Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

Thanks!

2007-08-03 18:04:39 · 90 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

we live together and live like were married why not?we have a daugther together and he has another daugther from previos marrige the EX!

2007-08-03 18:03:12 · 18 answers · asked by Someone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really don't care which 1 cuz imma still visit each. I have 2 days 2 answer. My bf n sister live In the state with my dad. My brother, sister n nephew live with my mom. PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-03 18:02:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I currently have a career that I enjoy, love and cannot wait to go to, kids go to a great school they love(so do i).....but kids want to move back

Scared I may not find that "career" and ideal school again..

Still unsure!!

2007-08-03 18:02:25 · 3 answers · asked by angelbear 2 in Family

his body language, etc.

2007-08-03 17:55:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after my dad died i found it so hard to talk with the rest of my family. i exspecally dont want them to be close to me ... i dont want them to know what is going on im my life. i used to be very close to them and was able to share anything and everything with them. i dont understand why this would happen i thought it would pass but he died Nov. 06. i would think that it would make me want to be even closer to them but i dont. why would i do this and is there a way to get over it? i was the closest to my dad. he was my dad and best friend. i dont know if this would have anything to do with it. anything is appreatiated. thanks

2007-08-03 17:53:52 · 4 answers · asked by unratedbabe 3 in Family

he is fat. period. he is unfit. he has blood pressure problems and needs to exercise 5 times a week on prescription by a certified doctor. Its just that he doesnt care. even with his blood pressure, he'll probably live till 70 (currently 49yo) so he believes his life's complete. i know its his life...but i dont ant to lose him. making him fitter will definately increase his lifespan.

so what do you think? should i try and get him fit (i'll ask another question) or should i leave him to lead his own life? Im 14 by the way, just so you have an estimation of how long I have to live.

2007-08-03 17:50:30 · 25 answers · asked by Rastafarianhobo 4 in Family

2007-08-03 17:48:04 · 17 answers · asked by Aly 1 in Singles & Dating

There was a friend of my family that came visit us. We had a wonderful time together, after only 2 days, I feel I loved her very much, and she loved me too. I think it was just a few days short of being in love, she soon left town.

Now, she's back to her town, we are stuck with talking through IM text.

I CAN'T MAKE AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION ANYMORE!!!!

I AM DESPERATE!!!!!!!!!!!

My heart yearns for her so much, but, using the messenger is like I wasn't talking to her at all, our conversation DOES NOT FLOW unless it is fed by body language.

Everything shall be ruined if I can't tell her nice things that will make her feel happy and appreciated. But I'm such a stupid person. If I don't see her smile, encouraging me, I can't think of anything to say, all seems senseless.

If I can't turn this into a long distance relationship I MAY NEVER SEE HER AGAIN!!!! If our relationship turns cold now, it's ruined forever.

Please help!!! I need any advice you can give me!!!

2007-08-03 17:48:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he was going to the store and never came back. 5years later he shows up, I've been hanging out with him, he said he was sorry and a changed man. That he's grown up now and wants to make up for the past. I said ok. So we've been talking for 3 weeks and all of a sudden I think he dissappeared again. What do I do? Call him, ask what happen. Or just let him be...help

2007-08-03 17:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have the money but i have no credit, every where i go they just shove me out the door because i have no credit history but i need a car!! this is so unfair!

2007-08-03 17:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 17:38:54 · 16 answers · asked by Matt S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm no prude (nor am I a Conservative)--I just hate the fact that most people seem to think of marriage as 'disposable'. Prenups, cheating that leads to divorce, working so many hours that hubby & wife hardly see each other, etc. Comments?

2007-08-03 17:37:18 · 17 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 17:36:16 · 25 answers · asked by tigerlily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want the guys to give women a piece of advice on us. And let them pick the best one. I start....Ladies no man wants to be "JUST FRIENDS"

2007-08-03 17:35:21 · 5 answers · asked by MONK 3 in Singles & Dating

plz dont be mean but i'm just saying what if your mom said its okay that you [14] can go out with a 22 yr old? would it still be illegal? no i'm not a sllll*t, i'm still a virgin. i know my mom would let me she lets me do anything. i wanted to gt my nose pierced, so she let me, i cuss infront of her i drink infront of her, and i can leave the house come back and hour later and she wont even say anything. no i am not out of control, i am actually very mature for my age, i hate guys my age. i still manage to get straight A's i'm an honor roll student, and i am home most of the time. it seems like i'm out of control but i am not. i obey my mom, i'm actually her "favorite" child. i am very independent i don't need to be told what to do.
so if shes okay with it, is it legal or no. i like him a lot hes a really funny guy. and i wouldn't do anything he'd force me too, he wouldn't force me to do anything anyways?!

2007-08-03 17:34:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 17:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by saosinfan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 17:28:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a bf and we were together since middle school to our 1st year of college. He was my first...EVERYTHING! When we got to college, I broke up with him, because we were only 18 when he proposed to me, I was totally unprepared. I told him, maybe we should wait awhile cus I was obsessing over my education since I went to a University and he just went to a community college. We both started to change and go our seperate ways, so I thought it was best to see other people. I didn't mean right away! So he started dating a lot of girls and he even admitted trying to make me jealous. Then my stepsister pops into the picture just this year. She asked for my blessing, and I said it was okay, but inside it hurt. Now their getting married in 2 months, even though they were only dating for 4. Now he wants to call off the wedding to be with me. We both feel complete with each other, and belong together, but I don't want to hurt my stepsister, even though she hurt me. What should I do?

2007-08-03 17:28:35 · 21 answers · asked by Serenity 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 6 years and it's like 4 play has vanished.What should I do?Please be nice:-)

2007-08-03 17:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by Felecia K 2 in Singles & Dating

that the words "i love you" should be as common of a word as "pass the remote"?


bcuz to me it seems teens in relationships dont take love serious and say it right off the bat. then turn around and break up. wheres your so called "love" now?

2007-08-03 17:18:43 · 11 answers · asked by hug-whore 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 17:16:57 · 7 answers · asked by wtf 2 in Friends

My friend just recently got married. She was a virgin when she got married. And she still is a virgin now. She and her husband are having trouble having sex. He can't get it in because it hurts her too much. They tried a vibrator to loosen up the hole. It didn't do any good. He also tried his fingers but that was no good either. He still couldn't get it in the hole cause it hurt her too much. I don't know what to tell her. I think their nerves have something to do with it. She is thinking about how it's going to hurt and he is thinking about not wanting to hurt her. He is going at it as slow as he can but still no good. What can they do? I need to know what they can do to first of all relax more (the first night they had the candles, soft music, the whole nine yards but it still was no good)? And I also need to know what they can do? How can they ease the pain and and actually have sex? They have tried lubricate (naturally since it was her first time). Please don't be rude.

2007-08-03 17:16:16 · 11 answers · asked by nicky3162002 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I got back in touch with a girl I went to college with.. I dated her one time... well recently I started talking to her on Facebook. She gave me her number, so I tried to call... no answer. But she does text me a lot, but never calls for some reason... well we were texting a lot, and feeling a connection again... she wanted to meet up tonight but I had to work.. well she was disappointed and all. So we were having a normal conversation and suddenly she says, "I am older than you... normally I date guys a few years older than me. Girls mature faster than guys."

I said, "is that a problem?" And she said.. "No, its cool.."

She still texts me and can't wait to meet back up.. but dang..

What kind of signal am I getting???

2007-08-03 17:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A really good friend of mine is divorcing her husband because he was abusing her and cheating on her. Her soon to be ex hubby told my husband and me that he knows what she is doing every moment, I fear for her life but my husband said stay out of it. I'm worried because she is now talking to someone new and her ex is having all of her calls recorded. This man is psyco and he has tried to kill her several times. I feel she needs to know this information but I hate to go against my husband. What would you do? I think that when she goes to meet her new love they both will be at jepordy.

2007-08-03 17:13:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that alof of people get married on Saturday... but are there any other days that are known for weddings?

2007-08-03 17:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well this heavy chest feeling must be a gut feeling right? not anxiety. i got it with the past two guys. the present guy [[which is the second guy]] gives me warm peaceful feelings, i would like to hang out with him alot, he gets me squealy and happy, i think about him alot, yet when it comes to a relationship, i get this bad feeling in my chest [[not the warmth anymore]] and everything just dies. if im like that and get warmth about him, why not a relationship?

2007-08-03 17:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do people constantly look down on me for being a young mom, I'm just as capable of loving my daughter so what's so bad about it?

2007-08-03 17:09:56 · 16 answers · asked by Melina's Mommy 2 in Family

thinking about my ex g/f makes me depressed and i feel that i didnt really love her..she calls me sometimes "to see whats up" and im not interested in her friendship or whatever she wants..i know she didnt love me and she DONt love me..so im not wastin my time and energy on her..help!!!

2007-08-03 17:07:48 · 39 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Singles & Dating

this is my second writing so im not than good, i wanna know ur opinions about it. thanks


I am a star in the sky
You will never reach me so don’t even try
Don’t bother and send any kiss or hug I am too high
I am always up there, right there
I am too shiny so don’t hurt you eyes
Your staring to me is useless, so don’t beak your neck, you will never get me
My heart is only for one…..Oops, sorry it is not you

" if u need to say anything or ask me anything about it so i can improve my writing please contact me on : missitalian_9@yahoo.com

2007-08-03 17:01:47 · 3 answers · asked by alex atec 1 in Singles & Dating