I think my boyfriend and I are both using eachother. We fight all of the time but stay with eachother cause we need to. Everytime we fight, I cant help but want another man... none in particular, I just want to cheat on him really bad at times and I am scared I just might do it oneday out of rage. We have good times too but I will be the first to say that I do not love him. If I cheat on him, I know id feel bad. Why do I think that way when I am mad?
2007-08-03 13:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't beat yourself up about it. People usually feel like that when they fall out. People also stay with people for different reasons, there is no rule book and I don't think these reasons are bad if they work for both. However, you are probably thinking about your future. Could you spend the rest of your life with this person? If not, you should move on, otherwise it will only make both of you feel worse in the long-term. Easier said than done, i know....
2007-08-03 13:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by king of nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty evident that you are not 100% contented with your current relationship. Life is far to short to be arguing all the time and making each other miserable. Might be in both your best interest to end this relationship and try to just be friends with each other. Good luck to you.
2007-08-03 20:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on,You feel that way because you don't love him.It would be the best thing that you could do for "yourself" and "him".Good Luck!
2007-08-03 20:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you both need to grow up and move on.
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2007-08-03 20:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you "need" to stay with this guy? you're both retarded. get on with your own lives.
2007-08-03 20:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋