Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

My friend's and I were talking about how much we missed our childhood and the good old days of being young. All of us were in college and I came up with this "idea" to be young again for a day.

I haven't asked my friend's yet because I fear I'm either going to be laughed at or people will think I'm crazy so I figured I'd ask you guys first.

I wanted to have a day where my friend's and I just play games from when we were younger. We were going to play a big came of capture the flag, tug of war, play with one of those parachutes from like 1st grade, play 4 square and basketball. I just felt it would be fun for my friend's and I. MOST of us are of the legal drinking age so liquor will be included to make things more "interesting"

what do you think?
PLEASE BE HONEST HERE!
I don't want to look like a fool when I suggest it to my friends
thanks

2007-08-03 08:28:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about 2 months, and he has worked at the same place for 5yrs, and is going no where. I am big on college and getting a really good education to support yourself. Anyways, he wants to be a cop, and has taken the physical test and passed.. now he needs to get into school for the associates in criminal justice. But he has no ambition. He just moved back in with his parents after a recent break-up with his ex. I am trying to get him motivated, and it is like dragging a big piece of lead around... I don't wanna seem too pushy, but I believe he has the potential to be successful... what to do, what to do?

2007-08-03 08:27:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been dating this guy for a few months now and things are going great, in recent events i'm hearing thing from his mom, his friend and his ex-girlfriend that there still together and that she's pregnant with his child. now i've encountered his ex before and she was saying that she was still sleeping with him but the days and times she said didnt add up. so i took as she was jealous and still wanted him. but i always kept my eyes and ears open. so now i dont know what to think anymore. is he still with her? are they really having a baby? am i stupid for staying after that confrentation with his ex? What would u do? what should i do?

2007-08-03 08:27:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19 i have my 4month year old baby an i have my boyfriend with me were living together....an i really want to go because i want to become someone and make enough money for my baby so that i can give him wat he wants wen he wants...so wat to do?

2007-08-03 08:27:36 · 17 answers · asked by latinprincess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

IN THE BEGINNING MY STEP SON AT AGE 12 AND I GOT ALONG. MY WIFE AND I WERE GREAT AND HAD A VERY SATISFYING LIFE. THEN ABOUT A YEAR AGO HE STARTED HAVING SCHOOL,POLICE AND DRUG PROBLEMS. I TRIED TO GET HER AND HIS NATURAL FATHER TO CLAMP DOWN AND THEY DIDNT. HE GOT BOOTED FROM SCHOOL AND I TOLD MY WIFE AFTER DISCOVERING HIS DRUGS IN OUR HOUSE THAT HE WAS WELCOME BUT HIS BEHAVIOR WASNT. SHE MOVED OUT 7 MOS AGO AND WE STILL SLEPT TOGEATHER UP TO 2 MOS AGO. THIS IS WHEN I PUSHED HER AWAY TELLING HER I NEEDED MORE. NOW IT LOOKS LIKE DIVORCE LOOMS LARGE AND YET I STILL LOVE HER. SHE SAYS SHE DOESNT FEEL ANYTHING AND I FEEL THAT SOMEONE ELSE IS INVOLVED. WAS I TOO PRIDEFUL DID I NOT TRY ENOUGH?

2007-08-03 08:25:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 08:24:45 · 32 answers · asked by Jaimie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to have sex with my guy, and we want you all to pick which position we should do it in. Which ever one gets the most votes, is what we'll do. If it's not a "basic" position, give more details. LOL!!

2007-08-03 08:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 08:23:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I honestly don't think he has anything to hide (don't say that because i'm asking I do think he does have something he's hiding from me)
I guess just out of curiosty and I have a hard time trusting people, being in bad relationships before.

2007-08-03 08:20:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately my life is crazy. I broke up with my boyfriend for this other boy named kevin who ended up leaving me. My best friend monica said she was 'tired' of me and decided not to be my friend anymore either..
My other friends boyfriend came to me asking for advice about his girl. I knew she was plannin to leave him for sumone else.. and i told him..

then she got mad and so did monica and everything thing is juss crazy..

now since then i have realized that all the stuff i did with kevin was wrong and moved on.
I told monica i was sorry but she still doesnt wanna be my friend..
it seems i have no one.. :-(
and now i'm just really depressed... please dont tell me how ****** up it was what i did cuz i already know that..

Just someone please help me to get my friends back?? please... :'-(

2007-08-03 08:20:28 · 2 answers · asked by teenabeena15 1 in Friends

I know it's bad and men and women including myself should at least cut down watching it but how...the urge to watch it is there.

2007-08-03 08:18:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think the bride and groom should open presents during the reception? I think you shouldn't because sometimes people give you the same thing, or some people can't afford to give you a gift so they feel left out. But what do you guys think?

2007-08-03 08:17:49 · 28 answers · asked by Gophier 3 in Weddings

I have been living with my fiance for 4 years. We share everything, including the bank account/finances.
We live like an old married couple and have for the past 4 years.

I want to marry him, but I completely disagree with the fact things are going to take a drastic change when we exchange vowels, we plan on going back to the same life we left.

Will things take a drastic change besides just being legally binded and having the same last name??????

I tend to think NO!

2007-08-03 08:16:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i think he likes me too but doesn't know how to approach me.

2007-08-03 08:16:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a dog. no kids. i can work, i am very handy. good with kids. i am leaving my husband today and need somewhere to go. I am in lockport, ny and i have very little money for gas right now. Please help me leave.

2007-08-03 08:15:50 · 12 answers · asked by Bakes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex divorced a year ago. then we got back together for awhile and broke up again. I think its really over this time because it seems a lot easier. I can honestly say i gave it my best, its hard to forgive someone who cheated, then begs you back, then tell you that she needs to seperate awhile. I dont think i will ever go back this time

2007-08-03 08:14:09 · 3 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Singles & Dating

If so which one? And why do u like them?

2007-08-03 08:11:20 · 9 answers · asked by Cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Many young couples when they get married, they don't have enough information about intercourse. Most of the time first night and honey moon turns in to disasters.
It is sad even after 10 years of marriage many couples don't use lubrication like KY Jelly

2007-08-03 08:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

Seriously!! I have a friend getting married. I would like to give him a survival kit for Happily Ever After Marriage.

2007-08-03 08:09:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 08:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by DogOwner 1 in Weddings

I like this guy at work but the problem is he was introduced to me by one of the guys who likes me.. we had lunch once & it seemed as if clicked but i really don't know how to pursue it. He makes me life and smile like never before and we talk until late hours of the night but i'm just afraid to rush it.. help!!

2007-08-03 08:08:41 · 4 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you want your girlfriend to do, to show that she was really in love with you???

2007-08-03 08:08:40 · 13 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 08:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am dating this guy and I talked to him once about only talking to me once a week, and so what he does now is call me on his days off. He's off Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and what he will do is call me on Friday to make plans for that Friday night or to make plans for Saturday. I really enjoy him, and then Monday thru Thursday comes, and I don't really hear from him. My gf said I told him to not only call me once a week and he listened. She said he talks to me, see me, and call me during the weekend so in his mind he is doing what I asked. My take on it is, he should know that I would like to hear from him during the week even if it's to talk about our day. Am I asking to much from him because I would like to talk to him at least once or twice before the weekend come every week even if we do end up spending a Friday or a Saturday together? Also there is about a 10 age difference between us (I'm 28, and he is 38), and he really does not see a need for a cell phone so that's out.

2007-08-03 08:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

apparently they are ok with married couples having group sex and threesomes?

They're both casual sex & I seriously doubt that there are no alternatives to save a marriage other than having group sex. I am personally against casual sex, but why do these people claim that it is the best alternative to save a failing marriage?

2007-08-03 08:06:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a boy goes to visit a girl at least once a week(sometimes two or three times) for about a month, arrives at around 6:30 and stays unil 11:30, stays there and holds her for long periods of time, seems horribly depressed whenever he makes her upset and kisses her (cheek, arm while hugging her, lips, forehead) what does it mean?

Now what if I mention that the guy has told her that he likes her, but he comes from a culture where normally the family will NOW want the son to have any sort of relationship with someone form another culture -and he's the oldest son, meaning he will carry the family name-. Then he tells the girl that he can't love her, that he doesn't love her, but then when she cries he stays to comfort her and looks absolutely miserable the next day, and then indirectly tells her that he loves her ("Love is a crazy thing, you never love the person you should love"). And his parents start indirectly trying to stop him from seeing the girl but he still goes to see her?

2007-08-03 08:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 08:04:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is a virgin and wants to wait until we get married...but lastnight ohhh baby....I could have taken her all the way but I stop to respect her choice. Was I wrong??? Her mind was saying no but her body was saying yes!!

2007-08-03 08:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are getting married in Disney World and will only have little girls walking in the wedding.

2007-08-03 07:59:09 · 23 answers · asked by rescue147 2 in Weddings

My husband and I got married a few months ago in a private ceremony (you could say we eloped) we just did not want any one to know till afterwards especially my son. Now I would like to celebrate our wedding by having a reception and setting up a gift registry. I had a friend said I could not do this after the fact, but I don’t see the problem allowing us to formally be introduced to friends and family and having a reception like any one normally would. We just choose this method because it worked better for us and did not want the family to make a fuss, since we have both been married 2 times before we wanted something, sweet, simple and outside in the woods and it was beautiful. Any help and or suggestions would be really appreciated.

thanks!

2007-08-03 07:58:52 · 19 answers · asked by Cynthia C 1 in Weddings