im dati this guy and when we're somewhere when i leave he doesnt follow me is that nornal or bad?
2007-08-03 03:30:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were at the park!!
2007-08-03 03:43:43 · update #1
I have been there :( He would take me home(I had a curfew) then go hang out with his cousin and his beautiful girlfriend then stay the night at her house with other people from his cousin's church. It was because he didnt get to hang out with his cousin enough. Anyway it bothered me too. He didnt always do that just about 1.5 months before we broke up.(we were engaged for a month too) Looking back I guess it was just what I feared then, he was starting to detach himself from me. maybe not i dont know. but it got worse and worse sometimes he would just go do stuff with them instead of me because I couldnt go because the stay out all night and I had a curfew. Anyway Give it some time if it gets worse talk to him about it and try to see why he is doing it. Good luck. Sorry I know this probably was no help but I kind of needed to vent.
2007-08-03 03:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by kw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about when you leave wherever you went on your date? If he is your escort for the evening, then he should be escorting you safely home, that is basic manners. If you are talking about leaving the room, and expecting him to follow you around like a puppy or something, that is another matter. If you're at a party or something, and decide to get up and wander around, while he is content to hang out with friends, you don't need to have him hanging on your every movement, nor should you expect him to.
2007-08-03 03:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 07:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not normal and unhealthy there is someone in this picture. For your well being either you come back or have someone else to research this situation. Life is the short and there are people out there who just don't care, they live for the moment. Believe it's not like it use to be, where a shot would cure you now you are on death rowe. Because you trusted someone that don't care.
2007-08-03 03:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? If you're at a party & you always leave & he stays I'd say that's not the best sign. He might like to stay out later than you do. I haven't experienced this before EVER.
2007-08-03 03:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by blkmiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're on a date you should arrive and leave together...odd that you're "dating" but more or less meeting some place, sharing some time, then going your separate ways...
It wouldn't be odd if it happened from time to time but if that's pretty much always how y'all get together, I would consider it unusual...
2007-08-03 03:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where you are. If you are at a party and he does not go with you when you are ready to go and you went together then yes that is bad. He should come with you. But it all depends on where you are to determine if it is bad or not.
Respecify your question.
2007-08-03 03:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gentleman always walks you home. And a new date should always know how to at least act like a gentleman.
2007-08-03 03:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Wade doesn't know diddley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. I mean why wouldnt he want to. If he really cares about you why wouldnt he at least walk you to your car or take you home. I would prob. have to say he is an ******!! Hope this helps you
2007-08-03 03:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by AMP2084 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad - doesn't he care that you leave? But, if you do it often enough, he might be sick of following you.
2007-08-03 03:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋