Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

I am 22 and I just had my baby 3 months ago. Her dad is not in the picture and hasnt been since i was 5 months pregnant. Recently I have starting see this guy, who is 20. It has been about a month and things are going great. He already told me that he loves me and he loves my daughter. He is great in some aspects and immature in others. My question is do u think he really loves me or is he just using me? I know this is a stupid question but I dont know what to do. I dont know if I should keep seeing him. My daughter is still to young to remember him when she gets older but what do you think...keep seein him or let him go.


Heres the kicker~We are both in the military &he tells me last night he wouldnt mind being married to me~what the he(( does that mean? I dont think he really loves me yet, I mean it has only been a month but i dont know how men really think.

2007-08-03 03:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by AMP2084 1 in Singles & Dating

A bride getting married gets advice,prepares to get married.
How to get same advice,prepare groom for marriage other then brides family,relatives,friends doing it?Groom cant get advice or prepare through his friends,family,relatives since they are rich famous snobs who have not learnt life lessons.Groom wants bride and him to have loving normal emotionally physically mentally long lasting life.Any books or anything else at all.

2007-08-03 03:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by abridezdiary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to a Wedding. Here is the problem. I have known this kid for roughly 7 yrs in grade school. Then before 1st yr of high school he moved and we lost touch. It has now been roughly 7 yrs since I have seen this guy. His mom invited us. How much should I give for a wedding gift if I am bringing a date?
(on a side note): His bachelor party was on my 21st birth. They told me and a few other guys (who have not seen him for 7 years also) to meet up at the casino but they would call us at about 2pm after they go fishing . Since I have kept touch with all the other guys every1 decided to meet up at my house. Unfortunately, some guys could not get to my house until 5. So we waited until all of us were at my house and we called the groom and the bach. party people and they ended up telling us to sit tight at my house because they decided 2 go play 9 holes of golf. So we ended up meeting up at 9pm and I almost did not even get to celebrate my 21st. We talked only a half hour n they left!

2007-08-03 03:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by MB 2 in Weddings

how about 21? who thinks its wrong to just have sex for the hell of it? without connection?

2007-08-03 03:32:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMgosh
My mom left this dicison in my hand to move to nefoundland and island with houses no malls amusmant parks or anything no pizza for that matter....or..............to stay here in ontario and let my dad stay depressed he isnt very interested in him life here anymore..

WAT SHOULD I DO I WANT MY FAMILY TO BE HAPPY BUT I NEED
TO BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!
ITS NOT MY SCHOOL OR MY FRIEND THEY JUST LIKE ME BECUASE IM THE "SINGER" AT SCHOOL
ITS MORE MY WHOLE LIFE THERE IS SO MANY MORE OPPORTUNITIES UP HERE FOR ME....I CANT TAKE IT HELP PLEASE

2007-08-03 03:31:50 · 6 answers · asked by cbabysnugglebunny 3 in Family

im dati this guy and when we're somewhere when i leave he doesnt follow me is that nornal or bad?

2007-08-03 03:30:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 03:29:09 · 24 answers · asked by shawn_b_732001 1 in Singles & Dating

He wasn't much of a father to us to be honest but despite everything he put us through i really miss him. His been gone for almost 6 years now.

2007-08-03 03:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by Waterfalls 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been best friends with this guy for 10 years. We're like brother and sister now. He's been in a serious relationship for about 2 years and I've been in a serious relationship for about a year. Out of respect for our significant others, we don't hang out alone anymore like we used to. His girlfriend has had a friend for quite a while who was just out of the picture and wasn't really in our "friend circle." Now she is the youth pastor at our church and another girlfriend and I have tried to get her to hang out with us and all the times except one she has made an excuse or used her husband as a reason why she couldn't hang out with us or she just doesn't even return our calls. Last Friday, she called my best friend and his girlfriend (also a friend of mine before she and my friend started dating) and asked them if they wanted to go to a movie. I just don't understand why at the very least my best friend wouldn't have invited me too. He knows I've been trying to be friends with this

2007-08-03 03:26:39 · 2 answers · asked by Katie L 3 in Friends

2007-08-03 03:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why many of you didn't like to share your things even with your own parents who actually spend money in order to buy those things.As their children you don't have any duty for them to make feel better too or making them happy too?How many of you really thinks it's wrong?

2007-08-03 03:24:10 · 3 answers · asked by Love86 3 in Family

It's my birthday tomorrow (woo hoo, NOT!) I have bad anxiety so the only people I have to celebrate it with are my family. My mother told me two weeks ago that she is going to a friend's birthday party on the same day as my birthday, and I have to babysit. When I said 'but it's my birthday', she replied and said 'but it's a surprise party and it's important'. Now am I being ungrateful or is this unreasonable? Moreover, my mother has been out everyday this week - she leaves the house before I am even awake and spends the entire day with my grandmother and sisters - and not once has she offered to celebrate it early or later with me. In fact she hasn't even mentioned my birthday. I can't help feeling jealous and upset, but it's like she doesn't have any time for me.

2007-08-03 03:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by charcoalskittles 1 in Family

Our wedding is going to be 08-08-08. I am sending out Save The Date postcards now, and invitations a few months before the wedding. Is it rude to list our gift registry on the postcards? I know you generally list in in the invitation... but I am a person who likes to plan WAY ahead, so I would be happy if someone let me know sooner so I could keep an eye out for sales and such. Is this bad etiquitte?

2007-08-03 03:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by marcyp06 2 in Weddings

Is cut off and every month this happens I share the phone plan with my brother and my step father I help pay the bill and so does my brother but my step father acts as if he doesnt have money every time the bill comes and even when he gets paid he acts as if he so broke that he cant help pay the bill he tells me he doesnt have any money but then he goes and and spends money on dumb things like fast food every day instead of bringing his own lunch to work what should I do I am tired of cell phone always getting cut off I am not just a talkative teenager I am trying get jobs and they have my cell number and now they cant reach me

2007-08-03 03:19:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Poet 2 in Family

ok i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started dancing and flirting with each other...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention by grabbing my waste...then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy" i mean seriously, whats his problem??? its ok for him to hook up with other girls but not ok for me to flirt or dance with other guys? i mean what was that all about?? what do u guys think?

2007-08-03 03:19:30 · 1 answers · asked by fran c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for her not to be considered a hoe

in my opinion do you guyz think that 4 months is too sooon.. well just let me know. thank you... n any other opinions?!

2007-08-03 03:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have already dressed up my appearance as far as I can possibly go, and I make sure to give him lots of sex, but he still does not seem to like spending time with me unless I'm giving him sexual favors. I'm also a great cook already, so something else. Please, I don't care about degrading myself anymore, I just want him to talk to me. Tell me what to do so that he appreciates me. Please give me lots of specifics, I will do anything! I want to be his fantasy girl. I need to spice up our marriage

2007-08-03 03:12:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have lived away(different town over hour away) from biological family for over 31 years. There were 5 kids growing up in our family. All are grown and have kids and some grandkids of their own.Too much back stabbing and lies told everytime I've gone over there in the last 10 years I'm told bad stuff about one or more of them from different individuals. I use to visit every other weekend for years, then once a month, then every 3 months, then 6 months, now I don't want to go over at my parents at all. I know they are sickly and getting older and I've heard people say, "Enjoy them while they are with you" BUT what if your with them and there is NO joy ? Usually other family members come to see me when I'm over there. They usually say,"Be glad you live away from here, be thankful" They are all so disfunctional and its so sad. Am I the only one that wanted a happy family to share good times with when we're with other? I have peace now. Are you in the same situation?

2007-08-03 03:11:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 19 years old, I have never had sex, never been with a girlfriend, or never even felt attracted to a women. I am not gay either, I know thats probably what your asking yourself, but I am not gay. Its like physical attraction doesn't even exist for me. Everyone I look at just does nothing for me, and I know that is not normal for a guy. I used to have to go to a shrink when I was a child, for depression and schizoid personality disorder, my doctor told me it was all cleared up, but do you think it could have something to do with my lack of desire or emotions. I even wrote you a poem.
Things are harder
When we have to leave our beds.
Wouldn't life be easier
If we were all dead.
I have tried to commit suicide three times, each time my parents got to me before I actually did this, should I be hospitalized I really really really don't want to have to go back to a physch ward, because nothing happens and I always end up sleeping all the time, what is wrong with me, plz help I am afraid!

2007-08-03 03:07:42 · 13 answers · asked by zach 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was younger, my parents especially my dad never made me do chores and didn't ask me about school or how my work was going.
I had an eating disorder and still my dad didn't even notice that I wasn't eating. I mean aren't parents supposed to care about how school is going?? And if you're making friends etc? And, it's not like my parents worked a lot.
My mum also gave me so many hobbies like ballet, I didn't really get a chance to develop my own interests.
Is that some kind of neglect?

2007-08-03 03:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She's a sl*t. She sends naked pictures around. I have some do I tell/or show him?

2007-08-03 02:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by wonder Aloud 2 in Singles & Dating

i live alone and my boyfriend has a house. he asked me what tile I wanted in the seat of the shower in his new bathroom, and told me i could pick the paint. its not my house, and he has never mentioned us living together? does he just want my decorating advice, or is this a sign of things to come. he is always referring to things as us and ours and we. example: WE can paint the bathroom however YOU want. what is he doing? is he gunna ask me to move in, or am i gunna be waiting another year. again, he knows i wouldnt be able to move in until april.

2007-08-03 02:59:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Instead of paying a company to do it like the ordinary way?

2007-08-03 02:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

Do moms sometimes walk where angels fear to tread?

2007-08-03 02:49:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-03 02:48:52 · 3 answers · asked by lilmoms27 1 in Family

because i have alot of guy friends and they all tell me im a great person and really pretty etc etc and that im really funny and sweet but i havent had a proper boyf for 2 years just seein guys and stuff! i dont believe that what all these guys are sayin is true cos the only guys that show interest are taken (not going there) or just want sex.i dont just want that anymore,i need more! i mean i do get looked at when im out and just out in general but hardly any1 approaches me,a few people have told my friends before that i seem really unapproachable,dont get this! i dont have much confidence but i think its because i feel for some reason im not girlf material! im 24 with a 5 year old daughter and feel will be alone forever! i know i wont cos i have my daughter but still,ive just asked this once had some great answers but want more,and just to clarify when i go out its with the girls not my guy mates!! any ideas,and be nice please! thanks

2007-08-03 02:41:35 · 11 answers · asked by sharpay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 02:40:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been in few relationships that have quite different arguing styles. I am the type of person that wants to be calm and straight forward and discuss problems rather than fight and yell at my partner. I always want closure and hate going to bed angry. I have however been with people who would rather just ignore a problem and can sleep like a baby with no resolution. What is your arguing style? Tell me your reasoning!

2007-08-03 02:37:11 · 24 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It's my 1st Wedding anniversary this weekend. I know that it represent's paper, however, I am stuck for ideas with what to buy for a present that is associated.

Any ideas? Sensible answers only please.

2007-08-03 02:35:43 · 8 answers · asked by Ballychrochan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone done this without totally ruining their relationship? My husband and I flirt with the idea (FFM) and we've done this for years...never amounting to anything. But I was just wondering is something that is successful in real life or just in the movies?

2007-08-03 02:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce