My boyfriend of 4yrs doesn't seem to show interest in our daughters but once in awhile he will do stuff like once in a blue moon type thing. I feel like I'm doing it all I have a 3yr old and a soon to be 1 yr old. I do the feeding,changing,bathing,bed times, playing everything once in a while he will do some of those things but I basically have to BEG for him to do anything even around the house he thinks because hes the one that works that I should do everything and I mean everything around the house I feel that being a stay at home mom is just like any other job except you never know what to expect when it comes time to parenting right? Hes always going out and when he is home hes in the bedroom doing whatever but not helping me.
2007-08-18 04:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hi tell him to get off his *** and help u . tell him its not easy for u to do it all . u have to have a life too why should he get to go out all the time and u stay home and do all the work . you should just tell him one night he gos out a week and u go out one day a week . ok it might be to much for him but its to much for u too u both need to get time out from the kids its only the right thing to do and everything should be sheard
2007-08-18 04:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_9322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-18 13:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go on strike. Literally.
With the exception of you and your kids, stop doing anything in the house, no dishes, no cooking, no laundry and no sex.
When he asks what the problem is, negotiate a compromise and get it in writing.
2007-08-18 11:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to talk to him letting him know that you love him and the only way the children are going to know him is if he spends time with them.
2007-08-18 12:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋