I ve lent my b/f money several times over our 1year realtionship and Im afraid he will not pay me back what do u suggest I do.
2007-08-03 13:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never lend money you expect to see again.
money troubles between friends lead to bad friendships.
2007-08-03 13:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea to lend money to a boy friend or a girl friend for that matter. It's almost the best way to end a good relationship. But, the main thing is that if his boy really cared for you, he wouldn't be asking to borrow money. He would respect you enough not to place you in this position. Odds are that you'll never see the money you have lent to him, so be prepared to chalk those dollars up to a learning lesson.
2007-08-03 13:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a former Catholic, I always thought the idea of giving something up for Lent was selfish. It does nothing to make the world a better place. If you are really concerned about people who cannot afford food, donate money to charities that help those people or volunteer at a soup kitchen and make a difference. Simply giving something up is nothing more than a self-serving gesture that will never be noticed by anyone who matters.
2016-04-01 17:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not a good idea .. he's supposed to pay for you ... don't lend money to your bf because most likely he doesn't think he have to pay you back ... and it's going to be hard asking back for all that money if the relationship doesn't last :( also how much you give him and what's he using it for also is important to do, but girl get your money back, and I hope your not paying for dates!! If you are you need to get read of that loser, and get a nice guy with a good job!! :)
GOOD LUCK ;)
2007-08-03 13:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has not offered to pay you back for what he
had borrowed, then why would you lend him more.
It seems like he feels that he doesn`t have to pay
you back. I suggest you get rid of him. He is not a
responsible guy and is taking advantage of you.
Yes I know he is sweet and nice and all that, but
that don`t pay the bills.
2007-08-03 13:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blessed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The longer the debt lasts, the less chance you'll get paid back. Never loan friends money, ever. It's the fastest way to lose a friend.
2007-08-03 13:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by budjon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him for the money back. I have lent money to my girlfriend and have gotten it back.. As long as you trust your partner whats the big deal? And if you don't trust your boy then you should cut all ties and go out with someone you trust.
2007-08-03 13:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Warren G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should have done it in the first place.since you've lent him money several times & he hasnt paid you back then he prob wont just b/c you keep giving him the money..try stopping first then when he asks you for money say well where the money you already owe me???
2007-08-03 13:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by pink_mcr_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's kinda late for any kinda suggestion...don't say anything if he didn pay the money back but stop lendin money to friends when u think u need it back...
2007-08-03 13:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by нƐ∂ıɣƐн 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not a good idea, and you will likely never see that money again. Can't even sue for it unless you got a receipt.
2007-08-03 13:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by COlin W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋