Ok, so here's my problem: lately I have been noticing a lot of tension between my parents. My dad keeps making mean comments to my mom (not like abusive, just rude and hurtful). She gets upset and tries to talk to me about it and I don't know what to tell her. I also am kind of mad at my dad for doing this and I have been stand offish towards him. I don't know what to do because it has been going on for a while now. I know they won't get divorced though, they love each other way too much and have been married for 20 years! Please help!!!! Thank you soooooo much I really appreciate it.
2007-11-13 12:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetheart sit them both down and everything that you are saying here in this question to us here on yahoo, please vent and get it off your chest to the both of them with deep sincere expression! Tell them that it ails your heart to see them both bring you in the middle because you love them both! I'll keep you in prayer and you do the same pray and ask God to shed light to the situation..... Trust me he hears all!
God Luck and God Bless.....
2007-11-13 13:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your parents do love each other and they both love you. Their problems are between the two of them. Your mom shouldn't put you in the middle of it. Can you suggest that she talk to a friend about it instead of you? If you hear your dad saying mean things to your mom, then you can call him on it. Tell him how it makes YOU feel. Best wishes to you.
2007-11-13 21:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably just stressed about something, I know it has happened where my husband would come home from work and make me feel like crap and later apologize because it wasn't even about me he was just venting and more and likely i was bitching about something that day. We love each other a lot and sometimes people have there days if its an everyday thing now you should just talk to him he is your dad. Just ask him whats wrong? or if something is bothering him? just say that you noticed how he has being treating your mom, good luck <3
2007-11-13 20:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by SiCnGaged 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your dad is saying rude and hurtful things honey it is abusive. That is called mental abuse. Just try to listen and be there for your mom. Maybe if you can, talk to your dad and tell him how you feel about the way he treats your mom.
2007-11-13 20:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your dad speaks bad to her she need to tell him to stop and that it is not acceptable behavior and she will not tolerate it. She also should not be talking to her daughter about her conflicts with her husband. When you hear your dad say things, you should say, "dad, that is not very nice and don't talk to my mom like that".
2007-11-13 21:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just sit them down and talk and tell them things need to change or something has to happen gl2u
2007-11-13 20:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Abby ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a marriage councilor maybe.
2007-11-13 20:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by dweeb 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your mom let herself go,if now she is fat. That might be the reason for him making mean comments.
2007-11-13 20:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋