I love my mom, and I wouldnt do anything to hurt her. Though, a scary thing has happend. She is getting the clue that I may no longer be a virgin but tends to ignore it. I pictured what would happend when my boyfriend and I tell her, though I couldnt possibly imagine what she would do or say. What in the world or how in the world do I tell her?
2007-11-13 12:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by Nika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHY tell her? Is it going to make a difference? Let her think her little princess is the same as always. BE SMART and don't get pregnant because that will give it all away!
2007-11-13 12:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As with most life questions, there is no right or wrong answer. Does your mother have a girlfriend that you can talk to. She may be able to help you decide. Or an aunt that you can talk to first. Are you the oldest daughter or youngest? Your mom may already suspect, but don't assume anything. Once you decide to tell her, you may want to write down your thoughts on how she has been an important person to you and how much respect you have for her. Don't just drop the bomb. She is the one person in life that will love you no matter what, but she has feeling too. Good luck.
2016-05-23 01:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything! She doesn't want to know and if you feel for her the way you say, be 100% discreet. You owe that to her. Of course she can figure things out and if she's not harping on you about it, just let her be and maybe she will do the same for you. I hope that you are not too young to understand what you are doing as it is more than just a physical experience...if you are a mature person, then you may know what i am saying, if not, then maybe all of this is just a waste of time anyway. be good to your mom.
2007-11-13 12:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by justagorilla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Well there are things unsaid that are already Understood"
>> I think your mom has already find out that you are not virgin anymore base on her instincts as a mother.
>> Wait for the right moment, proper timing is needed in order to avoid complication of the problem.
>> don't open the topic until she asks .
**if it is inevitabe that your mom is already inquiring**
>>thank her first for being a good mom to you by being always concerned of your welfare. thank her for being always there when you needed her.
>> tell her that this crcucial moment of your life you need her at her side that No matter happens you'll always love her
>> then telll her that you are not a virgin anymore. say sorry and you know the consequences of your actions. Promise to her you'll practicing safe sex.
2007-11-13 12:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by ian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. If you are an adult, then DON'T tell her. If you are a teen, you should sit down and have an honest conversation with her. I am not sure your boyfriend should be there. It could be that she will want to tell you things that he doesn't need to know. Your mother may be hurt or angry or worried to find out you are having sex. However, it is better for her to know so she can help you if you need it.
2007-11-13 12:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'd like to see a doctor to get a prescription for birth control pills. Are you both of legal age?
2007-11-13 12:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Just Hazel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh come on! of course she knows.
i dont think you should say the words, mums and daughters are a unique system.
she will always see you as the little bundle of joy she bought back from the hospital.
dont pop her bubble with your pin.
2007-11-14 09:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't need to say a thing. She already knows. If you're comfortable someday, she'll open the conversation, you can follow...
2007-11-13 12:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go wrecking things by telling her, there's somethings you should tell your parents & some you should not. And i think this is in the do not pile.
2007-11-13 12:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like what you're doing with your boyfriend then don't tell her... but if you don't want to do it anymore then i think you can tell her...
but for me the best is not to tell her, you might break her heart and i know you don't want to do that to your mom..
2007-11-13 14:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by ulupong na pagong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋