Okay long story short....so like I have this "bf" but really its just about hooking up, we went on a trip with a friend of mine, and I had told her about some of his "features" well anyway I basically tell her that I dont care if she wants to get with him cos he aint like gonna be my long term man (hes the second man Ive been with) just a good time...well I couldnt do anything sexually when we were gone (time of the month, no thanks) and they ended up hooking up (and I gave him permission before that I am not his girl, and all that stuff)
So why am I kinda mad now? What is wrong with me?
2007-08-03 13:38:34 · 17 answers · asked by Ms. V. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because no matter how much you try to fool yourself thats its just casual there will always be feelings involved with someone you had sex with
2007-08-03 13:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by BElow froSTy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with all relationships with benefits. Sooner or later they begin to take on the feel of a real relationship and as such feelings and emotions like jealousy and anger rear their heads. So just goes to show you that you can't have your cake and eat i too.
2007-08-03 20:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. It's because of that Green Eyed Monster called Jealousy. It's normal, even if he's isn't Mr. Right and is Mr. Right Now, it still hurts.....
2007-08-03 20:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noting.
Kinda mad? Maybe cause this guy isn't worth your time because first chance he got he went with another girl, or that you friend went with him the first chance you gave her?
Just a thought.
2007-08-03 20:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by philipwaldenberger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a hunter and like the chase, that's all. You would let it just slide by if you were with someone else in the meantime. You may just be jealous.
2007-08-03 20:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by king of nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that two women in your profile pic ?
sorry, thats just important to me.
as for your problem, some people can handle sharing, some cant. its not for everyone.
dont do it again, you do not like it.
2007-08-03 20:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the free feeling but now u want possession break your self of with both of them
2007-08-03 20:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by sharee-ree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuz you think you're a pimp and don't need anyone for real and cuz you didn't really mean what you said. you feel for him more than u know.
2007-08-03 20:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by P.C.E. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably becuase you didnt really think they would go through with it 100%, he has her attention now and not yours, thats probably why...im just guessing
2007-08-03 20:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help u coz i did not get what u where trying 2 tell
2007-08-03 20:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋