Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

I know that this has probably been addressed many of times, but I would like to know some thoughts on this(serious ones only). Why is it that in the beginning of the relationship he was the softee and I wore the pants, he was always sweet, sensative, loving. Now that we are married its what he says goes and I am all of a sudden worried about everything, like if he's happy, have I changed, has he changed. I have completely turned to mush and now I am the one going the extra mile to be sweet, sensative, loving... I don't like the tables being turned...How do I get my pants back??

2007-11-13 11:08:53 · 16 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee is having an affair with another man. The problem is, we bought a house together. She left me in the house. She did not pay the mortgage last month. She is behind on the bills. Can I change the locks? Is there anything I can/should do to protect myself? Please help. I'm crushed and obviously not thinking straight.

2007-11-13 11:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need so much help!
I wanted to ask, is 7-9 year olds to young to have a BoyFriend?

2007-11-13 11:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

P*rn with their partners?

2007-11-13 11:05:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's my sis in law. :)
What do you think of her and how old do you think she is.
Best answer gets 10 points, goodluck!
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2007-11-13 11:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-13 11:00:09 · 42 answers · asked by anomdls2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote this boy a letter that i like telling him that i like him, but i have no idea how to ask him out. I don't know if he likes me that much, but we get along, and talk a lot. He is a Jehovahs witness, so i don't know how it works with dating, but i am pretty sure it wouldn't matter if we like each other. If i were to ask him out, i really do not want to be rejected, because i havn't liked any body in a while, and i really like him so plz help!!

2007-11-13 10:58:53 · 3 answers · asked by jordyn d 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is going to be deployed for 10month, he doesnt want me to wait for him he says i deserve better.. should i stay or should i go?

2007-11-13 10:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 5 months separated for 2. my husband and i only attempted to have sex once on the wedding night (by attempted i mean started and stopped one minute into it) and never again since then. do we qualify for an annulment? i live in canada BC

2007-11-13 10:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by livelaughlove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

p*rn?
with your partner?
without your partner?

2007-11-13 10:53:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl used like me, but doesn't anymore...

2007-11-13 10:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 10:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anna, we have been seeing each other for a long time. I love you more than I thought ever possible to love another person. We have alot of things to work out to make it work and with enough time and motivation we can do it. You are my Heart and my everything. I want to spend the rest of my life with you and want to have your love in my life for the rest of my days. I know i dont have a ring right now but as soon as i can afford the ring you deserve it will be yours just like how i am yours. Will you please be my wife?

2007-11-13 10:49:09 · 16 answers · asked by tfrancis_96707 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy is doing sweet stuff like taking a girl out for dinner, introducing her to his parents, eating off her plate at dinner, answering the phone in her presence, tickling, holding her hand etc, is there any need for her to worry about him dumping her?

2007-11-13 10:47:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my friend go rejected by my guy friend and she's taking it pretty bad. been sobbing all day and all day and alllllllll day
i personally don't know what she sees in him.. he's really ugly and skinny and immature and stuff. but yeah, i guess she was able to see something that i didn't see in him.
pratically lived in the bathroom during 2nd and 3rd period

well in 5th period when i confronted my guy friend about the situation he was like all emotionless. and say" well i didn't know she liked me".
but then again, i would never ask a guy out because it's unformal and D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-E. if you really liked a guy that much you would wait for him to ask you. and plus, he likes someone, perferrably someone by the name of, B

but then again, it was really bitchy of him to just pretend like nothing happen, and my friend was not crying her eyes out

2007-11-13 10:46:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone keeps telling me marriage isnt easy and that me and my fiance wont make it but i think we will.. i just wanted others advice.
We tell eachother everything.. literally
We talk everyday
we "live" together (we stay at eachothers parents houses 5 months so far in a row)
we use the restroom together, take showers togehter
we have the same "goals" and wants in life.
we are like the same person
we argue but always reslove it
only thing is.. and i dont think it matters is we are 18

We really do love eachother and respect eachother. we have been dating for a while and his family thinks it is the BEST thing ever.. and the living together, yah no one is ever home at either of my parents houses and it really is like it is our house.
another detail. we are mature for our ages.. im not just saying that..we have been through alot together, we share some bills together, we discuss all financial desicions wi

2007-11-13 10:46:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But my only concern is were at different stages in our lives in the next couple of years i would love to become engaged and buy a home. He would also like to buy a home and wants to travel also, hes a commercial diver so with his job he can get up and work anywhere in the world, my job i cant. Do you think he will leave me to work around the country? We love each other and we are so insync with everything we do, we were finishing each others sentences before the first week was over, alot of people as me what its like to date myself, as were so alike. Should i stay with the guy or should i end it now and save myself the heartache in years to come when he wants to go a different path, if he even ends up wanting to travel

2007-11-13 10:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by hope 2 in Singles & Dating

Of this bouquet for a Hawaiian wedding for the bride of course!
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2007-11-13 10:43:03 · 18 answers · asked by justme 1 in Weddings

Does anyone know how we can spice things up... Like going out to eat, going out, sex tips, things that he'd like anything that anyone has....

2007-11-13 10:42:47 · 1 answers · asked by Jessie lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I cannot afford to invite strangers to our wedding. We want people to feel comfortable, but we don't traditionally invite strangers to our parties and it seems strange to have random people at such a personal event.

We have chosen to extend "and guest" invitations only to those that will not know anyone else at the wedding. Most of our other friends are all close and will cheerfully talk to one another. We will of course invite the spouses of those friends/family that are married.

Are there other possible ways of determining who gets an "and guest" invitation? Do people just blanketly allow anyone to come to their wedding? Are there other formulae for figuring this out?

2007-11-13 10:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by weirdiscomplimentary 6 in Weddings

Is it really true that this is a good tip? Or will it make the girl confused on what to do..?

2007-11-13 10:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was wondering what a boy would do if a girl suddenly told you she liked you from the first year you met her. what would your reaction be? what would you do?

2007-11-13 10:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by ♥CaramelDucky♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

we disagreed on something, started arguing, he kept apologizing and begging for forgiveness; i felt so hard done by, told him he we wont see for some time, NOW i feel guilty and wann send him a song or a card, do u have any suggestion? I'd appreciate a quick help.

2007-11-13 10:35:51 · 1 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, I way 10 stone and im 5'10ft but i want to be lighter i havent eaten in a while and wen i do i make myself sick :(. I think my gf is cheating on me so i think im not attractive and that i need to be lighter . I need help i think? Please help

2007-11-13 10:34:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands grandmother is in the hospital dying. The doctor told the family today that she may live 1 possibly 2 days. If my husband doesn't go to work tomorrow and his grandmother is still living, can his employer fire him for not coming to work? He has only been employed with this company for a little over 90 days.

2007-11-13 10:33:32 · 11 answers · asked by dbush1982 2 in Family

We were married for 2 years and have been divorced for 4. He cheated on me and is a recovering alcoholic. Should I give him a second chance?

2007-11-13 10:31:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many songs is appropriate to play?

IS country love songs/wedding songs a good choice?

What other kind of music is played at weddings?

Do I choose ONE song to be played at my wedding so it's special? or many more?

Is background music preferred or no?

2007-11-13 10:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just wondering if women watch porn online...

2007-11-13 10:21:43 · 2 answers · asked by BrainlessGenius 2 in Singles & Dating

im gonna be getting kicked out of school when my college semester ends, i have been lying to my parents about everything involving my grades and school, i told them i want to work instead of going to school. in reality i have no other choice but to work now that im being kicked out of school. I feel so guilty lying to them about it but i know they will kill me if i tell them, i dont know if they would even be able to trust me again

2007-11-13 10:15:32 · 4 answers · asked by james 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was thinking bout my first kiss with my boyfriend and it was the best ever!

2007-11-13 10:11:23 · 20 answers · asked by purplegal 3 in Singles & Dating