If you know that a guy likes you (romantically) and you like him (you're single) at least as a friend but maybe more and he is leaving the organisation so you will not see him again.
If he gives you a note letting you his feelings towards you would you call him if you like him? If no, why not?
If not, what would make you pick up the phone?
2007-08-18 06:36:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe it depends on his previous relationships and if he is just out for a ride or on the rebound
2007-08-18 06:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by butter436@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I Liked Him, I Would Call Him. But If Not, The thing That Would Make Me Pick Up The Phone Would Be Guilt.
If You Are The Guy In The Situation And She Hasn't Called You, She May Be Nervous, Worried Anxious. Don't Assume Anything.
2007-08-18 06:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Alex asphyxiated™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the note idea cuz if you do something else which might be nice but embarrassing her considering that she might like you only as a friend.
In the note you seriously tell her how you feel truthfully.
If i was her i would give you a call if i liked you and wanted to try it out , but if i didn't don't even try!!
You see it differs from woman to woman some of them really hate the note idea and prefer a guy to be a man and go ask her straight, its not high school to pass notes!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-18 06:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can be a little funny this way, not all though. She might not call you out of being shy. You should exchange numbers with her. That way you can"hey I would love to go for a drink or something to eat with you, we should exchange numbers before I leave." The note thing, not so good. If you really feel that strongly about her, tell her. I know it's hard sometimes to put it all out there but life is too short for regrets. Good luck!
2007-08-18 08:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by zail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*lol* NO. I would definitely not respond to a note. Unless the 'organisation' were school and we were both about 12. If you want her, be brave and tell her to her face or casually ask her out. Confidence and a bit of fighting spirit are very attractive qualities. Don't put the ball in her court in such a childish way and then sit glued to the phone, pining away. That's just silly.
2007-08-18 06:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by amandla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if I wanted to get involved with him in a romantic way. In a way, I would want the guy to ask for my number and to call him. I am not going to call him first especially if he is the one leaving.
2007-08-18 07:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this organisation, like another country or something. I do not get 'will not see him again'. If you are interested and he is ALSO interested. And you are both single, what's to loose?? Take a chance!!
2007-08-18 06:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by MK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I liked him more than just friends and knew I was never going to see him again, I would have to go to him one last time. Let him know how I feeled. Best he knows you love him than to never know.
2007-08-18 06:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Heavens Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i really liked him, then yes definitly would call him, lifes to short for games. Better to just go for it than spend the rest of your life thinking what could have been.
2007-08-20 10:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would maybe feel a little embarrassed as i think most women would to "make the first move" but i think if i had the reassurance that he liked me because he wrote me a note to tell me that, i would phone him as i'm not worried about weather he likes me or not anymore
2007-08-18 06:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would, unless I had other issues that I needed to deal with at that time. Sometimes we never find out why people don't or can't follow up our overtures of friendship/romance.
2007-08-18 06:47:17 · answer #11 · answered by filmwatcher59 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋