Its like she playing favoritism. Whenever my little sister does something she's not supposed to like drink her water bottles, she doesn't really get mad at her she just jokes with her but when I eat one of her turnovers she gets mad at me and cusses me out, it's not fair and i know its not fair.
Or when I went to McDonalds to get something for my mom and she didn't have enough money to get the drink with it because of tax, I go in and get what she wants, but just to be nice, i get her the drink and she comes out and says "How do you get a drink and I don't" with an attitude but the thing is I went to go get it for her and i know she felt real stupid after i cut her off and told her it was for her.
She does a lot of unfair things towards me, but these are just some of the petty incidents i had to go through with her. It's like when my sister does something its like "ooohhh that's so cute and you so sweet" and when I do something its like "oh ok". I'm starting to really hate her!
2007-08-03 18:51:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are a special child, caring and nurturing, she will come to see after some time. In the meantime just forgive her for her faults, she does not know. Care for your little sister instead.
It will all come to pass like the other guy said
2007-08-03 18:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sittle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don`t say how old you are but this is what big sisters and big brothers have had to put up with since familys were invented !!
The littlest in the nest always gets a bit extra tolerance because the littlest needs just a bit more nurturing and spoiling ! Now that you are older you are meant to understand that your Mom still loves you just as much as your little sister just as she loves all of her children !
Be patient then and you will see as your sister gets older !!
Cheers and keep smiling . Pete
2007-08-03 19:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Realist 2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very commom; all teenagers go thru this phase. Only you should not let these things become a big thing.
If you do, you will not be happy in life.
Girl. you will grow out of it if you stop thinking about it.
Instead, just get out more often. Be pleasant instead of being unpleasant when she irritates you.
Concentrate on studies. vacations can be very boring. Do something creative.
All the best to u.
2007-08-03 19:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the oldest by seven years to my brother and he is the oldest of 3. They all come from the same dad. She always treats them better and I am 33 years old now. For me I think it is because she had me at 16 and feels I stopped her life. Although she was the irresponsible one. If your young I would tell her now and get it patched up. I do not talk to my mother much anymore, she gave me more resentment for her over the years than she has ever had towards me.
2007-08-03 18:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks that you're more mature and responsible and grown up because you are older.
You mother probably doesn't realize that she is doing this. If you don't realize that then you can end up hating your mom and your siblings. But if you realize that then you can probably be able to change that.
Maybe you can read up on some psychology books about human behavior or pick up some books from the self-help section that can teach you how to deal with people and make them change their behavior towards you.
2007-08-03 18:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by garg654 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can totally suck at the moment but it sounds like you are trying to do the right thing and always try to be the bigger person no matter what... keep it up and before you know it you will be out on your own and things between you and your mom will change! believe me, i had a little sister who could get away with ANYTHING!! but it is different now and my parents THANK me for trying as hard as i did.i know it is hard at this moment but time is the only thing that will change anything! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!
2007-08-03 18:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, it isn't fair. Except for me.... i was the little sister, and now i am the older one.. you i guess. And yes, it does suck, and you have to confront your mom about it, i had to mine and she stopped. It is truly unfair, but sometimes parents think that since they have a younger child, they need more attention and the older ones less, as the older ones know the important things already.
2007-08-03 18:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by hopper1172002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your little sister is little, she has different rules than you do, just as you have different rules than say an 18 year old. It's part of life because you can't be expected to have the same thought process and understanding that somone with more life experience would have. So get over yourself and respect your mom more.
2007-08-03 18:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i know how you feel its like they always get there way thats the same with me and my little brother my mom did that i dont talk to her for almost 5-7 days and then she asks me if anythings wrong i ignore her and then she says be like that i hate it its like she dont care but i learned to deal with it by blasting my music till she gets mad and tells me to turn it down and i say i dont have to i bought it not you but when your a teenager and got a little brother or sister in the house its hard to not get mad or upset with your mom but it doesnt heal over time this has been going on for a year now i hate it but i backtalk my mom and we fight like every body does so its not like im a bad child.
2007-08-03 18:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too! I dunno what u should do but lemme tell you about it. Maybe we could be friends.My life has changed completely since the 26th of August, 2000, the day my sister was born. All my relatives loved her a lot and they adored her. And everyone ignored me, especially my mother. That day was a disaster, till now. I was invisible starting from that day. For example, if I and my sister were sitting on a bench, my mom only saw my sister, not me. I don’t think my mother loves me. Perhaps I’m adopted and that’s the reason why they don’t love me. You see, if there was one adopted child and one not adopted parents love their own child more. Of course, my parents talk to me and take me to places but my sister gets more chances than me. If there was a photo album filled with me and my sister’s photographs, 90% of it would be my sister’s photos and only 10% is mine. It’s just like that how my mom spends her time on her daughters-90% on my sis and 10% on me. That’s why I hate my sister. There’s a book called “Death in the Freezer” in our school library and it tells a little bit about me-I’m Ellen Shore and my sister is Baby Al. My big secret dream is to take revenge on my sister.Maybe Jigoku Shoujo can help me. I think her website is best of all. It’s http://honk.nexgam.de/jigoku but the problem is that it doesn’t work if you type the name. If it really exists, I think I would send my sister to Jigoku even if I must compensate by going to Hell after my death for an eternity. My mum also doesn’t believe if my sis does something wrong. I think about a month ago, my sister shouted at her Chinese teacher and the teacher was so angry that she went to buy a drink. My sister didn’t care. “Oh, she’ll come back. I’m much happier if she doesn’t return,” said my sis. The Chinese teacher came back. After the tuition, I told my mother about it but of course, she didn’t believe me. “Don’t be ridiculous,” she said, “My daughter would never do like that!” Don’t be surprised. It’s always like that. She believes all the stupid lies my sister says about me but she never believes what I say about my sis.
2007-08-03 19:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋