Recently I fell hard for this girl, and I know she has fallen hard for me also. I had a crush on her a lot of the summer and she has to. The thing is that she is 21 and I am 19, not a huge difference but enough for me or her to act on our "hidden" feelings.
Anyways... we finally found out how we felt toward each other and started to hang out after work and such. The first night we spent 4-5 hours sitting in a parking lot talking, the next nights was also 4-5 hours. After a couple of days of late night talking and a few days of meeting a couple hours before work we both realize that we fell hard for each other.
The first time we hugged we hugged for 45 mins straight because neither one of us wanted to leave. We both say its a feeling that we never had before. ( I been in many long relationships (2 or more years) ) The feeling is intense.
I go to purdue university and she goes to western kentucky and we are going to try and make this work.
2007-08-03 14:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by Kmaldona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to know if this is true love or what. I am really considering transfering to Western Kentucky for her, the feeling so soo nuts. I been in love before but I dont know what this is. Its more than love? It almost seems like our day is not complete without seeing and hugging each other.
How is it possible to fall for someone soo hard and so fast, when both feelings are mutual. Could she be the one? Is it love at first sight? What do I do?
2007-08-03 14:15:31 · update #1
YOU ARE IN LOVE DUDE!!!! GO GET YOUR BABY!!!!
2007-08-11 10:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't transfer schools for her. I've actually seen guys do this and then break up with their girlfriend stuck at a school where they don't know many other people because they've been spending the majority of time with her.
You've atleast slept with her before I take it? Otherwise, it kind of sounds like she considers you a good friend based on all of the talking and hugging. Doesn't really sound like sexual tension to me which usually is the initial basis for a relationship at your age. Go for it.... but don't transfer schools... I think you're going to be really surprised what the outcome will be for this particular situation.
2007-08-11 10:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sure lots of people would love to have what you have..
so take advantage of it.
treat her right... show her you care.
stay in the same school though.
if its going to work, its gotta work with both of you trying, dont be the one making all the efforts.
let things calm down a bit... and see if you still feel the same.
be smart.. sometimes we rush into things and destroy them.
live, laugh, love. stay strong.
2007-08-11 12:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by poets_loss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness you two are in love. What you're feeling isn't fake its real so try to be with her, even if that means transferring to her school.
2007-08-11 08:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 19 go for it. your still young so if its not the one then your not too young to start over
2007-08-11 07:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by bana.anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in the school you are in, if it is true love you will get through the school year and see each other when it is vacation time.
2007-08-10 10:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WEll;;
TO ME, iT SOUNDS liKE lOVE;;
iM SURE, YOU TWO Will DATE , BUT PERSONAllY,
i DONT THiNK YOU SHOUlD TRANSFER SCHOOlS;;
THiNGS CAN CHANGE;;
AND MOST OF THE TiME THEY DO;;
WEll GO FOR iT;;
PERFECT MATCH;;
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2007-08-11 13:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by liVExlAUGHxlOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're in love then you'll just know it. it sounds like it to me though! : )
2007-08-03 14:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋