I can't take the drama.. advice??

Question

lately my life is crazy. I broke up with my boyfriend for this other boy named kevin who ended up leaving me. My best friend monica said she was 'tired' of me and decided not to be my friend anymore either..
My other friends boyfriend came to me asking for advice about his girl. I knew she was plannin to leave him for sumone else.. and i told him..

then she got mad and so did monica and everything thing is juss crazy..

now since then i have realized that all the stuff i did with kevin was wrong and moved on.
I told monica i was sorry but she still doesnt wanna be my friend..
it seems i have no one.. :-(
and now i'm just really depressed... please dont tell me how ****** up it was what i did cuz i already know that..

Just someone please help me to get my friends back?? please... :'-(

Answer 1

1) I am glad you figure out what you want with your dating life.

2) Might be next time where you come across two friends that are dating and one confided you with something, the other is wondering about it, you can suggest instead of going to you, schedule a chat with each other, and figure everything out. Afterall, the only way to know the truth is to talk it over (for those involved only).......as outsider, you can say, it is not good for me to comment on it. But ask if she or he feel that the relationship is in healthy conditon that both of them are satisfied about it. And if not can they identify the issues and clear it up before it got exploded.

3) In how to get back your friend, I guess the only thing you can do now is prevent this from happening again and use time to show your friends that your behaviors has changed but you must be very patient. If you want this friendship to be back where it used to. You might need to face the down time of friendship which mean she might be do things that are crappy to you, but if you can use this time and be patient, I am sure if she is your true friend, after her observation of your new behavior, she might give you a second chance.

Answer 2

what goes around comes around. you should treat someone how you want to be treated..is the famous saying isnt it? you left your boyfriend for someone else who broke up with you in the end. its like the joke is on you. that was wrong. and now you told ur friend bf about his girl when he asked advice..you should have said no im not getting into the middle of it. you have created quite a mess for yourself. and you apologized to monica. if you apologized to these people then leave it as that. the ball is in there court nothing else you can do but move on. if they dont accept your apology thats on them..oh well..let them go. dont be depresed about a situation you created..learn from it and move on. now you know what to do and not to do next time.