Am i normal??....I get pissed off when i come home and discover that my boyfriend has just masturbated!---also i woke up this morning to discover he wasnt wearing his boxes because he took them off to masturbate in the night when he couldnt sleep??-----hello, WAKE ME UP THEN!!....HELP
2007-11-13 12:15:39 · 30 answers · asked by OLAY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be silly.
2007-11-13 12:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by topink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this instead of ever being with you? If not, what's the big deal. Maybe he just wanted it to be quick without making sure you were taken care of too. Some men use it as a sleep aid - they ejaculate, then they fall asleep. I think you are over reacting.
2007-11-13 20:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need for alarm, about 99.9% of males masturbate compared with far fewer females (supposedly). It's a normal and natural activity for either sex to partake. It's nothing personal against you so don't let it anger or surprise you.
2007-11-13 20:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Karen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you should or shouldn't but it sounds like something you need to discuss with him. If he knows how you feel then he may start "waking you up". Maybe he has a reason but again it only will come out through communication.
2007-11-13 20:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by lyrical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.
Most of the guys need to have sex really often.
He may have understood that not all women like to have sex everyday or two times per day each day. So he is doing the job itself.
You must know that it's really annoying when you feel like you want to have sex and it's not possible. No way to wait. It's kind of torture..
About sleeping : it really help to sleep like a female orgasm help a woman to sleep.
2007-11-13 20:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Flip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a pretty natural thing, especially for guys. Their testosterone levels are way higher, which makes them three times more sexually charged than women.
Don't freak...99.9% of guys do it. If you have a problem with his cleanup habits or anything like that, I suggest you just talk to him.
2007-11-13 20:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Hanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be highly pissed off..why masturbate when he has the real thing lying right next ot him, or waiting for him to get home???so, yes, if i were you i would be angry too, you have every right to be.
2007-11-13 20:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mel27.09.08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy to masturbate and as long as you are fulfilled by him there should be no problems. Does he tell you he thinks of other women? That would bother me maybe
2007-11-13 20:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by lover_pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girl says the samething i'm like why can't i and she was like because you just do that when you have a girl. so either you two are normal or you 2 are just picky which i just don't understand. see maybe your boy wanted to release some stress without disturbing you. i said to my girl hen she said that i said " why are you gonna help me"? she was like "i might"! so cool down and just know that guys just do that naturally.
2007-11-13 20:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by mixed_brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not going to lie in saying that it would be kinda gross to find that out...but...many guys do it and its kinda normal for them so i would have to say no dont get mad he probably grew up doing it and he likes it to much to stop...i know that this may be weird to hear but hes a guy so ya lol
if it really upsets you that much though...talk to him about it and see what he says...keep in mind though...be sensitive masturbating isnt really a topic that guys like to talk about...
2007-11-13 20:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by TM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason you should get mad. Its NORMAL to masturbate. Maybe he didn't want to wake you up.
2007-11-13 20:18:38 · answer #11 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋