okay well i want to buy handcuffs and whips and chains and that kind of stuff for me and my boyfriend to use on christmas (: but the only store that has that kind of stuff is this store Spencers thats in the mall and ware everyone can see my buy it, i don't want to feel weird buying it or be rejected for being to young to buy it. Im 13 going on 14. and im not sure if you have to be a certain age to buy that kinda stuff. Do you know? And also if my mom asks me whats in the bag, what am i suppose to do?
2007-11-13 12:27:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buy the cuffs, take them home, handcuff yourself to the radiator and then give the key to your mom. She should not unlock you until she has put your boyfriend in a large crate on a boat to China. Get the picture? Your are waaaaaaaaaaaay too young- stay home and stay away from boys for 5 more years...
2007-11-14 14:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, "13 going on 14" makes you "13". Whether you are close to your fourteenth birthday or not, it doesn't change the fact that you are thirteen.
The reason you mentioned your age like that was because you're aware that the vast majority of people will think that 13 is too young to really understand their sexuality properly - and indeed shouldn't be having sex at all.
You thought right, you are most likely too young for this. You haven't had anywhere near enough sexual experience to decide that you like being hurt and you get thrills from whips and chains.
I know you won't like to hear it, 13 feels pretty old when you're 13, but you are too young.
I'm going to go out on a limb here, but I'm assuming your boyfriend is older than you. Unless you suggested the whips/chains idea randomly, without prompting, it's fairly clear that this is something your boyfriend wants you to do.
All I can say is think twice about it, because when you're 20 - like me, you'll look back at your first sexual experiences and realise how innocent and unprepared you were - and how easy it is for someone (even just a couple of years older than you) to manipulate you and make you do things for them.
2007-11-13 12:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Adam L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think at your age you should get any of the above. Find ways you can use stuff you already have, personally even handcuffs aren't a good idea yet (unless you get the escape switch ones). Use some rope from home depot or a belt or some scarves or something and above all, do not take it too far yet. Trust me I know where you are coming from but at your age, you shouldn't be playing here yet. I know he is your boyfriend and I'm sure you two will be together forever and all that other BS...... but seriously as much as I love being tied up, I still think about life after I'm loose...... you two should too.
2007-11-14 04:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okaaaay.
Awesome for your boyfriend. But, uh, holy crap.
-One- Little bit young to be doing ANY of that.
-Two- Little bit young to be doing any of that in that fashion.
If you were 18, you could order online but, as it is, you can go to the mall, and you don't even have a car to hide the stuff in.
Or go to a costume shop. Say you got some stuff for a project, which you may have done, but hide the stuff you really went to buy.
2007-11-16 05:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by BlackOpSource 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be 18
but some stores are pretty lax
and just buy a whole load of other stuff at the same time that way just show her the other stuff and not the whips and chains
2007-11-13 12:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by paris travelodge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha like someone above said... you're funny... You're soooooo wayyyyyy too young to do that... I'm 14 and that's the farthest thing from my mind. wow... whips? Sketchy!!!!! lol You need to rethink that... ummm... a LOT! For Christmas... oh my god... whips and chains... celebrate the birth of Baby Jesus, why dontcha... my gosh... Have a little common sense there girly... last Christmas... you know what I got my boyfriend? A Watch! Jeez... wow... just... wow...
2007-11-13 12:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by DunderMifflin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 13 and already thinking about this stuff. If mom asks tell her. Maybe she can talk some sense into you. Sorry but you are way too young for this.
2007-11-13 12:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going on 14? WOW. first off sweety you have to be 18 to be allowed in that store, or stores that sell sex toys and you are absolutly way way way to young for sex and specially **** like that, your mom needs to get your head straight. are you kidding me? 14 im still surprised, it's sad on how much this generation has changed and these kids think their old enough for everythign out there in the world. there is a time and place for everything and until you learn that your still too young. and evne though you might hate people saying your too young, get over it becuase you are, and i've read many stupid questions on this site from younger kids and i've gave advice too many without saying their too young for love or a boyfriend, but sex? i have to say it, GROW UP!
2007-11-13 12:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
ohhk look im 15! ans plain sex is kinda out right now but cuffs and chains and whips?? the only stuff like that i use is on my fame and cuffs my uncle is a cop u need to get out and find something better to do like go places and stuff u little hoe get out the garden and get a life
2007-11-13 13:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dakota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing.......when I was 13/14 the last thing I was thinking about was sex. Especially kinky sex.
If you are not mature enough to go into a store and buy what you want, you may not be mature enough to be doing "other" things. If you are not old enough to go out and buy something without mommy's approval, you probably don't need.
2007-11-13 12:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by Keep on Truckin' 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋