Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

Why would someone like there own sister? Why I ask? I have never had a sister so I would not understand myself I do how ever have a mother and I do not find her even a little bit attractive which is GOOD!!!

But I have a cousin that I do like shes a close relative cousin too my uncle's daughter I know thats sick and I keep it to myself and would never act on it but I think shes hot. Now I am scared that if I had a sister I may have had a liking for her too?

What makes a person have an attraction to there sister? Is it genetic or something the person is born with like people say with gay people. Does it half to do with loneliness or lack of sexual partners?

I do not think of myself as a freak or anything but I do know that the thoughts of mine are sick. I find lots of other girls more attractive so I'm hoping that counts for something.

Whats your opinion if you know of any scientific study results you can share them if not give your opinion.

2007-08-03 18:54:01 · 2 answers · asked by Brad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok it is like a triangle.
I like this girl.that deosn't like me.but likes another boy that is my friend and he likes her.but where am i.


so tomarrow we are going to play spin the bottle.
but i like this girl.but she deosn't like me.and she likes my friend and my friend likes her but where deos that leave me.
ok so tomorrow we are going to play spin the bottle.as i said like this girl but she doesn't like me.so when it lands on my friend.and she kisses him.should i be happy or glad.and another thing is.he thinks im a dating advisor.so when it comes down to the kiss he wants me to help him.but what i want to know is should i be happy or glad.

2007-08-03 18:52:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its like she playing favoritism. Whenever my little sister does something she's not supposed to like drink her water bottles, she doesn't really get mad at her she just jokes with her but when I eat one of her turnovers she gets mad at me and cusses me out, it's not fair and i know its not fair.

Or when I went to McDonalds to get something for my mom and she didn't have enough money to get the drink with it because of tax, I go in and get what she wants, but just to be nice, i get her the drink and she comes out and says "How do you get a drink and I don't" with an attitude but the thing is I went to go get it for her and i know she felt real stupid after i cut her off and told her it was for her.

She does a lot of unfair things towards me, but these are just some of the petty incidents i had to go through with her. It's like when my sister does something its like "ooohhh that's so cute and you so sweet" and when I do something its like "oh ok". I'm starting to really hate her!

2007-08-03 18:51:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

it seems like every relationship falls apart.. i know they have to go through rough times but my question is Does everyone have to get heartbroken? does every couple HAVE to break up..or take a break..? sometimes i hear people do stay with the person they love but in between all that they have problems and they date other people...is it possible that that doesnt happen...?

2007-08-03 18:49:29 · 18 answers · asked by Pretti iiN Piink 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 18:49:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have alot of fighting and tears behind us, and I found myself slipping away from my husband. I have considered divorce, but now I think it would be better for all if I try to just fall in love with him again. Is that even possible? How can I rediscover long lost feelings?

2007-08-03 18:47:46 · 20 answers · asked by bluebyou 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Now that i've got your attention please read on...

This question is particularly directed to my fellow bachelors all over the world! So the other day I was pondering with my heavy thoughts and I thought that I might give The Love Game a go, So ladies, I’ve warned you once, and that’s all the warning you’ll get.

I’m quite new to the whole dating game, and I’m having trouble finding a rule book at all, let alone finding a instruction manual that suits my own personality. You see, the elusive female species seem to have unique code of their own which only queers can understand.

I have tried all the possible side streets to this Love Game and to no aril.

Romance is one of my strongest weapons, and It seems that it’s also my weapon of choice! However lately, I’m finding that my Romance Experience Level is close to none, More recently I’ve used this weapon to attack an unsuspecting female specie, only to get an empty pot plant directed in unfashionable manner (thrown to the head).

2007-08-03 18:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3 in Singles & Dating

Get breast implants?

2007-08-03 18:44:52 · 12 answers · asked by "Priest" 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a 14 yr old daughter that i got custody of because of her mothers drug abuse. i gave her the world, i wanted to show her the good life. i recieved a call from her teacher one day, informing me that he was kicking her out of his class due to disrespect. so i grounded her. she had big plans to go to a party on new years, i told her no. that night she left with her mother at 2am while i was asleep and went to the police and put child abuse charges on me. so the following week i went to court to get sole custody papers, only to be served with a protection from abuse order. she crossed from missouri into ks so my hands were tied. all the charges were thrown out due to the bruise color chart but the worthles mother now has custody of her. this woman has lost her other daughter, put one kid up for adoption and has another on the way. the kcks court granted her custody, she quit her job, draws welfare and is now going for child support. what do i do?

2007-08-03 18:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by sagitariun4u 1 in Family

This is suppose to be new. I have had a man tell me that when a man looks at a woman angry this means that he wants to have sex with her. Have anybody else found this to be true? And how do you respond?

2007-08-03 18:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been married for 7 yrs we had a bad patch and the kids and i left when we came back i asked did you cry for us and he said no. i have never seen him cry is this normal or is he an ice king?

2007-08-03 18:41:51 · 17 answers · asked by sweet young thing 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a non-white guy, and, am simply attracted to white girls. I have been advised that Malls, coffee shop, etc, are places where I can meet these girls and a possible future date. However, I have no clue how do these girls like to be approached by a total stranger? What do I need to do to pick up their interest?

2007-08-03 18:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Sammy S 1 in Singles & Dating

ppl are forever saying that its the first sign of insainty, and i've been called crazy....is it really insane to talk to your self...out loud? would a dude date a girl who occassionally spoke out loud to herself?

2007-08-03 18:39:14 · 31 answers · asked by Just Moni 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are moving out tomorrow. She to her parents, me to mine. I am 27 she is 25. We are not getting a divorce right now but it sure seems like it. We have been married for only 10 months and neither of us were ready for this. We still love eachother but our relationship over last year our relationship has been like bestfriends instead of husband and wife. I thought it was just and adjustment. She has an apartment lined up that she says is month to month. I don't know what to do should I leave her be for a while or try like hell to win her back. I have not been the most reliable with money and not made the biggest effort to make things work in the bedroom and our relationship but I was always afraid of getting shot down even though we are married. She has never really been single and by herself and she thinks she needs that right now. Marriage killed our relationship. What should I do?

2007-08-03 18:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cory 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you move they may not be happy and my miss family. but life could be better for them if you move. what do you do,

2007-08-03 18:38:13 · 22 answers · asked by PrincessFuFu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was told by a couple of guys that no guy would call a girl on the phone just to chat with her unless he wanted more than basic friendship from her. I argued that (different sex) friends do chat on the phone without wanting more. So, who's right?

Yeah, the situation is I have a male "friend" who calls me to chat and talks for like an hour with me when he calls. He looking to be more than a friend? I'm completely naive about these things haha.

P.S. And, I'm in my early 20s so this isn't really a middle school thing.

2007-08-03 18:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by Steph F 1 in Friends

We've been together for almost 6 1/2 years (living together almost 4) I'm 26, he's 28, he talks about marriage, ideas for a wedding, even kids, and yet still no ring. Even friend and family are getting impatient w/ him. We are now at the process of trying to buy a house, but I still have this nagging thought to wait till I at least get a ring (a solid commitment). He has gotten to the point where he says things that lead me to believe he is "working" on it, but I know his financials, the way he spends $, I see no saving. With the idea of buying a house (which we both really want to stop wasting $ renting) my nerves are a mess going through with that, thinking I may never get a ring if we get into the house first. It is to the point where I am getting myself very depressed, feeling like this aspect of my life is on hold, till he can figure it out.

2007-08-03 18:36:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

WHAT SHOULD I DO WHEN I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. I MET MY BOYFRIEND 5 MONTHS AGO. WE MET THROUGHT SOME ONE WE BOTH NEW. WE GOT VERY CLOSE WITH EACH OTHER. I TRY VERY HARD NOT 2 LOVE THIS MAN BECAUSE I HAD JUST GOT OUT OF A LOVE THING LAST YEAR. BUT HE WAS VERY PASSIONATE AND UNDERSTANDING FROM THE FIRST DAY I MET HIM. HE SPOILED ME ALSO FROM DAY ONE. WITH ALL KINDS OF GIFTS. HE TOOK VERY GOOD CARE OF ME I DIDN'T HAVE 2 GO WITHOUT WITH HIM. EVEN OUR LOVE LIFE IN THE BED ROOM WAS MORE THAN I COULD SAY. THAN ONE DAY I WAS OUT WITH SOME FRIENDS AND WHEN I GOT HOME I CALLED HIM AND GOT NO ANSWER. I DIDN'T TALK WITH HIM NONE THAT NIGHT. NONE THE NEXT FEW DAYS EITHER. WHEN I DID TALK WITH HIM THE NEXT WEEK HE WAS TELLING ME THAT HE WAS GOING BACK 2 HIS X-WIFE. I COULDN'T BELIEVE THE THINGS HE WAS SAYING 2 ME. THERE MORE.. BUT WE HAVE NOT TALK WITH ONE ANOTHER IN 2 WEEKS. BUT I CAME 2 FIND OUT THAT HE DIDN'T GO BACK TO HIS X. BUT HE HAD A DRUG PROBLEM AND DIDN'T WANT ME IN HIS LIFE. I STILL LOVEHIM

2007-08-03 18:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by LOOKING HARD 1 in Singles & Dating

Before i got my job, i would get money ($10) evryday to eat after school and i had to save it up for a whole school week (YES not eating for 5 days in a row after school, mind you i never eat school luch)...all of this was 2 buy him a pair of black converse for xmas. Him and his mom dont get along and shes a bitc* and wont give him money. When we got transit tickets i would pay for his too (i had my job at this time). I pay for food 90% of the time cuz he dnt hav a job (and he really looks for one and i dont kno wats goin on). I mean he did have a little job with some people getting 20bucks a day and he did start saving but he took me out one day and it basically was spent He told me that wen i ask him for something he feels proud and happy 2 pay. He appreciates everything I do for him and he thanks me and is grateful for me. NO, he is NOT a loser and NO hes is not using me so dont think that. BUt omg u should see how happy he gets wen he buys me things...its unexplainable.

2007-08-03 18:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by H0tt_P!nk 2 in Singles & Dating

all my *bestfriend*

#1 (12:02:09 AM): HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! =D
- i don't talk to her that much, but she really showed how much she cared (use to be my very close bestfriend) -
#2 (12:13:50 AM): happy birthdayy
- cousin, talked to her on & off on IMs & posted bulletin on myspace -
#3 (12:18:49 AM): happyy buttdayy
- stopped talking to me after she said happy birthday & she would usually go wild & out on #2 birthday, she didnt give me a away/buddy profile shoutout, myspace bulletin, or a call-

& i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone at 12:00am.
i didnt hear a 'happy birthday' :(

why don't i feel special at all today?
i hate crying.


i know i sound dumb & selffish, but today's my birthday :[

2007-08-03 18:34:30 · 11 answers · asked by kathie 4 in Friends

What does level two mean and why should i care?

2007-08-03 18:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by TaylorMade 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 18:32:30 · 20 answers · asked by girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Well here's the story, My boyfriend and I had a baby in March and the number of time's his mother has seen the baby I can count on one hand. I talk to her every blue moon but we are not close or anything. This is only her 2nd grandchild and her 1st boy. Does anyone think that's weird that a grandmother wouldn't want to see her grandson or keep him or anything? She asked to keep him one time but didn't say anything to me she asked her son and he mentioned it to me. Otherwise nothing and she doesn't call to check on him either even when I was pregnant she didn't call to check on me that often. I asked him about it and he said she works a lot but she doesn't work more than any other normal person. And she and I don't have any problems she likes me and I like her so I don't think it's that. What could it be??

2007-08-03 18:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by Lil.Mans.Ma07 2 in Family

i have been married almost 11yrs but have been seperated almost 3yrs and living with someone else but i'm still desperately in love with my husband and want him back but now all though we are still married he now has a seriuos girlfriend who is very sweet and kind and we would probably be bestfriends in a different situation... my husband does not want a divorce at this time but i'm afraid it's just a matter of time all though he still tells me he loves me... any suggestions on what i can do?

2007-08-03 18:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by kimmycatsmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it was so beautiful to see long flowing hair and dresses on a woman. very lady like and elegant. wouln't it be nice for all teh skin to show i nthe bedroom only! wouldn't marriages be better off

2007-08-03 18:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 18:23:30 · 4 answers · asked by casey 1 in Friends

Shes getting pissed at me because I can't download korean music that she wants to hear so bad. Now she just gave me a bowl of watermelons as if to bury the hatchet and she keeps rambling on about how much I suck at downloading. My mom acts like this all the time and it's not helping me cope with life any better. -_-

Any suggestions on dealing with this outrage of a situation?

2007-08-03 18:22:43 · 15 answers · asked by Aerios 2 in Family

what exactly would be physical abuse in a marriage? Threats like raising your hand to hit? pushing a pregnant woman hard on a bed and pulling hair and smothering food on a face....would this be abuse, also if it has not been done in a year....would that be ok to give the marriage a second chance even if no therapy has been done?

2007-08-03 18:20:15 · 15 answers · asked by mt4444 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and want to know what you think love is
My friend said- Love is.......when it doesn't matter what they say or do, because it always is right to you!
I said-Love is.......when you know you can't live without them, no matter what they do, say, look like, or are!

2007-08-03 18:10:34 · 1 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 18:10:28 · 4 answers · asked by KCB 1 in Family