i have to tell my dad about my pregnancy because this is not planned. i'm scared and i dont know how i will tell him. the father of this baby doesnt know what to do in this situation and cant face it. i dont know what to tell my dad once he asked me about the father of my baby.
2007-08-18 04:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by mypreciousbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask for understanding as you start to tell him. Go slowly and be close to him. Tell him you are sorry and you know you messed up. Ask him what you should do and will he be beside you during and after your pregnancy. Above all, don't fight and argue. He's going to be angry...keep your voice quiet and let him get his anger out. When it's over, ask again for his support and love. Tell him you need him. Hug him.
Be patient with him, as he must now be patient with your situation. I suspect you'll end up raising the child alone; it's better than having a "dad" around that doesn't want to bother with the child. Remember, anyone can be a father, it takes a special person to be a dad. And get some birth control pills.
2007-08-18 04:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by red 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how old you are, this is a generic answer.
Buck up and get it over with. The longer you take, the worse it is, or will be. Sit him down, alone, and tell him. You and the bf need to go to some pregnancy and parenting classes.
It took two of you to get pregnant, and it will take two of you to raise the child. It's a big financial issue here, and one that can't just be swept under the rug.
2007-08-18 04:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. I got pregnant when I was 14 and I desperately wanted to keep my child. I was afraid my father would lose it. Well he did lose it but got over it. He flipped and started crying for hours. The next morning he said he was taking me home and prepare for a baby. Just choose your timing well I messed up and told my dad on his Birthday. Good Luck and Congrats.
2007-08-18 05:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by lissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get it all out and open cause when u keep a secret then you have to keep on telling more lie and lies to cover that secret and then you just get caught in a complete twist
2007-08-18 04:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋