there's two men i met online and they are both from military. Their names are S and W. I am from New York btw.
I met them both around the same time. Here's the thing:
S has a son and he is very sexual but is a good listener. He is not on leave until March. He is originally from NC.
W is coming home from army in January and he has spoken to me much less than S. He is from Massachussetts which is 4 hours awayfrom me.
They both wanted to meet me. S promised first and he will see me in March and I agreed. W said he will come home in January and wants to date me. I promised him too. but then i feel so guilty cos i've promised S first but I promised W too. and i think i want W more cos W doesnt have a child and the fact that he lives a lot closer to me than S and that he is out of the army for good.
I know both of these men are for real cos i've seen them on cam.
I feel like such a b****. Did I make the right choice? What should I do?
2007-08-03 14:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was goin to tell S to stay where he is but I dunt know how to break it to him. What should I do? Help.
2007-08-03 14:54:26 · update #1
Honestly you need to tell BOTH of them so they know just what kind of woman you REALLY are. Once they know the truth maybe they decide they'll want to be with someone who will be honest with them. Once you agreed to see S, you should have told W, or gone back to S and told him you changed your mind FIRST.
Just because someone has a child already does not mean that should be held against him. Would you want to be turned down for that reason? Also, while distance is a consideration, it should not be the only factor besides the child. REAL love goes the distance.
Look at each man for WHO they ARE not just their circumstances.
2007-08-11 08:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly from someone going into the military never tell someone leaveing that ur into them if ur not and as far as wich one u should meet i would go with w its hard dating someone that will be deployed and u wont be able to see for a long time
2007-08-11 11:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by lovelife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have children of your own, stick with W. -You can concentrate only on each other.
If you do have children you should stick with S. Because he will understand and know what it is to be a parent and you'd have some things in common and so would your kids.
2007-08-11 17:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should meet them both ... why? because you really don't know someone until you meet them & talk to them in person .. they are both showing you there best sides because they are lonely and love the attention ... but what if you choose and you choose wrong? you'll always wonder what if ... meet them both and make your decision then.
2007-08-03 21:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he honest and real now before he comes home and expects something which he wont' get. its horrible to put something there and ont be there. so let him know and go on with second plan.
2007-08-11 21:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋