Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

Can't we just make a promise to each other without any material involve?
Is it just the society that gives us a hype about what we need and what we should do on our wedding?

2007-08-03 10:31:48 · 12 answers · asked by TK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My family and I went to California two weekends ago and I went to see my older cousin and he had his girlfriend with him... I wasn't jealous or anything... We went to the beach the next day and I wanted to spend time with my cousin but he wanted to spend time with his girlfriend rather than me... It didn't feel right to have her there with us. I tried to tell him but he was too busy with her and I've already emailed him. What should I do?

2007-08-03 10:30:17 · 15 answers · asked by Meg, youngest Malfoy »—(¯`v`¯)—» 3 in Family

I'm just wondering, as I've been in one for about 10 months and we don't have sex nearly as much as we did before. I've also been sick and I went off the pill so I think that may have an affect on it, but it's normal to have peaks and valleys in the sex department, right? We still cuddle, say I love you, are intimate, just not intercourse....

2007-08-03 10:30:04 · 18 answers · asked by LFE 2 in Singles & Dating

on august 14, my husband and i will be celebrating our first month as married couple.
i want to cook him dinner but i am totally clueless when it comes to cooking.
any ideas? quick, easy-to-do, romanitc menus?
i want to do it at home, how should the place be decorated? candles?

i need help!

2007-08-03 10:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by 14313 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are hindus who live in India. Got married 6 months ago. My wife and I are having differences and we are heading towards a divorce. She will, fortunately or unfortutunately, agree to sign a divorce petition and we have already discussed this. We live in the same house as of today.
My questions are
1) Is there a minimum period after marriage that we have to wait in order to seek a divorce?
2) How long is it going to take for the case?
3) When can either of us remarry (marry someone else, of course)?
4) What grounds can we cite in the divorce application?
5) Lastly, we havent registered our marriage (no marriage certificate), so do we really need a divorce?

I will be really grateful to anyone who helps. Thanks In advance.

2007-08-03 10:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by Jun B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this man for the past ten years and like any normal couple we have had our share of ups and downs. We are currently in the process of building a house and the closer it gets to closing the more nervous I get. We have lived together but in a 3 bedroom apt. Am I just nervous becuase this is such a big step?

2007-08-03 10:24:15 · 15 answers · asked by MeMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Because he will lose interest without the challenge. I say yes, my mate says no. What says you?

2007-08-03 10:23:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anthony F 6 in Singles & Dating

a)does age matter?
b)are guys more shallow then girls?
c)what is your biggest turn on?

2007-08-03 10:22:26 · 10 answers · asked by revolutionary female 2 in Singles & Dating

hmm i broke up with him, becuase i didnt want a relationship... but now i miss him... and i KNOW im being fickle and pathetic probably i cant help it.
everythings pretty messed up right now...
i think he would take me back i know he really likes me.. buuut if im with him maybe ill start thinking i wana be on my own again! ahh =S
if i leave it too long ill lose him..

2007-08-03 10:21:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 10:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by ruby r 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had an erection for about 2 or 3 hours and it won't go away. What do I do?! I've tried masturbating but that didn't help at all!!!

2007-08-03 10:19:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think there can exist a true friendship between a guy and a girl? If you say "yes" and have a friend of opposite sex, can you honestly say you NEVER felt sexually attracted to him / her at one point or another? What do you all think??

2007-08-03 10:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by himnaeyahae a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 10:17:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend tells me how to dress, he doesnt like when I wear make-up or look good because he's jealous..he doesnt want other guys to look at me. He tells me i cant go out, he questions me and accuses me of cheating when I do go out...and lately he calls me names all the time. he calls me a B*tch, S*ut, he even called me fat the other night...which may be true but I just had his baby 3 months ago..i need to know if there is a way to make him realize that hes hurting me and get him to stop...or should I just walk away from the situation?

2007-08-03 10:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 10:16:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-03 10:16:08 · 37 answers · asked by Brainy Smurfette 3 in Weddings

How should I react.

2007-08-03 10:15:04 · 29 answers · asked by moz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend with benefits text me saying that "disrespect and being unloyal to a man is one of the major mistakes a woman does... I dont know why he is telling me this.

2007-08-03 10:14:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 10:13:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 33 year old female and i have a male friend with benefits. we share our thoughts and fun and mad moments together.. this past saturday i text him to be more considerate with something minor. (his wood floors) and he called me back and started cursing me out. I dont know where all that anger came from. My first reaction was that i starting cursing him back. it got really nasty. then he hung up and told me to lose his number. I called him back to apologize for disrespecting him by cursing. but i received no response. Will he call me back? Do u guys have a time limit to cool off and call a woman back.. this hurts like hell. Is there something i can do. Please mature men help me out on how men think. thanks

2007-08-03 10:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two best friends, one being male and one female. We decided to have a sleepover to celebrate my 16th birthday, however when i was getting dressed in the morning, my male friend walked in on me in my bra and pants! I was mortified!
He ended up not knowing what to do and remained still staring at me while i was in shock ... and now everytime i see him, he seems to think its funny to ping my bra strap. I've explained to him that just because he has seen me semi-naked doesn't mean i want anything to occur out of it. We are still really good friends, but there is always a bit of tension between us. Is there any way i can get through to him without hurting his feelings?

2007-08-03 10:10:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why does every girl tell me i'm pretty, even a few guys, but everytime i'm out i dont seem to get any attention from guys? are they just saying that? i mean, most of my friends are ALOT prettier then me, model like...could that be it? its lowering my self esteem what should i do?

2007-08-03 10:07:19 · 20 answers · asked by revolutionary female 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about the wedding night. Seeing how it takes help to get in and out of the gown, I'm not sure how to create romance / a sexy atmosphere in the hotel room with my groom on the wedding night.

Should I let him help me out of the gown?

Should I do it myself, and change in to something?

Should I have my mom or somebody help me?

Is it still traditional to buy nice white (maybe lacy / sexy) wedding wear to go to bed in?

I'm not sure how to work this out gracefully.

Any suggestion? What would you do?

Looking to have a memorable night :)

2007-08-03 10:06:44 · 20 answers · asked by lovespring 4 in Weddings

Ok well yesterday I came into the back...Thats where the computer is..Well my brother was on it..But he i think he was jacking off too porn i`m not sure..Cause his hand was like down there LOl! In he was all sweaty. then after that, He got off in started acting weird. I guess cause he thought he got caught do you think thats what he was doing or what?!

Oh sorry that im posting this on marrige.[[&&]] Divorse

2007-08-03 10:03:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy that i met on the internet and he lives in tennessee(?) My mom and i r moving there when i finish middle school and im scared to meet him. what should we talk about? please help!!!! :(

2007-08-03 10:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by shyniece4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for 7 months.Hes kinda shaky about commiting right now and I get frustrated with him sometimes. We're not bf/gf but do EVERYTHING gfs/bfs do. He said a remark the other day that really pissed me off I let him know that and didnt talk to him for a while, he apologized but says i'm too sensitive. It was rude but maybe I over reacted a bit. Well we only get to see e/other on the weekends so was excited to see him today & started texting silly things like "are you ready for me, your not ready." His first response was "please ur still a baby i have to teach" then he said "lol Aldrin (a mutual friend) asked me if we were together because i said i couldnt chill cause me & you are doing our own thing tonight...said no i just put my penis in her mouth jk jk i know you'll get mad i didnt say that ha." HELLO thats gonna piss me off! WTF is that?! What guy says that to a girl he supposedly cares so much about?! He can be sweet but when hes a jerk MAN hes a jerk.

2007-08-03 10:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and My boyfriend have been dating for 5years. He had a child when I met him. I was not allowed to date and see him and we were 16 1/2 years old. He cheated on me with in the Second year and we broke up and got back together. Ever since he has not cheated. The girl called him a year later after the incident and said that she was pregnant. but recently we (yes it took that long).. found out the baby is his. The reality has hit me that he has 2 kids and we are 21 now... I dont know what to do because I am ashamed and I know how my family will take to this... not good! We are both down and sad, but I know he has change yet TWO kids! Wow! thats alot to deal with and I dont have any! I am hurt all over again and dont know if I'm wrong for wanting to leave!... I broke up with him two days ago because it was too much for me... but he still calls..Whats your advice, what should I do?

2007-08-03 10:01:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I am divorced and my ex husband was my first boyfriend, the only guy I've slept with, the first guy I've kissed and I am having a hard time not getting over the divorce but trying to like someone. I don't even have a crush on anyone right now an I hate the way that feels. I'm scared that I might not ever be able to let anyone into my life again. Is this normal? Does anyone have any suggestions on getting over this phase? i have a couple of guys that would like to date me but I don't even want to spend time alone with a guy for some reason. I don't understand why I feel this way. Because I know that our marriage wasn't meant to be, we are both happier apart and I just want to be able to like someone again.

2007-08-03 09:57:35 · 17 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has made remarks about me being too independent, but if I don't look out for myself who will? Also, before I was married I was single and I have always worked, had my own apartment and paid my own way for everything. Even when I was so called "dating", I never left home without my own money. I had several friends that wanted to be wined and dined. They expected a man to take care of them. Not me. I learned a long time ago that you can't rely on people. But the weird thing with my husband is if I ask him to do something (household projects; carrying heavy objects; etc.), I will get attitude. If he initiates it on his own or offers and I decline, then he says I am too independent. What does he want? A needy woman who can't stand on her own two feet? That's the same exact thing I experienced with guys that I dated when I was single. They'd much rather do something for a woman who doesn't have a job, has kids, etc.

There are a lot of trust issues for me as well.

2007-08-03 09:56:58 · 14 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

court ordered counseling, even if we do live in a no fault state and i am disagreeing with him will the court grant my petition for counseling eventhough my husband is against it?

2007-08-03 09:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by beba 1 in Marriage & Divorce