idk wtf im supposed to do b/c like my effin cell fone just got turned off and like now the only i can talk to my bf is on the comp. he lives in another state so its not like i can go see him or anything.one bad effin thing after another happens in my life and nothing ever goes right. i need someone to tell me what i can do b/c i have soo much pain built up inside me! does anyone have any advice i what i can do?
2007-11-13 12:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by iloveyou.<3. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my bf have been fighting a lot lately and he's acting like its my fault that my parents didn't pay our cell fone bill..(we dont have a home fone) and im 14 for ppl that need to kno.
2007-11-13 12:16:34 · update #1
OK. so when I was in highschool..and we didn't even HAVE cellphones...i'm exxagerating...I spent a lot of time at my friends houses. So your boyfriend and you can't communicate because of special circumstances...work around it. When you're with your friend, use her computer, or ask her if you can use her phone and you'll pay her whatever the extra costs are. Or, now you can text through email. There's computers at schools now and I know y'all don't do what you're supposed to do anyway.
And the other part of the problem is with your parents. Have a civilized conversation with them. Ask them why they didn't pay the bill. It could be that they don't appreciate you running up the bill with the phone calls. Maybe you can work something out with them so that any chores that get done in the house by you get you monetary compensation. Do odd jobs around the house, since you're still not old enough to legally work.
And as for your boyfriend. First off...both of you take a breather. Stop fighting over the little things. Appreciate the time you DO get to talk to each other. Try to get your boyfriend to understand your situation which is...you don't pay the bills, so you don't have any control over it.
I wish you the best of luck with all this. And calm down. Life is a giant obstacle course and things aren't always going to go the way you want them to. Schnitt happens. Good luck and all that good stuff.
2007-11-13 12:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel like that allot to. Its just not you. I hate talking over the Internet because most of the time he doesn't want to talk on the frigging phone! Why do they hate calling us? Why do they expect us to do everything? Yeah its aggravating. A star for you.
Im glad theres someone out there that loves to talk to their boyfriend, but their boyfriend doesnt even make any effort to call you.
2007-11-13 20:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by PRGfUSMC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him online theres nothing wrong with that at all. This boyfriend seems like a bit of an ****, if his making you feel that bad over something out of your control his really not worth being with.
2007-11-13 20:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to a close friend or relative you trust, talk out all that's bothering you. Secondly, why can't you call ur bf on another phone, like your home phone if you have one?
2007-11-13 20:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some yoga. Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Explain the situation to your bf. I'm sure he will understand. The WORLD DOES NOT HATE YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK!
2007-11-13 20:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by tallglassofwater91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter
or an email
Write poetry
Compose music
Become famous - he'll come to you -or at least you'll be able to get your phone turned back on
2007-11-13 20:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new phone..lol
2007-11-13 20:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by <3 luke is here!! <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋