Ive been seeing a man for 5 months, both of us have kids. He has his son every weekend, hes not ready to introduce him to another woman yet. He lives 40 minutes away, drives a race car and has alot of work to do on his car during the week and also drives a truck 13 hours a day. We are both very busy and I only see him on tues or wed. nights. God i miss him so much. I tried to escape him and see other people but that doesnt work. I feel alone. I'm independent and also am not looking for marriage again or to live with a man. But how do I handle only seeing him once a week. I miss him so much.
2007-11-13 11:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a week is better than not at all. Either re-arrange your social obligations (there are always more choices than one thinks at first) or take up writing. (write little notes or e-mails to him - and even if you don't send them all, it is a form of communication)
2007-11-13 11:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know it's hard to be in love with a man that lives so far away. Trust me I live in VA and I dated a guy that lived in South Dakota before and I never got to see him. I just talked to him over the phone. Well, it's gonna be hard for a while but you can call him and stuff like that. But if you really love him like you say you do then you can hang in there until everything get's straightened out. Talk to him about how you are feeling. Good luck sweetie. I hope everything works out for the best.
2007-11-13 19:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that the relationship is actually going somewhere and you could see yourself making a committment in the future, you should stick with it. If everything works out in the end, it will all be worth it. Try asking him about maybe meeting his son. I think talking about your worries and problems could really help the situation. If you're really serious about it, you may want to consider moving closer to him.
2007-11-13 19:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could start a hobby or work out, go to the gym, or walk or run outside. That is the best stress reliever for me. It gives you something to do to pass the time, also clears your mind of stress, and will get your bod in great shape for the time you spend with your man which in turn will make him want to see you even more. :)
2007-11-13 19:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Shera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it'll get better, keep going, start writing your thoughts in letters, and have him do the same, then when you meet, exchange the letters, and DO NOT READ THEM until your away from each other. It will help pass the time, and give you a chance to get to know him a little bit better, on how he thinks.
2007-11-13 19:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do , maybe talk more on the phone, e-mail, but until it gets more serious then nothing you can really do. I mean it sounds like both of you have diff. first priorities and possibly he isn't the man for you, but if he is , be patient and get creative.
2007-11-13 19:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try calling him or texting him throughtout the day to just keep in touch. It will make you feel much better.
2007-11-13 19:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if money is not an option.. Buy a house near his.. become his neighbour.. and so you can always have the chance to meet him daily..
2007-11-13 19:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Master Piece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to just talk to him and tell him how you feel. See what his feelings are and what he sees in the future for you two...
2007-11-13 19:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy doing other things.
2007-11-13 19:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋