He wasn't much of a father to us to be honest but despite everything he put us through i really miss him. His been gone for almost 6 years now.
2007-08-03 03:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by Waterfalls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks everyone! marshmallow he left cos he feared for our own safety he was really violent. babyeegirl, i know exactly how u feel, i get like that too n start wondering what it would be like with a dad. We hear so much good about him from other people. I wish i got to see it too. I'll cherish those for now....thanks again all, and for those of you who have lost their fathers, hope life gets easier for u all....
2007-08-07 02:25:34 · update #1
marshmallow i'm 22 btw lolz
2007-08-07 02:54:58 · update #2
i think i kind of understand what you mean! i dont know my dad at all! and from what ive heard about him i dont want to, but i get upset and kind of sad sometimes thinking about how all my friends are like so close to their dads and how they are going to walk them down the alise one day and stuff like that! it sucks sometimes! but then i realize my life has probally been almost perfect without him!
2007-08-03 03:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by baybeegirl43 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does make sense, all of it! He's your dad for God's sake, and whatever he has done, we always feel this caring and loving feeling for our parents! He may have done bad things, and stuff like that; but he was your DAD! He elft 6 years ago really, and you may miss him. I was thinking maybe you could get in touch with him, before he dies, because that'll be a little to late! Would you please like to elaborate on why your dad left? How he hurt you? So I can give you more advice on this?
Don't worry, you're feeling what any other person would feel. Its normal, and you should never HATE your dad. You're a good person
Good luck and tell us how it goes in the near future won't you?
Best Wishes
How old are you by the way?
2007-08-03 03:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never actually got to live with my Dad until I was 21, and then it was for a few short months. We were raised by another guy, (uncle Ernest) who, though he was cruel psychologically and physically, brought us up the best he knew how and I was there to hold him in my arms when he died of cancer, coughing blood. Though he was cruel, his death wasn't met with a sense of relief, instead I said "Thankyou"...for being a dad as best he could.
My real dad died without me telling him I loved him. I was young and thought it soppy I guess, though now.....I regret it deeply.
"Real Dad" or not, most of them do what they can, to the best of their ability, so cherish them while you have the chance, I say.
Tempers may be short, but so is Life.
2007-08-03 03:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Had a great dad hes dead 12 yrs this month I miss him so much you will miss him cos you always remember the good times,and like me you will always think of him take care
2007-08-04 07:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my dad in 1994 and still miss him to this day. Just remember the good things now so I don't find it too hard.
2007-08-03 03:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Louis Junior. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiya my dad was usless , he drank too much which killed him in the end and i feel the same as u i hate him for what he was and what he done to us kids but i love him just because he was my dad just accept that u can't change him and get on with life u will realise that u don't need him but will always think of him good luck xxx
2007-08-06 01:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by susan w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my da took off when i was young, and for all i was brought up by various men my mum dated i can honestly say i have never wanted to have a dad, all the men father figures i;ve ever known have been t**** so i guess this makes me the way i am
2007-08-03 03:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by spoogie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine died 16 years ago this month, to be honest he wasn't that great to me, never physically abused me, just verbal, always compared me to others, told be I'm not good enough, gave me a massive inferiority complex, things like that, but in the long run it all made me a stronger person and very self reliant. and yes i miss him sometimes, but mostly no.
good luck chick
2007-08-03 03:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Missfit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi after all said and done he was your dad and the bond is strong mines been dead 26 yrs now and i would love a few more words with him just a few all the best
2007-08-06 06:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by colin872966 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best wishes to you. I suggest you be the "Dad" to yourself and rest of family where you can be... exhibiting the qualities of the good Dad you wish you'd had to help out yourself and your family.
2007-08-03 03:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by golfgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋