Ok I have Physical custody of our 11 year old daughter.My ex and I have joint legal custody. The ?? is he has this girlfriend that is a horrible example!My daughter went w/her dad to his g/f house they basically had a party lots of drinking etc.Bad envirorment.Lots of people in the house-you get the picture.My daughter was upset calling me it was a bad scene. well on a separate time my ex calls me and tells me about a situation that he was in with this g/f that was extremly disrespectful to him but at the same time she put her own 3 year old in a bad situation.My ex was so upset he was hypervenilating! Now #1 I did not ask to here this info. nor do I talk to him about people i have seen..but I do not involve them in my daughters life either. we have been seperated 1 1/2 years and divorced 6 months.My ?? is do I have the legal right to tell him not to bring my daughter around this girl? Oh yea I am not a jealous ex either I divorced him!I just want her around morol people.
2007-11-13 12:00:22 · 10 answers · asked by dee dee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Legally once your divorce is final, he has no legalobligation to you or anyone else to raise her as you see fit religiously or otherwise. Now if you feel there is some wrong doings going on when she is there, like excessive partying/drinking then notify the police that your daighter may be in danger and let the police investigate and if there was wrong doing then use the police report in court to adjust his visitations to supervised with no overnights. In other words you need proof to back up any allegations you level against your ex and not only on the hearsay of your daughter alone. Just remember he does not owe you any explanations to what happens at his house just as long as your daughter isnt in any imminent danger. Also your daughter can refuse to go with her dad if she doesnt want too and there isnt a whole lot he can do about it
2007-11-13 12:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you have all the right to decide what environment your daughter is exposed to.If nothing is done about this you must get the courts involved again in order to protect your daughter from bad influenced while she is with her father. As a matter of fact while you are at that try to do something about her child being in bad environments too considering how that child does not have much help on their end. All in all get full custody of her and allow him visiting rights until this chick straightens up her act
2007-11-13 12:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any such situation as a militia divorce. All divorces are civil concerns. nonetheless, the quantity of youngster help is in keeping with earnings. If there's a courtroom order in place that states how lots infant help he could pay, then that's what he desires to pay. the only way he could petition the courts to diminish the quantity is that if his situations replaced and he without warning began making heavily much less money. As for sending greater money every time his ex asks for it, he isn't obligated to do this and he's particularly a fool to realize this.
2016-12-08 21:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.. 1st of all if he is putting her in a bad environment than that is your responsibility as a mother you have to do what is in the best interest of the child..2nd of all if they are not married than you have the right to go in front of a judge and explain the situation to the courts.. I hope that this helps you..
2007-11-13 12:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to politely tell him how you feel about it, and tell him if this doesn't change it will have a negative impact on your child together. Now, you can also tell him you are documenting everything (as you should do it to) Then if he keeps it up you need to take him back to court and you can get full custody because you tried to work things out. Give him 4 months.
2007-11-13 12:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem with my ex i just told him that i did not like what he was puting our son through which is 11 too and we sat down and talked about it and now we have agreement that nither one of us is to have our son around parting,so i would just try talking to him and tell him how you fell about it and maybe he well respect your feelings
2007-11-13 12:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by yoyogirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have the right 2 say what ever u want....wether he listens is a different tale.
2007-11-13 12:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT.YOU CAN GET AH COURT ORDER TO KEEP HIS GIRL FROM YOUR DAUGHTER.
2007-11-13 12:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by henny henn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.
2007-11-13 12:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't have a legal right to do that.........
2007-11-13 12:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋