ppl are forever saying that its the first sign of insainty, and i've been called crazy....is it really insane to talk to your self...out loud? would a dude date a girl who occassionally spoke out loud to herself?
2007-08-03 18:39:14 · 31 answers · asked by Just Moni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I get stressed, i may answer myself a little bit ...like "O GAWD what have i done? Nothing it'll be ok, its not my fault, yes it is all my fault! So what should I do now? Talk to them, it'll be ok" is that considered answering myself? Cause It only happens when I'm really stressed out and i try not to be around ppl when i'm stressed out, but someone hears me and is alll...."What u say?" then i tell them i'm talkin to myself..."oh lord!" they reply and say i'm crazy...well life is stressful...is it making me crazy?
2007-08-03 20:39:32 · update #1
Sanity is subjective .. it means something different to each person and has no concrete definition beside the one the individual places on it. If you don't think you're on the road to insanity, then you're not ... plain and simple.
As for talking to yourself, that would really depend on during what circumstances you do it. Many people talk to themselves. I talk to myself, out loud, when working on a project or a website, specifically if I'm trying to keep several things straight at the same time. Others talk to themselves simply to break the quiet.
You're aware that you do it, and so far, you're not answering back ... so I'd say you're pretty safe, lol. :)
2007-08-03 18:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jaded 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I talk to myself many times our loud every night and I really don't think that I become an insane person for many years now. If you have disorder of some sort in where you deeply get interested in your convosation, then that would by a problem otherwise you're fine. And as for the question about would a dude date a girl, I think as long as she only talk to herself sometimes (when you're trying to sleep or when you're alone with no one to talk to) she should be fine.
2007-08-03 18:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. On if you just like sit down and talk to yourself. That might be a little crazy. But not ifs its sometimes like your thinking out loud, or you just happen to say somethingg aloud. That's not really a problem. Sometimes I do that. When I was on the phone with my ex I'd be saying somethin, and he'd be like "what" And I'd be liking nothing I was talking to myself. So yeah a guy will go with if you so. Just don't make it a habit a do it on a consist basis. Good luck and don't worry. Your fine.
2007-08-03 18:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess as long as you don't have whole conversations with yourself it's OK. I mean I think that it is normal especially when you are alone or just trying to figure something out. I even said things out loud to myself when I'm around people. they are just little comments like Oh ya, or things like that, you know if I'm just remembering something. You are fine don't let others get to you. Again if you are having whole conversations with yourself then it could be that you are going down the crazy road
don't sweat it you'll be fine with the guys.
2007-08-03 18:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's see....I have been married for over 30 years and talk to myself all the time....Not in front of my husband, of course, LOL but I'm sure he knows. Anyway, don't pay one mind to what people say. They are just jealous that they have nothing to say to themselves. I'll give you a for instance. Whenever I am cooking something new, I say each step of the recipe out loud to myself and even pretend that I am on TV teaching other people how to make that recipe. That way I stay focused and make sure I don't forget any of the ingredients. Don't worry, my dear. I think you are perfectly normal.
2007-08-03 18:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sicilian Godmother 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your only crazy if you start answer your self! Just kidding. I think it would be a turn off if you did it all the time, not occasionally, I'm sure we all do now and then.
2007-08-03 18:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by sara r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't listen to others. I talk to myself too, and I'm not crazy. In fact that's how i remember something i forgot. You know the truth so don't let anyone tell you otherwise. People tend to be judge mental when they don't understand your reasoning. Just ignore them.
2007-08-03 18:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u answer ur self also??? i talk to myself all the time and answer myself.and i hear the same thing that its the first sign of insanity. but i have dated plenty of guys and they didnt have any problems with it..and neither does my current boyfriend. most people do talk to themselves out loud, they might not realize it but they do.
2007-08-03 18:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is a tad bit weird
if you do it in public thats crazy
if you do it at home or when your busy thats normal
when im really busy at work and i have alot of things to do
i might talk to myself for like 2 seconds then im done
im not holding a conversation with myself
2007-08-03 18:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 04:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋