we know each other 4 three moths.
we had sex 8-10 times.
we meet six days a week & spend 5-6 hours daily.
now she says that she needs to attend classes as her attendance will be short, but i know she wants to test another guy.
i fell insecure even though i am better in every sense than that guy as i love her.
Note:- she cried yesterday when we were about to break up. she cried loud.
DEAR EXPERIENCED YAHOO MEMBERS, WHAT YOU SAY or SUGGEST?
2007-11-13 12:03:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask yourself; Do I trust her? and if not, why not?
Has she given you a reason not to trust her or are you just paranoid and insecure? Do you have any proof that she's been unfaithful?
Finally, do you love her? If the answer is no, then there's no point in dragging the thing out longer than it needs to. That will just hurt both of you even more. Even if you do love her though there has to be trust in the relationship. If there is no trust between you, no matter how much you love each other it will never work out, because suspicion is poisonous and it will eventually ruin all the time you spend together.
Trust her. If you can't, get out.
2007-11-13 12:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by David M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peter,
It sounds to me like you two are spending too much time together, too soon. Everyone needs a little space. And if she really needs time for classes, why would you immediately think there's another guy involved. I kind of missed the break up part, as in why?
If you really want to succeed in a relationship (although you may sometimes play the fool), you should trust someone until they give you a real, clear reason not to trust them! Then, you break up and never trust them again.
And if you're already broken up and are not interested in patching things up, I find clean breaks to be the best ones.
Good Luck!
2007-11-13 20:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, i'm an Experienced Yahoo! Member, and I have to say...GET A LIFE. No offense, but why are you doing 'stuff' like that with your friend? You know? What has this world come to today? Do you NEED that? No...you should be attending to your studies better...you know? Do you want to have a wife and kids someday? She's just a roadblock, forget her...you don't love HER, you love what she gives you. And that's pathetic.
2007-11-13 20:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alright dude BREATH she probably is NOT cheating on you she probably just has alot on her mind i mean we're girls for christ sake. just take her into the bed room see what she does, if she acts strange or wierder (no offfence) than usual then you know something is up. but until then remember all the good times yall have had and dont let things get to you so eaisly, its probably nothing. dont accuse of anything unless you want to lose her.
2007-11-13 20:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really think that we need to know how many times you guys have had sex no offence and yes she can cheat on you
2007-11-13 20:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't you think she need a break from you, and keep her mind on her education. I think u are so insecure, if she for you your will be back together.
2007-11-13 20:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course she CAN cheat on you, just as you CAN cheat on her. Your insecurities seem to be a HUGE problem.
2007-11-13 20:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pork tht hoe 1 more time,then kick ehre to the Kurb
ahaha i m not kidding id do tht
2007-11-13 20:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by Joe T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋