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Question

ehmygod.
my bf and my best friends bf are best friends also, so like yeah.
well i go to an amazing church and like im a major jesus freak.
so like our bf's are both stoners :[.
and i hate that. one time they both showed up at my church stoned. and all my friends were pretty mad at all of us.
i love him and everything but i hate what he does helpp.

Answer 1

tell him how you feel and ask him to change give him alittle while if you see a change im him give more time to become sober but if he does not change after a while i say you have to let go even if it's hard but after a while you could get sucked into it or he will hold you back from alot of thing and yu wouldnt want to get to attached and then something happen to him if he really loves you he will stop...

Answer 2

Dump him, both of you. They are losers and will always be losers. Once they are set in there ways they won't change. I sadly know what I am talking about. I just lost two friends to drugs. The first was murdered on September 21 and the second was murdered on September 24 buy the same guy. Then he killed himself. I wish I was kidding but sadly I am not. Drugs are NO good. No good has ever come from them. If you choose to continue your relationship with this guy, I can guarantee you will miss out on someone that actually cares about you and has more to offer you in life than going from one job to another and always trying to make ends meet because they have no drive to better themselves..

If you don't believe me, I can introduce you to two or three dozen people that are caught up in the drug world. Some are exchanging their sexual abilities for a hit of crack or a blob of heroin. Others a robbing homes to support their habits.

Ask any question and I would love to answer it. I love one love because of drugs and I would give nearly anything to see others not affected by what drugs have to offer.

I hope this answers your question.

Mike
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Answer 3

When I was young I married a stoner and thought that he would grow up eventually or I could change him. 17 years later and I was still with him, and not quite so happily anymore. I got divorced, but feel that I wasted a lot of good years on someone that never had any intention to be anything other then what he was. Don't waste another minute. Move on.

Answer 4

C'mon, be serious now, if you are a religious person and love God and go to chruch, what the hell are you doing with this loser. On the other hand, if you're just going to church for show, because of family, parents, whatever, then who cares. If you're serious about your religion, get rid of the guy...

Answer 5

Tell him that.

Tell you love him, but you hate that he does drugs

Also talk with your best friend to see if you can get some support.

If you two are going to call these guys on what they are doing, you had better be prepared to break up with them.

You are worth so much more and can get a better guy!

Answer 6

You have to prioritize what is more important to you. Your beliefs, very important. Stoner boyfriend. Not as important.

Answer 7

you really need to tell him that.
which is more important? you or drugs? it better be you caz you will have less consenquenes than drugs will.
tell him its ESPICALLY unappropriate to be stoned at a church.
tell him you dont mean to hurt his feelings, but hes hurting yours by doin this

sry for my spelling!

Answer 8

Talk to him about it first, tell him how you feel. He needs some help getting through that.

Answer 9

you can't love someone if you don't love what they do and who they are. he's a stoner. he smokes. that's who he is. don't try to change him you two just aren't compatible.

Answer 10

dump there dumb butts