Has anyone done this without totally ruining their relationship? My husband and I flirt with the idea (FFM) and we've done this for years...never amounting to anything. But I was just wondering is something that is successful in real life or just in the movies?
2007-08-03 02:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just asking here...Absolutely no plans in the making...
2007-08-03 02:43:12 · update #1
It's all depends on you.It wont ruin your relationship if you both happy with each other, it will bring some spice to your sex life. As long you don't talk and jealous afterwords.Ask yourself first, are you strong enough?
2007-08-03 02:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lively_spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To actually go through with the three-some would be like throwing a lit match into a gas tank and expecting it not to blow up. I mean it's quite a bad example, but why would you try such a thing if there was the least bit of a chance of it hurting your marriage? I am sure that there are a few marriages that have worked after a three-some. I would also suspect that there are far more that have failed because of it. Why take the risk at all?
2007-08-03 09:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It was soooo much fun in college!!! But now that I have been married for 10 years...I don't think it is worth the risk. Just talk about it and enjoy the fantasy.
2007-08-03 10:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chris K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I flirt with the idea as well
but we wouldnt actually do anything about it
because there is a chance that it would hurt our marriage and we dont want anything like that to happen
2007-08-03 09:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your secure with yourself & feeling & could handle your other getting it on with someone else in front of you or visia versa it's can be fun or it can be a disaster. An with all the critters & diseases out there be safe???
2007-08-03 10:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done it and never will although it is a great fantasy. Some fantasies are better left as they are. It's far less complicated.
2007-08-03 09:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jbuns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the thought is more exciting then the fact, threesome never improve a relationship. You are playing with fire, threesome are akin to dating but calling yourself married
2007-08-03 09:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by cobots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My buddy did...hes still happily married.I was suprised...I think its good youre being precautious..good luck...
2007-08-03 09:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mergler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hea , its great ,weve done it for years, and now married for 18 yrs, cant be more happier,,good luck and,smiles to you!
2007-08-03 09:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by wormoil2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋