I don't know if she wants to be in a relationship with me!!!!!?

Question

Ok so this is what happan there's this girl who i've had a crush on for about a year or two we don't talk online or on the phone with eachother but when we see eachother she always hits on me and i feel a connection with her. Well we started talking i could tell she wanted to do something she would lay on me and hold my arm. Then she sat on my lap and we looked at eachother she started makeing out with me as soon as we made close eye contact. My friend let us go in a empty room they really wanted me to get some i'm 16 and still haven't had sex. so we had sex it was her second time we didn't really get to finish cuz we though her parents where knocking on the door so we put our cloths back on and i threw away the condom so we were sitting there both still wanted to do it but couldn't I was high and i asked her "so what are we now?" i forgot what she said but it was very akward after that all i did was hold her. i want to be with her but now i think i blew any chance i had with her......

(her friend told me she always though I was cute...)after we had sex i asked her

so what are we now? i was high i and wasn't thinking when i said that after that we didn't even start kissing again all i did was wrap my arms around her and watch T.V. then i went home and haven't talked to her since WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HER NEXT TIME I SEE HER I DON'T WANT TO BE AKWARD WITH HER AGAIN!!!!
i didn't give her my cell number and i'm not sure if i should talk to her on myspace. did she just want to hook up with me or does she want something else i can't tell! I've never had a real relationship before and i really want to start one with her!!! Please comment me!!!

Answer 1

Your not ready for a real relationship, your still figuring YOU out. So don't get caught up to deep on this, for some many reasons that I don't have time to explain. Just don't take any relatinoships at your age seriously. Live and learn, educate yourself, and don't go all head frist into a serious relationship. Your not ready, she's not ready, your to young, just have fun being that, too young, to take life to seriously. It well save you ALOT of heart ache. And don't go thinking this is one of those, he doesn't understand how much I care! Trust me I know about LOVE, it doesn't come down to your LOVE, its about being able to use it, which quite frankly, obviously, you still got some learning on that to do, so just CHILL, homie and enjoy the fact you got your thing wet, because thats nothign close to how you start a deep and meaningful relationship. Again focus on you at this age, because all focusing on someone else is going to do is destrate you from becoming a full person. Love isn't simple....