hmm i broke up with him, becuase i didnt want a relationship... but now i miss him... and i KNOW im being fickle and pathetic probably i cant help it.
everythings pretty messed up right now...
i think he would take me back i know he really likes me.. buuut if im with him maybe ill start thinking i wana be on my own again! ahh =S
if i leave it too long ill lose him..
2007-08-03 10:21:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...What are you..12, 13?. Youre messing with someones feelings because they like you enough to let you. So you go out with him when youre in the mood to be with someone, and dump him when you're over it. if you really liked him, you wouldnt be so selfish. Make up your mind before you go begging him to take you back.
if he has any self worth at all, he'll start telling you no.
2007-08-03 10:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't mess with his head this way. Take some time to figure out why it is exactly that you didn't want a relationship. Did you not want a relationship period or did you just not want one with him? Did you find yourself wanting to date other people? If so, maybe you need more time to sow your wild oats before trying for something serious. You would be doing him a big favor by figuring out what you really want first instead of running the risk of breaking his heart...again. (I've been on the other end of this and trust me--it hurts.)
2007-08-03 10:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by CrysV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is why you did not want the relation to continue in the beginning . Was it your fault or his fauly. Sit with a head packed with ice and the think why and what happened at that time? Don't take hasty decisions as one wrong decision will ruin not only you but also your family. Always be prepared for the worst the you can face things out. And one thing. Always discuss things with your parents. They have seen life more than you.
2007-08-03 10:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Munish N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? Is this a serious question? Maybe you should take the cotton candy out of your head, find your brain, reinsert it and make your own assessment. Sounds like your brand of inane back-n-forthness will have you being lonely and alone for a good long while. And trust me, what goes around comes around. You need to start having more respect for your own personal boundaries, and others' feelings.
2007-08-03 10:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as far as i concern what u feel right now is TRUE LOVE becoz u miss him, u wnat him and u love him so much like u want to see him every single day, u just need to get used to it to be w/ someone becoz if think that he love u and u love him but wont share it with each other ( in other word there is no closure or sweetness between u and ur bf) there is no magic, u wont feel and see the magic of love and that makes the relationship much stronger.
u should follow ur heart, not ur mind coz destiny only comes at one time and we dont know if he is ur destiny that will love u and treat u like a princess.
so gud luck bye!
2007-08-03 10:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by cute dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sounds like you need to do some major soul searching and see if you really want to be with the guy, or is it just that you know you will lose him if your gone too long thats telling you to keep him. The best thing to do is always follow what your heart says, if it says keep him then keep him. Then if it works out great if not atleast you have no regrets!
2007-08-03 10:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by solidroc3224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you're sure. It's not fair to play games with someone else's heart. It's ok to miss him, that's natural - but that's not a good reason to get back together with someone. Maybe some alone time will help you figure out what you truly want.
2007-08-03 10:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by needstoknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be single for a wile longer until you figure out what you really want.Don't be in a relationship for the wrong reasons.Good luck finding your peace of mind.You need to be happy alone first to be able to make someone happy.
2007-08-03 10:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Pia F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this, you don't want a relationship your just miss him. It doesn't sound like you are too serious about this. It's not good to play games with people.
2007-08-03 10:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rahouel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't deliberate too long over answers in life-you'll never end up doing anything-otherwise, like you said, the choice will be made for you, learn how to listen to your gut.
2007-08-03 10:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by TroutSniff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋