Family & Relationships - 18 August 2007

2007-08-18 06:43:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you know that a guy likes you (romantically) and you like him (you're single) at least as a friend but maybe more and he is leaving the organisation so you will not see him again.

If he gives you a note letting you his feelings towards you would you call him if you like him? If no, why not?

If not, what would make you pick up the phone?

2007-08-18 06:36:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, this lady from work wants to bring me out for supper tomorrow night. Her daughter (age 12) is also coming, and she is really looking forward to it, I am really only going because I dont want to disappoint her daughter. I dont really like this lady, she's nozy, thinks she's always right, and she doesnt think before saying things. Anyways, she offered to pick me up, I dont want her to pick me up. I dont even want my bf to meet her and I dont want her here. So anyway, I was just going to tell her that I would meet her at the restaurant...she'll probably still insist on picking me up, So this is my question, whats a good excuse to use to tell her that I have to MEET her there?????

2007-08-18 06:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm currently dating this guy who I feel doesn't even have the feelings for me anymore!! I practicly go to bed every night crying!! Its hard for me to express my feelings toward him and tell him becasue he blows up at me!! and when ever we get to see eachother its like pulling teeth!! and get this I even have a hotts for this fine Guy!! I mean my guy doesn't even seem like hes even trying to move forward in this relationship!! Hes hardly working hardly sees his daughter and hardly sees me!! boy oh boy what to do!!

How do you tell someone that you want to break up but with out breaking his heart?

I mean im not telling him that he can't see his daughter, but on the other hard hes really not up for the challenge to be a father figure to her, but with him working all the time and hardly gets to see her, its like hes not even trying, and I want the best for my little girl!!

2007-08-18 06:31:14 · 17 answers · asked by ~*^_^Charity^_^*~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 06:30:50 · 1 answers · asked by Wrong number 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pakistani Women?

2007-08-18 06:30:47 · 3 answers · asked by pizzapie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 06:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 21 years old. 4 years ago I met the girl of my dreams, she is perfect in every way possible and I love her to pieces. The point is for the past 4 years I have been lying to her and she has found out. I lied about really stupid things for example my age, i said i was a year older so that i was the same age as her. I said I could drive when really i cant. I told her stories about my past that really werent true just to big myself up. I am madly in love with this girl but since finding out i lied she has left me and is having doubts of our relationship ever working again. How can i convince her how much I love her and how much I want to be with her. Ive tried showering her with gifts and have even tried proposing. I know she still loves me she has admitted it to me but the trust is not there anymore, to be honest i dont care if she trusts me or not. I just want her back in my life. Back my side. ADVISE ME PLEASE X X

2007-08-18 06:27:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister in law asked me to go shopping with her to get some things for our in laws anniversary party and also help her put together a scrapbook for them. She called a few days later and told me that her and another brother in laws girlfriend and her went and picked up the things and that they were going to do the scrapbook this weekend. All of a sudden I'm not invited but, she let me know how much everything costs thinking that I was going to help pay for the things that they bought. WTF? I told her that we were going to pay for the cake and our part of the dinner and they could deal with the rest. Was that good enough or should I have gone off on her?

2007-08-18 06:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by inluvwithb 3 in Family

my husband and i have been fighting off an on for a little while now. we are currently in marriage counseling now. our recent fight over the last two days has now ended with him out of the house. these are some of the comments made to me:

freak
you're discusting
i have two hundred and some odd pounds of problems
who pays for you to use the internet
who pays for you to take that ice cream to the party
all you do is leave the house (i take my son somewhere everyday whether it be just a stroller ride or up to the pond to feed the ducks)
boy they'll let anyone be a mother won't they

and etc etc etc..these are just some of the things he says to me. last night i just couldn't take the verbal battering any longer and told him either to leave or i would. it was midnight. i hated, HATED to wake up my 14 month old son to leave. i felt my husband should have. he refused. the cops were called. i left w/ my son.
my husband calls later and says that he will leave so our son

2007-08-18 06:24:00 · 17 answers · asked by Jules 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 06:23:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-18 06:20:58 · 16 answers · asked by glamourous! 3 in Singles & Dating

My grandpa died last week. My grandma live in the only 2-story house in a really bad, crime infested neighborhood. The family has voted me best choice to go live with her, but I can't do that. We also can't put her in a nursing home. So what options are there? She lives in South Bend, Indiana.


Someone that has had a similar issue, please help!

2007-08-18 06:20:41 · 4 answers · asked by x_kookoo4kokopuffs_x 4 in Family

im so embarssed and i dont want to face them. what can i do?

2007-08-18 06:20:23 · 10 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Friends

Do you think its possible to fall in love with someone you meet on the internet? Do you think most people on chats are looking for a love adventure?

2007-08-18 06:17:53 · 9 answers · asked by ☆MiraLaStela☆ 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex and me mess around a week ago. He and me were in a long relationship but he say I push him away. It happen that now we are in the same state, and so he started dating this girl, and well they have problems. He say I did not want him and so he chose her. Then last weekend, he is telling me how happy he was with me and how he wants to be with me. I am confused he always does that. I know it was wrong of me to mess with him, I felt awful since I never done something like that because I would not want that to happen to me . I don't know if he still does have feelings for me or what I am so confused. Advice Please

2007-08-18 06:14:21 · 22 answers · asked by susi 1 in Singles & Dating

WELL MY FIANCE HAD TO MOVE TO ANOTHER CITY CAUSE HIS JOB REQUIRED IT BUT I DECIDED TO STAY BEHIND CAUSE OF SCHOOL....WELL NOW HE BARELY ANSWERS MY CALLS AND SOMETIMES HE TELLS ME IT HIS MOM ON THE OTHER LINE AND HANGS UP ON ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING IM CONFUSED...I KNOW THERE COULD BE A POSSIBILITY HE'S CHEATING ON ME...I JUST DON'T KNOW :(

2007-08-18 06:09:31 · 34 answers · asked by boricua1231 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom behaves in the same range or a 14 or 16 years old girl. She is focuses on my brother's "rock band" - which has on more than one occassion had to police called to our house for noise pollution (which she talks abotu how embarassing it is for having the cops come to our house afterward), and she also spends a rediculous amount of more on clothes, jewelry and purses.

I dont want to say the "roles of women", but in a marriage that started out one way...should stay similar to that way. My dad works full time in a steel factory, and my mom stayed at home taking care of kids, taking care of evertyhing in the house hold (food, clothes, ect).

My dad can't retire because he has to cover the credit card bills my mom is racking up! $250 dollars just yesterday! Nearly $2,000 two months ago. And hundreds in between.

She buys me things to buy my love? They are nice things...I dont want to take them, but she washes the clothes so they cant be returned.

Should I be angry or not?

2007-08-18 06:08:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 18, almost 19, and still trying to figure out what I want to do with my life. I was thinking about a career in anthropology or forensic science, but every time I bring it up, my parents (mostly my dad) say that since I'm not good at math, that I'll never be able to get a job like that. He always tells me I need to settle and go to trade school and work with computers or something. But, I don't want to. It feels like he wants me to settle and be unhappy with his job, just like he and my mom did. What would you do if you were in a similar situation?

2007-08-18 06:04:43 · 9 answers · asked by LivingDeadKat 4 in Family

2007-08-18 06:04:07 · 16 answers · asked by Angie T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 05:56:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP!!! schools starting soonl and i am always bullied by all the girls in my grade. is there anyway to get them to stop bullying me? my mom has already discussed it with the teacher but she didnt do anyhting about it and my princible wont do anything about it either. the bullies parents already know that they bullie me and are ok with it. dont say that if you act like it is not bothering you they will leave you alone cause they wont. these are the type of girls that if you act like it is not bothering you they willl bother you more to bother you. and if you act like it is bothering you they do it more so no matter what i do they keep doing it. there had been a few days where it has been so bad i have come home and treid to suffacate my self in my closet( wich by the way didnt work.) please help me!!!!!

2007-08-18 05:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by SODA pop :) 2 in Friends

if you know there is something that is going down and have to say it may be illegal and involves my fiancee. afraid if i say anything relationship may be jeopardize really all i want to do is help him realize the mistake he is making. every time i say something regrading this issue he is like you overreacting. and i don't know if i report him to the cops would he take that as an insult or would that be a step in the right direction. i love him for everything he is worth but this issue may kill the relationship. i have asked him a few times to stop he keeps saying i will but he hasn't please advise me on what i should do need any advice possible? also how do you get someone to stop making dead promises another of the issues? thanks in advance. for you all of you answer be as kind as you can please.

2007-08-18 05:51:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, how can I style a wedding ring with 9 small diamonds to sit under a pear shaped knife cut solitare engagement ring.

2007-08-18 05:50:32 · 3 answers · asked by jaimed1010 1 in Weddings

2007-08-18 05:47:10 · 5 answers · asked by MoPleasure4U 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you think? Let me know.

2007-08-18 05:45:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I miss the fact that she was such a confident and secure woman.

She was intelligent, kind, attractive, and hard-working.

I hate that I have to now find a woman like that again when we all know that all these qualities in one woman is very rare. I should have kept her.

2007-08-18 05:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-18 05:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by La Juanda B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend has a fiance' and he is a dick to her. I love my bestfriend with my whole heart. But he gets jealous when she talks to people online. And he told me the last time they fought that if they got into it again he would hit her. And she stayed with him. Her and i joked around about how i wanted to talk to her internet friend. And he got really mad and said i was helping her cheat. And that im never allowed at their appartment ever again.

He also said i better watch my back around him & he hopes he never sees me agian. But the worst part in the text messages was him saying that She was going to end up making him kill her. I let her read the messages and hear the voice mail and she is still with him.

She sneaks phone calls to me. THIS IS MY BEST FRIEND OF 7 years! I mean what am i suppose to do? I love her to death but i think she is being stupid for staying with him.

Also, he has an abuse past. He beat his ex girlfriend almost daily. He has never hit my friend though.

2007-08-18 05:38:29 · 15 answers · asked by Chelsea Marie 1 in Friends

I've often wondered about that...

2007-08-18 05:35:22 · 3 answers · asked by sleepingliv 7 in Other - Family & Relationships