But my only concern is were at different stages in our lives in the next couple of years i would love to become engaged and buy a home. He would also like to buy a home and wants to travel also, hes a commercial diver so with his job he can get up and work anywhere in the world, my job i cant. Do you think he will leave me to work around the country? We love each other and we are so insync with everything we do, we were finishing each others sentences before the first week was over, alot of people as me what its like to date myself, as were so alike. Should i stay with the guy or should i end it now and save myself the heartache in years to come when he wants to go a different path, if he even ends up wanting to travel
2007-11-13 10:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by hope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i reckon if you have found true love then keep while everything is great,love is hard to find,an maybe you can go with hI'm if he decides,to follow work else where,im 36 an my man is 26,an we get on great ,an have done for 6 yrs now,just go with the flow.
2007-11-15 12:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by yuppers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you feel that you really love this guy and the guy loves you back as much, then nothing is wrong and you should keep the relationship. Although I am concerned that you may be hurt during times because if he is 19, then that is the time when he goes to college and figures out what he wants to do. So if he does want to go a different path, then let him and try to keep the relationship, but if it gets to painful or stressful for you, then I think you should just give up and try to be friends. If you are sad, then he might be sad too and that's not good for anyone. Good Luck.
2007-11-13 18:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by DCD4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you have said, you should stay together but maybe for a couple years you shouldn't get too involved emotionally just in case he does leave.
2007-11-13 18:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to voice your concerns to him rather than asking complete strangers.
Again... I have to say communication is key in a relationship.
If he truly loves you then he will stay with you no matter what.
2007-11-13 18:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
19 sounds kinda young, I doubt he'll be looking for marraige in 2 years
2007-11-13 18:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋