my bf broke up with me for the second time. the first time he said he fell out of love with me and wanted to be alone, than 6 months later he came back to me and said he'll never do it again. he lied. he did it again and gave me the same reason, only this time im even more upset. he just keeps saying its over, he fell out of love, he wants to be alone for a while, but he's done this once before. will he come back to me AGAIN? hes 20 years old and is very immature.
2007-08-03 14:57:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you let him, and if I was you I wouldnt let him come back again. You already know what will happen if he does. So save your broken heart. You deserve much better
Hope this helps
:-))
2007-08-03 15:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey stop wasting your time there are plenty of options open. this guy apparently has some type of personal problem and you should really set some boundaries for yourself. Tell him to forget about ever trying to be with you. he has done it twice and my advice to you is you need to move on no matter how bad it sucks it will be worth it to you in the end. think about you and your feelings don't worry about this guy coming back. I know this may sound mean but seriously life is short and you don't have to waste your precious time waiting for some guy to come back and break your heart over and over.
2007-08-03 22:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some back bone girl.Don't let there be a third time.He is not in love with you so,blow it off. Date some one else. You are just a ,she will take me back if I want to. booty call for him.How can he have any respect for you? Don't be a door mat. Tell him you are happy about his choose because you were going to tell him the same thing.
2007-08-03 22:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i know how you feel. my ex did the same and then after we both married different people his relationship didn't work out and is now single and tells me that he should have never left me and we would both be happy now together. it's been 3 yrs. im happy right now so he is out of luck. just let him go. he needs to find himself. and you need to do the same it hurts a lot i know i was so hurt i lost 20lbs in a month. looked good on me though. it's going to hurt but let him go focus on you and thing will work out.
2007-08-03 22:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by busy me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better than that. Why would you want him to come back. He sounds confused and does not know what he wants. Don't hang around waiting for him to come back because he does not sound like he is worth it.
2007-08-03 22:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Shelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he comes back, why take him back? He is playing with your heart and is waiting your time. You usually date a older guy because he's mature and you obvisly said he is not mature
2007-08-03 22:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back and read what you wrote.... WHY would you want that back? Grow a backbone and kick his butt to the curb.
2007-08-03 22:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for sex or something. Tell him to get lost. Find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-08-03 21:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by LiL' Momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back?
2007-08-03 22:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he will fa sure but don't let him to come in ur life agan!!!
dat's how ma bf was!!!!
2007-08-03 22:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by sps360 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋