In other words, is it more for her enjoyment of wearing it and turning him on.
OR is it for himself, so that seeing her wearing it, he gets turned on.
I, as a man, want to please all parties. If she enjoys it then I enjoy it. Its a win-win situation.
What does anyone else think?
2007-08-03 14:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe it is for both!
Of course the man wants the pleasure of seeing her wearing something lacey/skimpy.
However, he also wants the enjoyment of giving her a gift.
It is an indication to her that he finds her sexy!
The gift is more for the guy than the girl but I think the gift shows regard for both.
2007-08-03 14:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice if guys thought win-win on lingere. But I have to say that some guys just walk into victoria secret and pick up something they seen on a commerical and expect it to look perfect on their woman. When in reality she could be so embarrassed out of her mind that she would never even want to put it on and stuff it into a bottom drawer or the closet instead.
P.S. Best thing to do is for both the man and the woman to go into the lingere place and let the woman try on what she is comfortable with and I'm sure the guy would still be happy to get her home and take her out of it.
2007-08-03 14:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on your motive. If you're just horny and she's not into it, then it will just irritate her and make her want sex even less. If you have a great sexual relationship then it's a win/win for both of you. She'll feel like you think she's sexy and want to see her in the lingerie and that will turn her on!!!!!!
2007-08-03 14:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly for himself. Honestly, lingerie is not the most comfortable thing for a woman to wear.
2007-08-03 14:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that it depends on both the man and the woman. I know plenty of guys that just love lingerie, and will buy their girlfriends/wives lingerie just to see them in it. On the other hand though, I know alot of women that like to wear lingerie regardless of if it's for their significant other or not!
Personally, I LOVE wearing lingerie. My husband buys me lingerie because he knows I love to wear it, and he knows that I'll show it to him;) I buy myself ALOT more lingerie though than he buys me and I wear it all the time.
2007-08-04 17:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He buys it for himself to because he's going to upwrap "the gift" later that night.
Now, as a guy. I love white bustiers, lacy stockings , lacy garters, lacy G-string panties & 5 inch high heels. That's what I really like on a woman and from Fredricks of Hollywood...
2007-08-03 14:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious Fellow, I like yourself look at it as a win-win situation. In addition to showing your woman that she is hot enough to wear what you have selected you get the pleasure of viewing her in the outfit. Therefore two happy campers.
2007-08-03 14:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He buys it for it himself. A man's idea of lingerie is a lacy, see-through number with a thong up the butt. A woman's idea of lingerie is a satin gown or satin pajamas.
2007-08-03 14:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 himself of course
2007-08-03 14:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by нƐ∂ıɣƐн 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a win win situation because we all know that men love to see women in lingerie and me as a woman i know that it makes me feel hotttt to wear sexy stuff like that
2007-08-03 14:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋