help!!!!! bullies!!!!!?

Question

HELP!!! schools starting soonl and i am always bullied by all the girls in my grade. is there anyway to get them to stop bullying me? my mom has already discussed it with the teacher but she didnt do anyhting about it and my princible wont do anything about it either. the bullies parents already know that they bullie me and are ok with it. dont say that if you act like it is not bothering you they will leave you alone cause they wont. these are the type of girls that if you act like it is not bothering you they willl bother you more to bother you. and if you act like it is bothering you they do it more so no matter what i do they keep doing it. there had been a few days where it has been so bad i have come home and treid to suffacate my self in my closet( wich by the way didnt work.) please help me!!!!!

one problem, i dont have any freinds. these girls have spread so many rumors about me no one will even look at me. none of these rumors are true. and i also have treid standing up for myself like 10,000 times. and all they do is go home and tell their mommies all the mean things i did to them even if i didnt do anything!!!! and then their moms call and scream at at us and i have a hard time in school for like the next three weeks. and about the counciler. we dont have one. and about switching schools, we live in a small town. we only have 1 elemetary school, 1 middle school, and 1 high school.

dude all thr kids in my school are complete idiots. one time they did bully me in front of a whole crowd AND EVERYONE STILL WENT ON HER SIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont know what these girls do or why but i hate how they always bullie me. my brother was bullied when he was my age and my parents had to pull him out of school for a week but the district still didnt do anything about it.

gelousy might come in about the part that i am cnampion clogger of the nation, but still i have been one for 7 years and they didnt start bulling me untill the year before last. and the group thing. what group am i going to hang out with? no one will even look at me. even ,y own cousin. *cry*

one of the romurs they said is that i through high heels at this one girl and she had to get stitces. frat of all i dont have high heeled shoes so where would i get them to throw at her in the first place. and i know that is i hit them, i would get expelled fr bulliying even though it was in self defense. yet they are teachers petz. they could whack me in the face and then i could barly tap them on the shoulder and i would get expelled for bulliyng and they would not get i trouble at all. OUR SCHOOL DISTRICT IS MESSED UP I TELL YOU!!!!!!

Answer 1

wow!!!
welll all i can say is stand up for your self ont let people like that bring you down:]

Answer 2

I Am A Nobody, firstly I disagree with the name you have chosen for yourself and it sounds like you have a very low self esteem. So please attempt to someday soon change your handle to I Am A Somebody. But enough of your ego lets try and deal with the issue at hand. If you are being bullied and nobody is doing anything to protect you then perhaps you need to learn how to defend yourself. Now I'm not at all suggesting that you harm anyone but would suggest that if possible that you take some form of self defense course in order to feel more safe. Who knows if you were to do something that might actually put some fear and/or respect from these girls they may even stop their bullying. This is an awful thing to do to anyone but trust me when I say to you that with time this will end, although it may take some time. Speak with your mom and see if she would enrol you into a self defense course, or maybe the two of you could take it together. I know that it sounds like a crock of bull when I ask you to please attempt to be brave and not allow these young girls to control your life, but it is something that hopefully you will consider at least. As far as taking your own life because of the way you are being treated at present this would only make these bullies happy so why satify them. Please try and share what is happening with your mom and/or counselor at school and hopefully someone will try and come up with a solution. And whatever you do always remember how it feels to be the victim of a bully and do not ever bully anyone in order to make yourself feel better. Best of luck and I do honestly hope that if this bullying doesn't stop immediately that it will at least slow down over time and you feel safe. Soon enough someone else will come along for them to pick on and they will leave you alone then. Have a good school year and show them your not going to allow them to attempt to contol your life.

Answer 3

That's a tough situation.
If the school won't deal with it, there are a number of other choices. Your parents could pursue legal action, you could attempt to ignore them, walk away, or try to avoid them.
If it doesn't involve physical abuse, which should be immediately reported to a teacher, counselor, or parent, you can try to deal with it in other ways.
If they get you alone to bully you, don't give them the opportunity to catch you alone. Stay with a group. Then, if they start to pick on you in front of the group, stay calm. Once they've had their say, look at them and respond, as politely as possible, "Do you feel better about yourself now?" Then go on about your business.
Mostly though, try to maintain a perspective. You are a convenient target for their insecurity and low self esteem. That's their problem, not yours. Don't make it yours too. When they realize that they're not actually making you feel bad about yourself, and making themselves look foolish in the process, they'll probably stop.

Answer 4

KICK ***! I used to get bullied when I was young and one day I lost it. I went the f**k off, and from there on out people left me alone. I was no longer bullied but then my new cross to bear was being a violent maniac. I don't know which is worse but maybe you should just go off on the one that you know you can beat up and beat her a**. Don't be scared of these twits just stand up for yourself. It is going to happen sooner or later. You will have to step up to the plate one day. Now, don't go kill anyone or bring a gun to school or push anyone down the steps. I don't want the authorities coming after me if you go to school and gun everyone down. I am just saying, stand up for yourself and don't take on the whole gang, take them on one by one when the timing is right or you might get your a** kicked. Follow your heart. You sound like a nice girl. Don't let anyone push you around. Nothing will get someone off your back like a good a** whooping. You do what you feel is best.

Answer 5

Oh my gosh, killing yourself is never the answer. They sound like a b!tches and since ignoreing them doesnt work you personally need to confront them about it. The next time they bully you in front of a lot of people say something like this, " Ok I get it you don't like me and get pleasure out of my pain, but seriously do you have no life at all because for hating me so much you sure spend a lot of time on me. So please get over yourselves and find a new hobbie." They will be humiliated and embarrassed and will stop unless they want another confrontation.

Answer 6

I had this exact same problem for a few years in elementary and the beginning of middle school.
One thing that might help is talking to the counselor with the girls who bullie you.
Basically think this to yourself when you see them.
"I am strong, I love who I am, I am an individual, and they cant hurt me." They are probably just jealous. Stick with your friends and dont let them bother you. Think about it. If you are strong and dont care about what they say, they will get bored with you and move on. As much as you care about what they are doing, show them that you dont care and that you are totally happy. They WANT to see you suffer. Dont LET THEM SEE YOU WEAK. Be strong girl!
And these girls are going to be the ones that no one likes in a few years so hang in there, and be strong!

Answer 7

Its a very touchy situation.
I was bullied a little in school. but its just ignorance. Maybe you should laugh with them or something. Like if they are making fun of you a/b something say something like " I know!! im so dumb!!!" and be sincere about it. you are ACTING like it Doesnt bother you but in reality it is. And obviously your acting skills arent convincing them. You need to be comfortable with yourself and wih others not being comfortable with you and your certain features. I dealt with it for a long time b4 i realized those girls are the ones that are the most uncomfortable with themselves. And they are stupid

Answer 8

If you want bullies off your back you have to make them leave. When bullies mess with you tell them that you are not afriad of them in this is going to be the last time they bullie you. When you are faced with bullies you have to prove you are strong even if its telling some one how you feel. Tell a parent or teacher if it is really seroius. Most of the time when bullies are being buliies its because they are jealous of you in some way. try to walk away most of the time.

Answer 9

well ths happens to most of people when schooling and the reason behind this is that you might can't say anything bad to them or may be you lack a little confidence.
So my advice to you is to build up your confidence and if those girls bother you try to answer them back rudely and this got to be in anger and if possible try to give a slap to the one who you like to hurt most...
in this way it is possible that you all start a quarrel but i would like to state that first build yourself so strong that you can face them.....for that you can join some gym, or some extra curricular activities.

Answer 10

Beat the shitz out of the stupid asszz . Go wild on them srceam and keep hitting them .When they fall keep it up Sit on them..... So ...you'll get in trouble . You'll be known as KRAZY>>> I tell you this now ...if you do this this way ...noone will ever bother you again . If someone does get 2 inches from thier face ask them if they want a repeat session?!!!! They will back down....They are DUMB ASSZZ anyway........

Answer 11

DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT KILLING YOURSELF. You've got to be strong and tell them in their face to leave you alone. Yes, It's really hard but this is the only solution which gets good results.Also, suggest you file police charges against them because bullying is harassment and harassment is ILLEGAL.I also suggest you go to jodeeblanco.com and email her.