutally lead him on and cheated on him numerous times. It wasnt a clean break and he never thought he was going to get over her.

So he became a massive player for about two years and just became a man-slut and cheated on every girlfriend he had after her. Then, he met me. We had a rough time getting where we are, but he has never cheated on me and he finally has said I love you to the second person in his life. He plans on getting married and is a changed man.

Lately he has been having dreams about his ex, and her family and in the dreams her family is begging him to come back to her through bribes.

He doesnt look too much into it, but I see his ex all over my college campus and today she made some nasty comment to me. and I am starting to feel, worried and some what irritated by it because I know what a big part of his life she was..... help?

2007-11-13 12:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by boots4939 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here's my problem: lately I have been noticing a lot of tension between my parents. My dad keeps making mean comments to my mom (not like abusive, just rude and hurtful). She gets upset and tries to talk to me about it and I don't know what to tell her. I also am kind of mad at my dad for doing this and I have been stand offish towards him. I don't know what to do because it has been going on for a while now. I know they won't get divorced though, they love each other way too much and have been married for 20 years! Please help!!!! Thank you soooooo much I really appreciate it.

2007-11-13 12:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I sent and email on Sat Nov 10, 2007 and I still haven't heard a resonance from you 4 days later regarding a new proposal you promised. Please understand that further delays in planing will lead us to loose our scheduled date for matrimony. The date that my fiancee and I have planed is a special date to us. And that before we could have another date that is similar wouldn't be for another 4 months. In addition we have many out of state guest that need 3-4 month advance notice to make arrangements for flight and hotel accommodation.


With the rules of the Myrtles Plantation being that we can not bring an outside venue for food choices We would like to reserve the venue for our wedding but I am afraid your slow or non response is making me nervous not only now but in the long run... Hence the reason we have not set a deposit with the Myrtles since this is a two part deal between Myrtles and Varnedoe's. We can't use one without the other.

I do understand the way this type of partnership works, it is a smart idea to corner the market when it comes to special events or customer of the Myrtles. I have no problem with that. But please just correspond with me in a timely matter. This would be greatly appreciated.

I need a break down what each item cost per dish , IE: does chicken cost more than sausage. and buy how much. Than this way we can choose weather or not we want one dish over the other. Or more or less of a certain dish.

at this time we are looking for ...we are 100 percent positive on this choice as using the Myrtles for the wedding location. . However we are feeling nervous about the role Verandoe's plays in this.

This is what we are needing a proposal on .. As I asked you prior for something 16-18 per person. I am just trying to spread our funds diligently as I am sure you are well aware weddings are a large expense.

2007-11-13 12:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

Well me and my BF have been together for 2 years now. To him we're the perfect couple. But to me we just seem too different. Im more of a fast pace person but he's not. I jsut want someone a little more exciteing and who can keep up with me. But if I leave him then I'll break his heart. We're on a break right now and I was talking to one of his friends and apparently he isnt taking it so well. But I seem happier. But its not only him I'll hurt either. My friends and family will miss him just as much. I dont want to be selfish about this. And I love him but Im not in love with him. So should I take the chance and break up with him even though it might blow up in my face. Or should I hope that things might get better even though they havent in the last 2 years?

2007-11-13 12:49:17 · 23 answers · asked by fallingxstars7 2 in Singles & Dating

my mother moved out of the house with my sister so its usually jsut me and my dad so ive had to learn to be more independent which im doing pretty well at, and theres a possiblilty that my parents may get back together. My mother was seeing someone but realized he was an alcoholic. My father was seeing a women that was great for him but he realized that he wasnt over my mother.

2007-11-13 12:47:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well my daughter went down to the shore with her friend. They are 12 and 13. She and her friend are the most responciple, police, and kind kids I have ever ment. Well the house she is at with her friend is pack [25people, people are sleeping on the deck and it a town house with noisy neighbors, nowhere in the house is quiet but safe!] and they are so tired. They are 2 days into there 1.5 week trip until my husband and I come down and we [daughter too] go to OUR house for a week. Well anyway the want to stay at our house during the night to sleep. It would be like 12 hours alone in the saftest place, nice neighbors and wonderful people. There house is only 5min away. I cant decide if I should let them spend the night until my husband and i go down and there family goes home. My daughters friends mother is okay with it, same with my husband because its so close. Im still scared though. Even though they are responciple, my daughter know where everything is, and its safe im still scared.

2007-11-13 12:46:03 · 4 answers · asked by ... 3 in Family

I'm interested in a girl who lives about 45 minutes away. We live in the same metropolitan area so it would be fairly easy to see each other semi-regularly. Any suggestions on how I should move forward with this?

2007-11-13 12:40:25 · 3 answers · asked by OhHello 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 12:40:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for a little over 2 years, together for almost 7. About 6 months after we got married, she started having an affair. I found out about it a few months after it started, confronted her, and once she knew she was caught, admitted to it. I told her I could forgive her and let's make us work. The affair continued for about 2 months, and when it ended I was willing to take her back. It has been about a year and a half since it ended. We have not had sex since January 2006, it is not even an option for her. She refuses to even kiss me. I know that every couple has fights, but we disagree constantly, about almost everthing. I think the no sex thing is a big deal, she does not. We both make good money, but we are both in our mid 20s and have college debt. We have a nice house, and she's able to get anything she wants. I'm trying everything I can, when does divorce become an option? Also, she says that if I quit smoking, she will want to have sex.

2007-11-13 12:39:46 · 19 answers · asked by I.M. Worried 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you preferrrrrrrrrrr...

straight hair on girls?
or
curly hair on girls?

just wondering. ill tell you what i have later ;]

2007-11-13 12:38:12 · 10 answers · asked by ho 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I have sex my partner wants me to be on top.. Im not the best. any tips?

2007-11-13 12:38:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this guy who like always
flirts around me. My friend asked him if he liked me
and he said no.
but he stills wants me to like be really close to him.
And i know he doesn't like me cause hes that kind of guy
that if he likes a girl he askes them out.
And i kinda like him
but when he said he didn't i broke my heart ] ;
so should i still become close to him???

2007-11-13 12:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by Shelley V 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend has a major crush on my boyfriend and wants to ask him to go out with her. What the Hell is the world coming to???? what should i do???

2007-11-13 12:36:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I m dating right now and just went through more than several rejections. They were all airheads, gameplayers, and just plain mean and insensitvie. People keep telling me that there is someone out there for me. Where is he?
I need to hear from you men that you're not all like that!
Where are you?
I can't find you !!!!
J in San Diego

2007-11-13 12:34:24 · 16 answers · asked by Dawn 2 in Singles & Dating

how many guys out there know the difference???and how come they dont practice making love, only having sex.!!!??!!

2007-11-13 12:33:18 · 32 answers · asked by angelita 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this guy comes up to me and says "do you know what this means" and he was like doing a push up looking thing while sitting. I think it means Pitching a tent, A saluting soldier or w/e. What does pitching a tent mean?


Wait, am i right so if a guy looks like hes doing a push up while sitting down like his hands are doing a push up in the air does it mean that "its pitching a tent" cause thats what someone said.

2007-11-13 12:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known my best friend since Jr. High.
We are both 40 something years old! =)

2007-11-13 12:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4 in Friends

Well, lets face it, the holidays are right around and the corner and you don't have anyone to share it with (yet). Do you feel depressed and awkward when your family asks you if you're bringing anyone home with you? Will you scramble to find someone or just let it be and wait for another time? What will be your course of action?

2007-11-13 12:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well i want to buy handcuffs and whips and chains and that kind of stuff for me and my boyfriend to use on christmas (: but the only store that has that kind of stuff is this store Spencers thats in the mall and ware everyone can see my buy it, i don't want to feel weird buying it or be rejected for being to young to buy it. Im 13 going on 14. and im not sure if you have to be a certain age to buy that kinda stuff. Do you know? And also if my mom asks me whats in the bag, what am i suppose to do?

2007-11-13 12:27:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i went out with this guy last year. big mistake. we were best friends then everything got akward after we broke up.
we kinda forgot about it, but now i am really confused. right when we started talking a lot again,
he pretty much ditched me for the 'poular' crowd at my school...
now he hasnt even said a word to me for 3 weeks. whenever i try to talk to him he doesnt even looka t me and he rolls his eyes like i am a freak of nature or something.

i see him staring at me out of the corner of my eye though, all the time.
and he flirts with other girls whenever i am around and brags about them.

i guess i still like him, but hardly at all because of what a jerk he is being.
i miss us being best friends though.
does he not even care???


whats going through his mind?
did he forget about me?

2007-11-13 12:26:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not to be confused the actual marriage certificate, of course!

2007-11-13 12:25:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 18, i nvr took sex ed bc i was in special ed and my parents dont tell me anything ive had to find out every thing from internet and friends and i need help

2007-11-13 12:23:32 · 21 answers · asked by sammi 7 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I see a beautiful woman, I feel depressed and sad because I am instantly convinced that I do not have a chance in hell with her. And what can i do to change that?

2007-11-13 12:22:22 · 24 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

My little brothers been into this one girl for the past month now. But he dosent know what his first move should be. Help him out b/c hes getting on my nerves.

2007-11-13 12:21:33 · 1 answers · asked by alyssastroud 2 in Singles & Dating