I know I've asked asked questions before about having problems with my bf and things have gotten better. but..

Question

Does anyone know how we can spice things up... Like going out to eat, going out, sex tips, things that he'd like anything that anyone has....

Answer 1

Short of talking honest to each other about your life experiences, your ideals, your hopes, your dreams, your fantasies, your purposes in life, your perceptions of this world, your ideologies, your religions, your view on politics, basically relating honestly the way you feel, you do stupid crap like look for places to go out, sex tips and just basically anything that distracts you from facing the truth. That you wouldn't be asking this if you actually knew each other...... sorry thats how it truly is, relationship councillors do nothing more then help couples breck-down barres of communcation so that they can figure this stuff out for the relationship. Relationships are not generallly the same, becuase people are f'in individuals, two individuals MAKE a individual relationship. So ether you guys are not being honest with each other, or yourselves......