My new gf cries whenever we have sex. Should this be freaking me out or is it normal?

Question

She tells me everything is okay & to go on, but it's getting kind of uncomfortable. Does anyone else cry during sex?

Answer 1

Have you considered asking her?

Answer 2

It may be that it is painful to her. You need to ask her, and tell her that it is ok if it is, but that you need to know so that you can reposition. It may be that she has a tilted cervix, and depending on the way in which you "do it" will be extremely painful for her. If she is not experienced with sex then she probably does not know this. The other thing that it may be is that some women just cry during and after sex, it is just that emotional for them. and yeah, it is alright...more than likely if she is just one of those crying kinds, then she will pretty much always cry. Just talk to her, so that the 2 of you can figure out if it is the position in which you are entering her.

Answer 3

I wouldn't call it "normal", but it's been known to happen. It may not mean she's sad or in pain - but rather that she's just very, very emotional. People cry when they're happy, or sad, or excited....you can never tell.
Have a chat with her about it. Don't push her too hard, as it may be embarrassing for her. But make it clear that you're worried about her and you want to make sure everything is okay. It may take her a bit to get her thoughts together, but she'll probably explain it to you. And she'll appreciate your concern.

Answer 4

Wow, sounds pretty interesting, and I don't know that anyone here has the answer. I could mean a hundred and one things, and I think until I knew what was going on, I would abstain and tell her it freaks you out too much for you, and you need to know why before you do it again. If you find out it is something bad, and you really care for her, wouldn't you feel bad knowing that she is dealing with something bigger than the both of you?

Answer 5

Dear Sir,
Maybe she is crying because you are just so darn good at it!
Or either she is crying because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings if she is feeling inadequately satisfied.
I suggest no sex for at least 3 months, heavy petting, kissing and lots of spooning is ok. Be a gentleman, above all be more attune to her sensitivity and needs and not your own.

Answer 6

Thats pretty weird!

Maybe something happened to her before and she always crys during sex now. Just ask and tell her how it makes you feel.

Answer 7

People reach levels of orgasms in various ways. A woman knows her body and should know when she is ok. Some women scream like bloody murder and other seem to hyper ventilate (one I had did that and scared me until she said it was ok). So, enjoy the fact you are bringing her so much joy.

Answer 8

I don't think it's normal for her to cry every time...but she may just be an extremely emotional person. Talk to her about it and question why she does this. If it's painful for her you need to know.

Answer 9

during? no, that does seem somewhat odd. however, i have heard of women crying immediately after the big O. the adrenaline rush and endorphine release results in an emotional release, crying.

Answer 10

i cry after sex, BECAUSE ITS SO GOOD! so if she says shes okay, shes okay. for me, after all the energy has built up, it needs to be let out, by orgasming and crying ( for me ). i think its weird, but everyone always acts differently during sex.

Answer 11

I use to do that when i was with my new bf..I can't explain why this happens but I guess its because we are happy and feel so loved. It only happens when the sex is really intense and it was out of this world. I know you feel like you did something wrong but that is not the case. Try talking to her about it afterwards that usually helps me.