She is a virgin and wants to wait until we get married...but lastnight ohhh baby....I could have taken her all the way but I stop to respect her choice. Was I wrong??? Her mind was saying no but her body was saying yes!!
2007-08-03 08:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were perfectly right in what you did and you are a great guy!
And you know what she is thanking her lucky stars for a man like you. I think that you should send her flowers! Because you know that would just show her that you are that much more sensitive and in to her!
2007-08-03 08:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by magandenise 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no means no. if she's expressed that she wants to wait til marriage then u were definitely right to respect that. if she wants to go all the way, then she'll make that clear. if ur not sure, ask. if ur gettn hot n heavy and ur not entirely positive if she wants it or not, just kinda give her a questioning look or just ask yes or no. dont push it til she gets offended but dont just keep pulling away if she decides she does want to have sex.
im the same way as her. saving it til marriage. but if i got caught up in the moment and i wasnt ready, id love a guy who respected that and who was willing to wait til i was ready.
2007-08-03 15:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by &Brandyleigh;; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were so right for stopping yourself. a lot of times people get lost in the moment and end up regreting it afterwards. the fact that you respect her choice and stopped even though it would've been easier to keep going shows great character in you. whoever your girl is, she is lucky to have someone who cares about her to the point of abandoning his own desires. you weren't wrong at all by stopping and i congradulate you for being the kind of guy many girls wish to find.
2007-08-03 15:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Uncle always told me "if you turn one down, your one behind" but you probably did the right thing for her sake. Stick with her, it sounds like she has morals and wants to wait. Give it time, it will happen when she is ready.
2007-08-03 15:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jay B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Good for you ! You definetly did the right thing.
2007-08-03 15:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, you need to respect her choices.
good boy.
2007-08-03 15:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had a guy like you when i lost my virginity. =]]
2007-08-03 15:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by MoMMyO'1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋