2007-08-03 18:49:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
#1 - please don't embarass yourself by calling the Jerry Springer show. You sound exactly like the type of people he loves to make a mockery of. #2 - at 12 you don't know what true, romantic love is. What you do know about are crushes, obsessions, and the beginning (hopefully) of puberty and feelings of sexual desire. #3 - he's 14 and since boys mature slower than girls you two should be playing video games and hanging out with other friends. At 14 the only thing he is sure of is that he now for definate knows he has a penis. He know no longer uses his mind, right now his penis is in control. #4 - Thank the Lord you are both legally too young to get married. This is the reason they have age requirements for marriage. #5 - Apparently you haven't discussed this with either your Mother or your Father. I refuse to believe that they would even fathom agreeing to destroying your youth by marrying entirely too young. #6 - I shouldn't go here, but if you two are having sex, even if it is consensual, that too is illegal. Not just punishable by jail time but your mind will be punished later on in life for your plain and simple stupidty. #7 - This is the time of your life you are supposed to be hanging out with your BFF and developing your personality and style. Love youth, indulge in having fun with people your own age. Puppy love yes, but you have no idea what marriage is. You probably think he is a prince charming and you'll never meet anyone as "great" as him but trust me, if it was meant to last you are going to have to wait a few years. Do something realistic, enjoy and prosper with school, start thinking about what you want to do the rest of your life, (not changing dirty diapers). You only have youth once and when it is gone it is gone. Live to the fullest. #8 - If you cannot talk to a family member talk to a counselor or teacher at school. Talk with your career counselor or someone who can lead you in the right direction. Don't be foolish, discover who you really are and then decide who and what you want to spend the rest of your life with. Please, talk to someone, maybe you just need another type of attention you aren't getting at home or school. Good Luck!!
2007-08-03 20:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young, younger than you should be to be thinking about marriage. So many things could change between now and marriage age. In truth, a lot of that can happen between now and the time you are -his- age. It's one thing for two people who are his age to decide this, but you are in that one age gap that is hardest. He is starting adulthood and you are finishing childhood. It's not hard for a 24 year old and a 22 year old to be together, but subtract a decade from those ages and you might as well be reading a different book, not just a different chapter (metaphorically speaking.) I beg of you, friend, if you are so sure about this, then give it until you are 14 or 15 at -least-. Make sure that he is up for this as well, not marriage exactly, but for being with you and toughing through it. A lot of 12 year old girls become easily infatuated, 14 year old boys do this a lot as well, so don't confuse love for obsession. You would be surprised how much feelings can change in 3 years. Look back to when you were 9. Do you remember your closest friends? Are you still close with all of those people?
On the other hand, my girlfriend's grandparents have been together since they were 15 and high school sweethearts. But notice again that they were 15. I don't mean to say you don't love this guy, I'm just warning you that if it doesn't work out and you put that much investment into thinking that you will be together forever, it will break your heart like never before.
2007-08-04 02:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by miedecember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only what they call puppy love
you both have allot of exploring yet to do in this world,
your both way way to young to even be talking about marriage
Both of you finish school get out on your own see life then if you still want to get married all power to you but wait till your at least 18 - 24 years old at the youngest.
2007-08-04 01:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bingo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the real world will let you know who, when, where and by what means you will be married. Besides you or him are not old enough to get a marriage license, so how is this fantasy going to play out without your parents consent?
2007-08-04 01:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have so much to experience out of life. What is the rush about, slow down. If he really did care and love you he would not be rushing into this. You can still be close friends or is there more to this story?????? And What do your parents have to say about this. Don't you are to young.
2007-08-04 01:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by karen j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahh sweetie im 14 and i know of one guy that i liked alot and i thought we were perfect but were not your young listen and your not even a teen you dont wanna get married wait till your at least 20
2007-08-05 01:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mea<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're too young to decide that yet. It's a crush. You'll have many throughout the school years, trust me. Just talk to him as a friend.
2007-08-04 01:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Raina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents should keep you under lock and key for a few years. Act your age. Your a child, he is not much more.
2007-08-04 01:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old do you have to be in order to get married in your county?
don't you think your a little to young to be thinking about that?
i mean really.
2007-08-04 01:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 2 are two yung to get merried
and in most places its aginst the law to let kids get married
2007-08-04 01:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Benjamin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋