2007-08-03 14:41:20 · 25 answers · asked by jamie.♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he likes me back
2007-08-03 14:51:27 · update #1
i dont want to have sex with him, im smarter than that. And he goes to my youth group for my church....
2007-08-03 14:53:11 · update #2
Well, people talk here as if you said you want to sleep with this guy. As far as I read, your question is about liking him, right???
Well, at 13, you're in a different moment of your life as this guy, but there's no rule that doesn't say it can't work. I think, if you know him for a while, like, if he's a friend of your brother or something, if he goes to your church.. If he's someone you trust, maybe you should give it a shot. Sometimes, age is just a number. I just suggest you think before how much are you willing to give up to make this work, and work in this limit!!! :)
2007-08-03 14:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 13, dating an 18 year old is not a good thing. The 18 year old is an adult and can get into trouble for being with a minor.
When you are 18 and you want to date a person 5 years older, no one will be bothered by it.
And, finally, although you feel that you are in love with this person, you are still maturing and may find that you change your mind about the older person as you get older.
At your age, you should be dating many different people closer to your age --not trying to be with one person ( and definitely not with an adult.)
2007-08-03 14:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this VERY CAREFULLY: You are a minor, and you say that you are "in love" with an adult. First of all, ANY sexual contact, OF ANY KIND, is a criminal act and will get the adult arrested. Secondly, you state you are 13. Are you sure that you know the difference between love and adoration. Any 18 y/o that is dating a 13 y/o is asking for trouble. Any 13 y/o that "loves" an 18 y/o is only fooling themself. Wise up! He will get what he wants, then drop you for someone closer to his own age.
2007-08-03 14:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by stephen p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got been there and finished that girlie... terrific concern which you will do is locate somebody your guy or woman age... there's some clarification why, and here they're... a million. you're dad and mom does not approve.. of course that's why you have not informed them yet 2. he's an grownup and you're somewhat a teenager... if and while your dad and mom locate out, your "boy-buddy" could carry out a little detention center time for statutory rape... and then he could be registered into the state registry as a intercourse criminal... could you particularly need to try this to him??? it occurs on a daily basis!!! 3. simply by fact that he's eighteen, meaning he's legally an grownup... and you're only 13... that's kinda ill for him to be feeling you up and stuff... society calls that pedophilia and molestation 4. probability is, simply by fact which you're prolly nonetheless in center college, this guy of yours is going to break your coronary heart... he prolly only needs some youthful coochie and is runnin sport on you until you provide him what he needs... he's have been given you perfect the place he needs you... "head over heals"... he's only getting began into grownup hood... and he's have been given lots and distinctive partying to do... he's nowhere waiting to calm down with a 13y/o sorry to be so harsh... yet it is the actuality girlie !!! be secure... and act clever !!! sturdy success !!!
2016-11-11 04:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While a 5 year age difference isn't that much when you're older, It's a really big deal right now especially since you're relationship would be considered illegal.
Does this 18 year old like you back?
If he likes you enough you guys can just go on seeing other people until you're of age. I don't reccomend dating him right now, people will get the wrong idea.
2007-08-03 14:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Catwalk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. you shouldn't be in love with an 18 teen year old he is close to begin a an grown man. You are to young.
2007-08-03 14:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by lilpooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off , if you become involved with this individual, that will be statutory rape. You have plenty of time to fall in love with someone your age, or at least wait till you are 18 and date someone older then.
2007-08-03 14:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by mentallykornfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but in most states that is illegal. If a 18 yearold has sex with an under aged minor that he or she WILL go to jail( its considered Statitory rape). Also try to stay with guys your own age, older guys get you in trouble!! Also, does he return these feelings? I think that he will probobly like a girl his own age, sorry!
2007-08-03 14:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by nylablover93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the fella alone because if he is interested in you too then obviously he has some serious issues. He might show an interest if you are put together pretty well but once he has had his way with you will soon enough leave you alone.
2007-08-03 14:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just think its love,but its just a really bad crush you are way to young to even think about boys right now,stick to school and your time will come as you get older and more mature,a guy at 18 is usually not ready 4 love either,so just take your time and also be careful..
2007-08-03 15:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋