Whenever I see a beautiful woman, I feel depressed and sad because I am instantly convinced that I do not have a chance in hell with her. And what can i do to change that?
2007-11-13 12:22:22 · 24 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop thinking so much! You are picking every little thing apart, Why Why Why, It will drive you insane! There is nothing wrong with you except maybe you send off vibes of insecurity. Women pick up on that. Appear confident & you will be!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-13 12:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have someone of your own then you probably will love her and feel high in self- esteem once you fall in love. If you aren't going out with someone, believe me you'll find that person. And when that person comes around you probably will still be looking at the beautiful women, but really what does it matter when we all grow old? When your older is just based on love so you shouldn't feel depressed becasue the one who loves you solves that depression if you're really in love. Love is way more powerful then anything else. In the end it really won't matter.
2007-11-13 12:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your fear of rejection. Some hot chicks like losers. I know this first hand, b/c I'm married to a hot chick. Do what I used to do, if a girl rejected me, I'd pretend it was a blessing in disguise because she had a disgustingly contagious STD. That would make me feel better. Also, just tell yourself that you KNOW she smells bad down there. For some reason, it always makes the girl look a little uglier.
2007-11-13 12:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build up ur self esteem and u'll hav girls all ovr u. I thought i was the ugliest person alive and i didnt get any guys cuz i was so ugly. Then 1 day i was lookin in the mirror and i saw some cute things about myself and i told myself that i wasnt that ugly and the next day a guy that i hardly evr talk to, came up to me and was talkin to me and tryin to turn me on and stuff. Then cuz a hot guy was talkin to me lyk that, i got even more self esteem and now i hav the best bf evr! Just build up ur self esteem a bit! Good luck! =D
2007-11-13 12:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be more outgoing and uplifted. Do things to motivate yourself in everyday life. Thinking negatively all the time is unhealthy. You can have any beautiful woman you want if you make the effort and believe in yourself. Good luck and remember you are a worthwhile person.
2007-11-13 12:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kym M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interior the order wherein the under popped into my head: First, there is no longer something incorrect with believing that females are people (that's what being a feminist is). 2nd, the blunders you made replaced into no longer in believing that females are people, yet being jealous and rude. third, quite much each and every person is commonly used with the linked fee of being a mom. actual mom's, whilst listening to naive and conceited non-mothers possibly do no longer take them heavily. Fourth, you weren't particularly being a feminist, because of the fact featuring respecting people's precise to make their own selections approximately the thank you to stay their lives. no longer believing you have the remarkable to make all their selections for them. 5th, your rudeness had no longer something to do with 'worldly' as against 'godly' on condition that atheist are actually not inherently rude. 6th, possibly, as a replace of preaching at each and every person else, and arrogantly assuming no one knows effortless products which you have only found out, you should artwork on making your self a greater tollerant and open-minded individual.
2016-10-16 10:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have a sense of low self esteem which isn't good at all we girls can tell when a guys isn't confidant and we don't like it...my bf isn't the most handsome guy at all but he has the confidence as if he's Brad Pitt and thats what got me..so im sure your not a bad lookin guy at all you gotta up your confidence let yourself know that any women that becomes your girl is gonna be a lucky girl give it time but im sure this will work for you .
2007-11-13 12:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Joy'Cee's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you can possibly love anyone else or anyone else can love you, you need to love yourself. Once you truly love and believe in yourself you will attract people who are prepared to love you to. I am not prepared to love a guy who dones't love himself. ONce you love yourself you believe in yourself, you have self esteem and you can support yourself. This takes time and you can't give up. But just try little things, liek everytime you see a beautiful woman, think to yourself, if she got to know me, she would love me. And just leave it at that. Next before you go to sleep every night think of one thing you love about yourself. Then the next nite think of another. This is not making you egotistical, this is just building the love. Lol I sound liek a preacher but I really believe that this is your problem. Once you truly believe you love and accept yourself for who you are you will be ready to love others, and they will love you too! Best of luck :)
2007-11-13 12:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, come on. Grow a pair.
Go to the gym. Get a haircut. Make yourself over. People will start noticing, and you'll start feeling better about yourself.
2007-11-13 12:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem and still kinda do but its has gotten like a hundred times better start working out not a lot just a few push ups and sit ups it will get adrenalin pumping and testosterone pumping through your system and raise you self esteem it works trust me...
2007-11-13 12:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by ghost_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋