I got mad and left when he called he was crying .The next day he said he thought he lost me.No man has ever done this for me I dont know what to think so I need help?
2007-11-13 12:05:25 · 12 answers · asked by Cynthia B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience it's emotional blackmail and nothing to do with love. If he really loves you and doesn't want to lose you then he will want to address what made you mad in the first place and sort it out.
The real indications of love are not seen so much in a crisis situation but in everyday life, he accepts you, he'd rather be with you than anyone else, he does little thoughtful things just to make you happy.....
2007-11-13 21:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by susie03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy once ignore me for MONTHS only to show up at my door out of the blue to "take me to one last dinner" the day he found out I was moving 500 miles away to be with my new boyfriend. He took me to dinner alright... and when we got back to my apartment he sat there crying and saying how he wished he had paid more attention to me.
Then, when my boyfriend called, found out he was there, and insisted that he leave, the crying guy suddenly switched into begging mode... he wanted to get laid, badly, and that's all there was to it. I made him leave anyway.
Don't be fooled... it COULD mean he loves you, but it could also mean that he's upset that you could be revoking something else.
2007-11-13 20:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the reason you got mad and left if something stupid then you should stay.
If it was something justified and the relationship isn't working then you should still leave him.
Tears don't change anything. It really isn't that big a deal that he cried...
2007-11-13 21:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! My boyfriend's cried before in the same situation - they're human with emotions too! Go back round and see him and give him a cuddle the big pillock!
2007-11-14 03:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he sounds as if he really is in love with you. Don't knock him back, get in touch and say you are sorry that you got mad at him but want to make up with him.
2007-11-14 03:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many possibilities of man crying.
Good part: he is honest with his feeling, he can show you the weak part of him
Bad part: he could have problems with controlling his emotion
or fear of abandonment.
Try to observe him, I trust you can find out.
good luck
2007-11-13 20:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might BE IN LOVE with you - different from loving you.
He might be manipulating you - also different from loving you.
He loves you, he'd tell you so. He'd tell you why. He'd tell you every day.
Just because he cries doesn't mean you need to run to him with a box of tissues. It just means he's suffering. Now this might be because of you, because of his feelings for you or because of something else completely.
(In fact, he might not be suffering at all and just wanting you to think he is)
2007-11-13 20:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run. He wants to manulate you and to control you. This is not love. The more control he has over you the more he will destroy your esteem and confidence. DON'T GO THERE. He is a very weak man.
2007-11-13 20:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only babies and young children cry, the only exception should be at funerals and on hearing about a death.
2007-11-14 02:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by clovernut 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't necessarily have to mean that he loves you...it might just mean that he's an emotional guy. I don't know him so I can't say.
2007-11-13 20:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by diva9047 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋