How can I get her to realize that its a natural everyday act? (but, she finds it salty and nasty right before my main event (finishing). Any advice?
2007-11-13 11:50:02 · 30 answers · asked by ALEXANDER C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to explain how much you like it, don't tell her she has to do it or she won't want to. there is some flavored cream you can get to make it taste a bit better. maybe work out a signal to let her know you're about to -you know- and then pull it out.
2007-11-13 11:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sarahz 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, hygiene is a plus .The salty taste can come from the type of foods you eat (i.e . Asparagus - makes it smell and taste bad) . Since she thinks it's salty try this .. drink Pineapple juice say 3-4 8 oz glasses during the day and right before your "main event", she'll notice a much sweeter taste. :-)
2007-11-13 12:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by D J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, don't push her too hard. She will just resent it.
You said she finds it salty and nasty right before your main event - so obviously she has tried it. I would ask her if she would be willing to try again, right after showering or washing it. But give her some time.
Also, if you get her to agree, try eating some pineapple earlier that day if you can. Then if it is sweeter, she may like it better.
2007-11-13 11:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
consider a 69 scenario. but, if she has already tried to give you head on multiple occasions and still hates it, then there's not much you can do. it'd be like if she said, "how can i get my to understand that me penetrating him with a dildo is a natural everyday act?" your description of natural is your interpretation, obviously, she doesn't share it. now, if she is willing to serve you up until the main event, coordinate it so that she can quickly lube up her hand and finish you off. otherwise, you will have to get over it and move onto to something that you both find pleasing.
btw, you might have exceptionally funky spunk. so, take a little taste and rectify the situation. spunk flavor is affected by what you eat (meat makes it stink, fruits and veggies except asparagus make it sweet/neutral). also, drink plenty of water.
2007-11-13 12:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I don't think you can make her do anything. You can request her to do a sexual favor. If that is something that she just doens't want to do, then you need to find something welse within the marriage and be content and satisfied with that. Most women I know love to give head, but they necessasarily swallow. There are things a woman can do just before he achieves so she doesn't have to swallow. For instance, when she knows her mate is about to come, she can finish him off manually.
2007-11-13 13:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Contrary to popular male belief women do not live and die by giving guys blow jobs. It is not our favorite thing to do, however, my husband does a few things for me to make it a bit more palatable. 1. He washes with soap and water right before. 2. He keeps the hair down there trimmed so I dont have to swallow it. 3. when he is about to climax he pulls out and finishes with his hand. Why dont you try something like that with your wife?
2007-11-13 12:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by hovering 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pay more attention to your personal hygiene. Shave down there. Don't fart and sweat in your underwear all day and then expect her to go there.
Also, pay more attention to what you do OUT of the bedroom. Hubby's that pick up after themselves, don't leave dirty clothes laying all over the floor, who take the trash out without being asked, who do the dishes now and then, but who rinse their plates off and put them in the sink regardless, and who keep up with repairs around the house and yardwork ... those Hubby's get oral sex like crazy because us wives are so darned appreciative!!!
2007-11-13 12:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I tell you that she'd better get with the program or someone else is going to do it for her. My husband cheated on me with a woman 2 1/2 hours away from home because she was giving him head. Little does the woman know, the man don't take regular bathes! So she was actually cleaning his head.
2007-11-13 13:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
May be that she finds that just as repulsive as kissing you.
aaarrrrgggg. If she does'nt like the taste have her fill her mouth with "pop rocks" (the candy) before performing the act. She'll die laughing watching you streak across the sky like a 747 with smoke streaming from your tail.
2007-11-13 12:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps just let her use it as foreplay, but don't make her continue to the point of the "salty and nasty".
2007-11-13 11:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋