2007-11-13 12:16:24 · 18 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Its your wedding.You can do anything you want..........
2007-11-13 12:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
I was going to do the same thing. My step father has been in my life for twenty years. I talked to him and he decided that he didn't want to take that away from my father. Therefore, I am having a special dance with him that will be a surprise after all the other dances are done. I would talk to him first and see how he feels...or both of them. If he isn't too keen on the idea, think about a dance
2007-11-13 15:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by hokeygurl019 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having my dad and my step dad walk me down the aisle they are both a big part of my life and love to no more than the other. I am happy to have to wonderful people in my life. So go for it it is your day and you can do what ever you want to do.
2007-11-13 15:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would discuss with both of them first and see if it is ok with both of them even though its your wedding it can cause conflict betweent the two them hopefully not. My 9 yr old son is walking me down the aisle and half way down the middle my dad will come and both will take me the rest of the way.
2007-11-14 00:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very wise in this decision.... my step-daughter has her father, my hubby, and a step father who has been very good to her for a good ten years or so.... she asked both dads to walk her down the aisle.... the step dad first, then he handed her over to her father, who walked her to the preacher.... and when asked, he replied with 'Her mother and I do"..... all cool, right?.... not.... he agreed to this, but there was a big part of him that HATED having to share that walk with his daughter.... he didn't know it would hurt that bad.... so be sure you know your fellas really well and know that they're gonna be okay with this idea.....
2007-11-14 05:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right or wrong way on your wedding day, you can walk down the aisle with whomever you want, it's your day you do what you feel would be important to you, i know that Jewish people have both parents walk them down the aisle, my friends brother just got married to a jewish woman and well thats what she did since it's tradition, but i know plenty of people that walk down with their brother, even sister sometimes so there are no rules at all .it's your day make it special, make it count!
2007-11-13 12:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Loly 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The person who raised you should walk you down the aisle!
2007-11-14 15:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by CreoleSista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your day and you can do what you want. Just make sure with both the father and stepfather are ok with it. I think that would be a lovely thing to do.
2007-11-13 14:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by mandym82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a wonderful gesture. Be creative and the first to set something new to a grand event. "The Father's of the Bride." This is a happy event and no one should be slighted. It's the Bride's call, whatever the Bride wants the Bride gets!!!!!!!
2007-11-13 12:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Titus12 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Judging by your question, it appears that your stepfather and father had equal hands in raising you and you would like to honor them both by having them walk you down the asile together. Just tell them that and stick to it!
2007-11-13 13:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by The Evolution of T. 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its u wedding and u can do what u want...but if u feel like one or the other would be offened then talk to them and tell them what u want and see if they will say yes to it...but again its ur wedding ur day and u can do what u want
2007-11-13 13:12:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋