Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

THEN WHY ARE THERE SO MANY DIVORCES. MAYBE ONLY THE HAPPY MARRIED ONE'S RESPONDED AND THE MISERABLE 1'S DIDN'T. I ALSO HAVE READ AND HEARD THAT MOST MARRIAGES ARE NOT HAPPY AND I KNOW THAT IT'S A FACT EVEN THOUGH I'VE NEVER MARRIED

2007-08-18 05:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle is asking me to sign the papers for 2 families of relatives that I have never met before. My family is not very tight and I don't know anything about these people so my initial reaction is that it is a bad idea. However, my uncle is giving me crap about it being for family. Does anyone have any details on the legal aspects or any personal bad experiences of being sued by the people you sponsor or having your wages garnished if the family applies for public benefit programs? Thanks.

2007-08-18 05:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by JAK 1 in Family

I need a confidence booster!

2007-08-18 05:32:49 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you kno its a sin and u go 2 hell.so if ur truly sorry, ask God for forgiveness and never do it again,

2007-08-18 05:32:46 · 23 answers · asked by nobody's kid 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for about a year, she refuses to settle down anywhere, and now is in a position where she has to place to go. They have 5 daughters together, and he claims that he let her move in so I wont have to put my life on hold to babysit. (He's in the Army) The problem is, it feels like they get along better than he and I do. She takes off to go see him at work. She makes it out like I'm hateful to her children. She won't talk to me unless he is in the room, and when he isnt, she's mean and hateful towards me. He won't take my feelings into consideration over this. He thinks I am overreacting and defends everything by telling me they can be "civil" to eachother. I'm ok with that, but I think its a little too much. Ever since she moved in, things have gone downhill, and I'm scared for my relationship. He filed for divorce, recently, and claims that there is no need to divorce her if it wasnt for me. What is going on here?

2007-08-18 05:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by Devinn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if the father has wronged the family by gambling?



I'm asking this because of what happened to my uncle today. Due to his gambling addiction, his wife divorced him and took away his two daughters. They never again reunited.

Today, for the first time in many years, he saw his eldest daughter working at some place. He called out to her, but she ignored him and walked away.

I kinda feel bad for him now, since its like losing a child.
Should my "cousin" forgive him? Or does my uncle deserve this?

2007-08-18 05:23:40 · 12 answers · asked by attiTUDE 3 in Family

I am married to a man in the Army, I was previously married to a very abusive man who cheated on me, I was raped at a fairly young age and lived through many bad relationships with men who cheated, lied and some even threw up the fact that I didnt look like the women in playboy or hustler. When I met my husband, he was so sweet, he adopted my two children as his own and seemed perfect, when he was due to head to Iraq, he promised me there would be no magazines, no porno's or anything like that ( now mind you he made this same promise before we got married, I told him with my past I was very insecure and could not handle anything like this) Well while he was there, he broke those promises, was reading maxim and even went and took a picture with a playboy model that was visiting. When he came home in his stuff I found a list of all the women he thought were hot, listed from top to bottom. He said he was sorry and all that crap. ,

2007-08-18 05:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Barbara C 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad has this program with cpl where he pays the same amount every month wich is 241. a month. Well at the end of the yr. he gets this bill of 2,471.00 and states, thats what he owes. This was not explained to him. Hes had this for over 5 yrs and nothing like this has happend but when we called them they said we have to pay or light will be cut off. So is there anything we can do to knock off that bill or is that final we have to pay it. I would like to know if anyone else had or has this problem?

2007-08-18 05:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by damackzack 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Love is supposed to be forever. But it often seem that the one that you love does not always love you.

2007-08-18 05:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You had your first real kiss?

2007-08-18 05:17:10 · 26 answers · asked by >>katelyn 2 in Singles & Dating

...to get over a break up?

2007-08-18 05:09:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this is what happan there's this girl who i've had a crush on for about a year or two we don't talk online or on the phone with eachother but when we see eachother she always hits on me and i feel a connection with her. Well we started talking i could tell she wanted to do something she would lay on me and hold my arm. Then she sat on my lap and we looked at eachother she started makeing out with me as soon as we made close eye contact. My friend let us go in a empty room they really wanted me to get some i'm 16 and still haven't had sex. so we had sex it was her second time we didn't really get to finish cuz we though her parents where knocking on the door so we put our cloths back on and i threw away the condom so we were sitting there both still wanted to do it but couldn't I was high and i asked her "so what are we now?" i forgot what she said but it was very akward after that all i did was hold her. i want to be with her but now i think i blew any chance i had with her......

2007-08-18 05:09:30 · 1 answers · asked by Seth G 1 in Singles & Dating

I overheard this conversation between my loves sister and her grandmother.....

The conversation was:

The sister: That is pretty..... Nanna I doubt that she will give it to anyone, if she had one boyfriend - then she may have.... But since she has like 6.... I think its bets if she keeps it herself....

Nanna: Tell her she should not be like that....

I do not know how to react to this please help, I dont know what to say or do....... Help please......
What would you do if you were me?
What should I do?
Any advice.....

She does not know I heard this.......

2007-08-18 05:08:20 · 19 answers · asked by __M___o 1 in Singles & Dating

Thats after taxes, I have a life and I can't afford to keep paying child support.

2007-08-18 05:04:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like hanging with guys. its more relaxing to me. being with a bunch of girls is annoying...lots of drama and stress.

my aunt told me I shoudn't be hanging out with a bunch of guys because "something might happen". I dont knwo what she meant..they might rape me??? thats crazy.

someone give me some advice because I don't like other girls very much and I like having guy friends.

2007-08-18 05:01:53 · 16 answers · asked by ModelBabe2008 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and she doesnt want me in the house while she is gone. She even had the locks changed on me so I cont get in! But this is my home too. How can i do something to still be able to get into my house while she is gone?

2007-08-18 05:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-18 05:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by mars 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I myself don't tolerate cheaters but I know women who do.

2007-08-18 04:54:45 · 20 answers · asked by Survivor 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 04:54:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m really very shy person. so many times i have tried to prapose her. but always i faild... plz give me some right and sensible ideas to get her...

2007-08-18 04:54:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I mix up with peopole, because I dont like to mix up with others now a days. I am a high level govt officer of tax (revnue & treasury) depertment. I dont like my job now. I am 39yrs. Everything I used to like earlier is becoming testless. What is the way to get out of all these trouma ?

2007-08-18 04:51:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have to tell my dad about my pregnancy because this is not planned. i'm scared and i dont know how i will tell him. the father of this baby doesnt know what to do in this situation and cant face it. i dont know what to tell my dad once he asked me about the father of my baby.

2007-08-18 04:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by mypreciousbaby 1 in Family

I beat my boyfried, whos an ****** anyway. I break stuff. I keep breaking things.

2007-08-18 04:44:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello everyone. My husband and I separated a little over a month ago, and he says he wants a divorce. We still talk to each other, but not about us. I mentioned to him the possibility of getting back together, but he was silent and had no response. What are the common signs that he truly wants a divorce.

2007-08-18 04:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by btdt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy at work who I like.
I've been told by one of his friends he likes me too.
The problem is I found out he is or was dating a girl from work. [I dont know which one it is]

How do I find out if he is still dating her?
if yes should I forget about it?
if not should I proceed anything?


Thanks in Advance. <3

2007-08-18 04:40:23 · 2 answers · asked by Nathali 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 04:37:47 · 1 answers · asked by ekta_goyal2001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 5 years and have a 2year old son. I have did alot and now I am in school. He makes really good money and I want to know can I get alimony from the previous years also? And, am I entitled to half of the house and child support? Help!!! He cheated and he deserves nothing!

2007-08-18 04:35:22 · 14 answers · asked by hurt&flames 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 4yrs doesn't seem to show interest in our daughters but once in awhile he will do stuff like once in a blue moon type thing. I feel like I'm doing it all I have a 3yr old and a soon to be 1 yr old. I do the feeding,changing,bathing,bed times, playing everything once in a while he will do some of those things but I basically have to BEG for him to do anything even around the house he thinks because hes the one that works that I should do everything and I mean everything around the house I feel that being a stay at home mom is just like any other job except you never know what to expect when it comes time to parenting right? Hes always going out and when he is home hes in the bedroom doing whatever but not helping me.

2007-08-18 04:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I told my husband he did something to hurt my feeling the other day and instead of him being understanding he turned it all around and started an argument with me. Everytime I try to talk to him about anything it turns into an argument and it ends up being about him. Well anyway since then I've been really depressed and sad and just feel like crying. I feel empty and don't know who to turn too and to make matter worse prior to the argument I found out that day my brother has an aggressive cancer so I don't want to bother my family with my problems. I just wish I had someones shoulder to cry on right now.

2007-08-18 04:30:10 · 14 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love with this guy who has been my best friend on and off since the 8th grade....

we starting getting involved only last summer and up until 2 months ago everything was great then he got arrested and since he's already got a lot of problems, DUIs and volation of probation from this last arrest hes going to jail for quit sometime..he is currently out on bond waiting to be sentenced The problem is that the night that he got arrested he called me the next day told me what happend then he has quit calling, hanging out, and talking to me period. What's going on here? Also he's been doing drugs and have lots of little flings with like every women I know. Its like he went wild. Is this normal? He's a man whore druggie now awaiting jail time. But I'm still in love with him..what do I do. Its like he wants nothing to do with me and wont even take the time to give me an reason.

2007-08-18 04:27:18 · 12 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating