Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

A beautiful temptation available

Really,what are you thinking to do?

2007-08-03 15:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating this honduran guy and would like to know what are some of honduran guys beliefs in dating? do they belive in machismo, that men rule women , are they more conservative or more liberal ? do they believe that women should be dressed conservatively or do they not mind? What about honduran parents?
Please share any dating, cultural beliefs that you may know about honduran dating experiences?

2007-08-03 15:03:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is gonna sound silly, but i met this really tall, attractive, charming guy at borders two weeks ago. after making eye contact for a good forty five minutes, he ends up coming up and talking to me. i tell him im only a sophmore in high school, and he says he is a freshman in college, which i thought meant he just graduated. so i go out with him (not without a lot of thought), and we get coffee, and end up going into the city, and after a really fun night, we end up making out in his car. then he tells me he just FINISHED his freshman year in college. and he says he would like to see me again. so i meet with him, and somehow end up going to his place, and i didnt have sex, but we spent 3 hours making out and doing more than just kissing, which seemed right at the time. but the next few days, i felt dirty, seeing as it was the first time i had ever done ANYTHING, i had never even had a kiss before. the thing is he is insanely smart, charming, an artist and musician. what should i do?

2007-08-03 15:00:02 · 13 answers · asked by xxjess07xx 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend who lives in texas and i live in minnesota. well anyway i found out that she is having a baby shower. i had asked her why didnt i get a invintation and she said its because she knew i could not make it becuse we are long distance she also said its because she dosent want me to feel like i have to send a gift. what should i do. im so mad at her for not inviting me she told me that its considerd rude to invite people from out of state. im so sad. i hate myself. im just stressing out. should i let this problem go

2007-08-03 14:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf broke up with me for the second time. the first time he said he fell out of love with me and wanted to be alone, than 6 months later he came back to me and said he'll never do it again. he lied. he did it again and gave me the same reason, only this time im even more upset. he just keeps saying its over, he fell out of love, he wants to be alone for a while, but he's done this once before. will he come back to me AGAIN? hes 20 years old and is very immature.

2007-08-03 14:57:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He Doesn't Like Her But What Should I Do?????????

2007-08-03 14:55:29 · 25 answers · asked by confusedchick 1 in Singles & Dating

there's two men i met online and they are both from military. Their names are S and W. I am from New York btw.
I met them both around the same time. Here's the thing:
S has a son and he is very sexual but is a good listener. He is not on leave until March. He is originally from NC.
W is coming home from army in January and he has spoken to me much less than S. He is from Massachussetts which is 4 hours awayfrom me.

They both wanted to meet me. S promised first and he will see me in March and I agreed. W said he will come home in January and wants to date me. I promised him too. but then i feel so guilty cos i've promised S first but I promised W too. and i think i want W more cos W doesnt have a child and the fact that he lives a lot closer to me than S and that he is out of the army for good.
I know both of these men are for real cos i've seen them on cam.
I feel like such a b****. Did I make the right choice? What should I do?

2007-08-03 14:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 14:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by mindtrip88 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 14:45:20 · 3 answers · asked by getusedtoit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I laugh when some women say they married their husbands for love ... LMAO, gimme a break ... men are pigs, how can someone possibly "love" a pig? LMAO, hilarious.

I plan on marrying for money and money only.

2007-08-03 14:43:00 · 15 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First: I'm a strong advocate of the "Age is NOT Just a Number" argument.

That's part of the reason I'm feeling so guilty about this. I know she's interested, and I know I'm interested. Still, I know what a lot of people would say if they saw me, a 19 year old, with a 16 year old girl. I feel like 3 years isn't a problem once you're both in High School. Further, I know that at least one of her parents would likely kill me.

Second: She's a friend of my younger brother and his whole crowd.

This is how I've known her as long as I have. Two of my younger brother's best friends have crushed on her and that makes me feel even guiltier for pursuing this, having told them to sacrifice going after her in order to keep their friendship.

For people who are NOT part of the "Age is Just a Number" crowd, do you think I am wrong and should feel guilty about this? My motives are not underhanded or sleazy.

2007-08-03 14:42:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 14:41:20 · 25 answers · asked by jamie.♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend is living with her ex-hubby and i just know why, she says she loves me but i think i'm losing her and i don't know what to about it, so if you have an answer for me please let me know ok, I would appreciate it.

2007-08-03 14:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by djmixmastern2 1 in Singles & Dating

In life people get together and marry. some marry for love and some marry for the money..how many of us do this. do we really love the person we marry for themselves or do we marry for greed.

2007-08-03 14:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by harlz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i made a promise to my self that i wont have sex till im married or in college so Technically im selabit (is that how you spell it?). do you agree with my desition?

2007-08-03 14:36:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

got any advise on having sex at 15? what do you think I should do?

2007-08-03 14:36:07 · 22 answers · asked by mark 1 in Singles & Dating

In other words, is it more for her enjoyment of wearing it and turning him on.

OR is it for himself, so that seeing her wearing it, he gets turned on.

I, as a man, want to please all parties. If she enjoys it then I enjoy it. Its a win-win situation.

What does anyone else think?

2007-08-03 14:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 14:30:59 · 35 answers · asked by Lola R 2 in Singles & Dating

when i say what would you do i am referring to,what will you tell your child about their biological father when they get to the age to ask questions ''wheres papa''? and obviously what u will say when they are 3 is differnt then when they are 16 so what is the proper for both ages.obviously you dont want to hurt them with saying bad things about their father so what do you do say please cover both ages child/teenager? ty

2007-08-03 14:29:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-03 14:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Last night my husband went out after work with coworkers and came home intoxicated (to the point he got sick). This was a problem a few years ago but hasn't been in the last year or so. He knows it was wrong (he drove himself home) and feels bad but thinks I should just get over it. He has promised that it wouldn't happen again (but I've heard that before). He thinks I'm staying mad at him as a way to punish him, I'm just upset that he wouldn't make better choices (we have 3 kids he needs to think about also). He says it happened because he was stressed out over work, but he's always stressed out about something. Am I wrong to stay mad/upset? What would you do in a similar situation?

2007-08-03 14:21:37 · 16 answers · asked by Michel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I pretty much fit all the symptoms, but not entirely. I like to think i am a good person, but a lot of the times I just dont care about other people's feelings and find them boring. I am planning on becoming a model soon(as soon as im done with my portfolio). I think I am unique, very good looking, and very intelligent(my test scores prove that). I am not very shallow, yet I crave designer clothes, and pretty much the best of everything. I am a white male. I love looking in the mirror constantly just to make sure tha I look perfect. When I help out the homeless people or give money to charity I expect to be thanked/complimented/applauded for my generosity. I dream big, kinda living in my own world. I also need to be constantly complimented and have to be the best at everything. I feel that I am superior to everyone else, and can always find flaws in others.

I am a nice person though, once you get to know me. What do you think?

2007-08-03 14:19:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever had an idea, all their own, and made good money from it? If so, how did you get your idea known? Where is a good place to start (besides the internet?)

2007-08-03 14:13:30 · 2 answers · asked by Cheatsy Koopa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently I fell hard for this girl, and I know she has fallen hard for me also. I had a crush on her a lot of the summer and she has to. The thing is that she is 21 and I am 19, not a huge difference but enough for me or her to act on our "hidden" feelings.
Anyways... we finally found out how we felt toward each other and started to hang out after work and such. The first night we spent 4-5 hours sitting in a parking lot talking, the next nights was also 4-5 hours. After a couple of days of late night talking and a few days of meeting a couple hours before work we both realize that we fell hard for each other.
The first time we hugged we hugged for 45 mins straight because neither one of us wanted to leave. We both say its a feeling that we never had before. ( I been in many long relationships (2 or more years) ) The feeling is intense.
I go to purdue university and she goes to western kentucky and we are going to try and make this work.

2007-08-03 14:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by Kmaldona 2 in Singles & Dating

Would u rather have a girl thats thin with a big a$s or a girl thats a little overweight, with a big chest??
Plz answer...

2007-08-03 14:05:15 · 22 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Singles & Dating

in a relationship do you use the three stirkes your out? like i know some people are like you mess up once its done but i've heard people say three stirkes your out and nothing can change that. What do you think?

2007-08-03 13:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating

I ve lent my b/f money several times over our 1year realtionship and Im afraid he will not pay me back what do u suggest I do.

2007-08-03 13:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay long story short....so like I have this "bf" but really its just about hooking up, we went on a trip with a friend of mine, and I had told her about some of his "features" well anyway I basically tell her that I dont care if she wants to get with him cos he aint like gonna be my long term man (hes the second man Ive been with) just a good time...well I couldnt do anything sexually when we were gone (time of the month, no thanks) and they ended up hooking up (and I gave him permission before that I am not his girl, and all that stuff)

So why am I kinda mad now? What is wrong with me?

2007-08-03 13:38:34 · 17 answers · asked by Ms. V. 1 in Singles & Dating

IM me on AIM...My screen name is johnthegrungekid

2007-08-03 13:36:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my boyfriend and I are both using eachother. We fight all of the time but stay with eachother cause we need to. Everytime we fight, I cant help but want another man... none in particular, I just want to cheat on him really bad at times and I am scared I just might do it oneday out of rage. We have good times too but I will be the first to say that I do not love him. If I cheat on him, I know id feel bad. Why do I think that way when I am mad?

2007-08-03 13:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating