Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

She found out by checkin his text messages and then confronted the husband and at first he denied it, but then said it won't happen again, its been 5 months on going and this just happend. how do I handle this cause they are both my friends and I know that he is not really sorry about what happend. any advise????

2007-08-03 09:24:30 · 47 answers · asked by cookster 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 09:24:04 · 35 answers · asked by hate mi kill mi nam mi raw !!! 2 in Singles & Dating

i have started preparing for a wedding that is still several months away, and just for the fun of the occasion i have been trying to find some contest to enter or maybe even a show, just something crazy to do... nothing like Bridezilla though... does anyone know how to go about entering for contests or participating in shows over the internet, or should i just keep grabbing bridal and wedding magazines to see if there are any entry forms there? thanks

2007-08-03 09:22:55 · 4 answers · asked by Gizzy 2 in Weddings

2007-08-03 09:22:51 · 36 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you talk to the therapist with out making your wife look like an idiot by accusing her of not doing the right thing by putting the marriage and your spouse first?

2007-08-03 09:22:49 · 16 answers · asked by give_me_somedat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your Grandparents whom you live with bludegeon you with ridiculous tasks? They like to follow the stupid traditions of "men's work" and "women's work", you know that leave it to beaver cleaver crap. I hate it, I hate it so much, not only do I hate it with my being but with my soul. How do I deal with them?!

2007-08-03 09:18:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What would you say if i ask you out? not saying i would i have boyboy friend

2007-08-03 09:17:38 · 23 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 09:15:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering how old you were when you lost your virginity ..
Tbh, i think it will help me to decide when the time is right for me.
Obviously, if you don't want to share this with other people, it's understandable.
Thanks x

2007-08-03 09:14:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I REALLY love my boyfried. A lot. I've been divorced for 2 years and have 2 kids. He practically lives at my house. Not only does he contantly bicker with my kids, but he gets on them for stupid little things and all it does is cause more chaos and tension. It is worse when we are with his family because I think he is trying to act "authoritative" like he has something to prove. It makes me really uncomfortable because he'll tell me something they are doing, and then I feel like I have to discipline them, even when I don't agree with it. But if I don't, then his family members look at me like "what are you going to do about it" My kids aren't bad, they are normal kids, sometimes hyper, sometimes mouthy, but not out of control by any means. I've talked to him about it, but it just keeps happening. I will not put him in front of my kids, he treats us very well and I love him.

2007-08-03 09:11:53 · 34 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family

I mean there are grown folks on here who want to discuss real issues, like their sex life and such and then there are the little monsters popping up, giving their opinion in things they aren't ready for. I just answered a question, frustrated female with selfish partner and of course you had the little ones asking "What?!!!"
What the hell?
Isnt there an age limit?!!

2007-08-03 09:11:51 · 12 answers · asked by Carrie 4 in Singles & Dating

if you're just hanging out with friends how are you supposed to pick up 'signals' coming from a guy?

2007-08-03 09:10:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she
s pregnant

2007-08-03 09:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 09:09:58 · 50 answers · asked by aztek 1 1 in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend has been hurt a lot in the past and hasn't learn to trust me (understandable). She isn't controlling or anything, but she does mention that she is suprised I still like her after all she has told me, and thinks that at any moment I could just leave her.

I tell her that I love her (which I do), I remind her of how special she is and how beautiful she is on the inside and out and that I never want to leave. (infact I pray to God everynight that she'd be the one I'd marry), but she still is paranoid about this, and never fully opens up.

I know this needs time and it has only been three months, and trust me, if I had to I would wait till im 89 if it took that long for her to realize it. But what are some ideas or things I could do to make her randomly feel special?

2007-08-03 09:08:24 · 22 answers · asked by Chris 5 in Singles & Dating

I've just turned 20 and he's nearly 40..... do u think a relationship could work?

2007-08-03 09:07:10 · 23 answers · asked by lilbex87 2 in Singles & Dating

have u ever fallen for someone u talked to online. what if u only knew what they told u. u have no idea what they look like, or who they really were. would u pursue or end the online relationship entirely

2007-08-03 09:06:44 · 4 answers · asked by im done 2 in Singles & Dating

If not, do you use any methods to reach each other everyday? If so, what?

Or are you the one who prefers your S.O not to call you everyday so that you can have some ME time?

2007-08-03 09:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he makes u multy orgasm everytime? or 99% of the time? would this make him good/great/ awsome in bed, wut do u think?

2007-08-03 09:05:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wanting no more contact?

Answer the question personally or hypotheticly.

2007-08-03 09:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know it is important to become friends and love each other first and have a lasting relationship of trust and such.But I do not intend to spend the rest of my life with someone who I can't even enjoy sex with *_*.
In my opinion:
I think you should know if you will be the right match for that person before you mess up and be stuck with that person for life ~_~. A life of bad sex..A bad fit....leads to cheating and misery.
I'm not condoning going out having sex with every one....but I just think you should know if it's gonna work first.

Any other opinions?

2007-08-03 09:04:18 · 20 answers · asked by taniaess 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am sure people have gone to weddings only to find out down the road that the couple got divorced. What saddens me more than the divorce is how do two people who have passion and hope and dreams and romance and happiness while they are dating when they split up come to hate oneanother and are at eachothers throats. I was so grieved when my friend got divorced they seemed so be so in love and happy and thier marraige did not even last 6 years. I would have never thought in a million years her and her husband would ever divorce because they seemed so happy. How do a couple go from I do to I hate your guts? Why does this happen? I just find this so sad. This was on my mind so I thought I would post.

2007-08-03 09:02:12 · 15 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy who is older than i am, he is also interested in me, we have spoken a couple times and hang out. but we met through my sister they are good friends , and she'd kill us if she found out we wanted a relationship! help! what do i do?

2007-08-03 09:01:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well im 14 years old ad my sister is 21. she wants us to go to canobie park on sunday, canobie park is an amusement park. i was wondering if i should go with her or not. we have 7 years difference and we are sisters... i dont know if we'd look like dorks hanging out together in an amusement park. I usually go to places like this with friends so idk. If it were you would you go?

2007-08-03 09:01:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm actually very experienced and I know all the tricks and whatnot....I just got very horny and overeager my first time with her...what do you think she thinks of me?

2007-08-03 09:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't have the greates body in the world...but he seems to like it... any ideas for something exciting do surprise him in the bedroom... i want it to be unforgettable ... just something i've never done... like a dance ... any good songs to dance to ??...

2007-08-03 08:59:58 · 17 answers · asked by colombiana82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really at wits end and am worried about my marriage as my husband seems to be addicted to porn and bizzare sex. I have recently discovered that he has posted a profile on a adult sex site. I am so upset as he posted he wants very bizzare sex with anyone, more than one, whatever, whoever. He adds "Dont email me as my wife may find out!" I discovered this all by accident as someone responded to his ad through my email for some reason. This just breaks my heart as I thought we had a pretty good marriage going on. We have been married for 12 years. We have a pretty good sex life...although he wants it alot more than me as I am starting menopause and am not always in the mood, but it's not like we never have it. My biggest concern I guess is the kind of sex he is looking for. I can't even discribe it, but its NOT normal! This is the 2nd time in our marrige I have caught him doing this. Help..I don't want to loose my marriage!

2007-08-03 08:58:07 · 15 answers · asked by Kathy J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a) after he leaves call your boys and a arange a hit on him

b) get a baseball bat and beat the living crap out of him

c) slap him ,make him to kiss your shoes and force him to apologize

or d) just let it go

2007-08-03 08:57:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-03 08:57:16 · 20 answers · asked by Tubby 2 in Singles & Dating

I propose to him?and if you say yes how do i do it?

2007-08-03 08:57:05 · 21 answers · asked by Mellisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce