I've been dating this guy for 7 months.Hes kinda shaky about commiting right now and I get frustrated with him sometimes. We're not bf/gf but do EVERYTHING gfs/bfs do. He said a remark the other day that really pissed me off I let him know that and didnt talk to him for a while, he apologized but says i'm too sensitive. It was rude but maybe I over reacted a bit. Well we only get to see e/other on the weekends so was excited to see him today & started texting silly things like "are you ready for me, your not ready." His first response was "please ur still a baby i have to teach" then he said "lol Aldrin (a mutual friend) asked me if we were together because i said i couldnt chill cause me & you are doing our own thing tonight...said no i just put my penis in her mouth jk jk i know you'll get mad i didnt say that ha." HELLO thats gonna piss me off! WTF is that?! What guy says that to a girl he supposedly cares so much about?! He can be sweet but when hes a jerk MAN hes a jerk.
2007-08-03 10:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I read the text it made me physically sick. I was like how dare he say something about ME like that. After I am so caring and sweet to him and hes caring and sweet to me too. I was just in shock and pissed that he would say that. Makes me think he hasnt made me his gf and if hes saying stuff like that is that how he really thinks?Is that what I really am to him? Even if he said just kidding. It wasnt funny and it makes me wonder.
2007-08-03 10:02:42 · update #1
Seven months, no commitment yes, I'd be mad, not only at him for the text but myself as well for sticking around with him for so long giving him everything that he wants minus a relationship. Girl, are you crazy?
By that text alone it should be an obvious clue what he really thinks of you. "You're a baby" (his words) and a play thing to him. Break away now 'cause he's never going to commit to you. You deserve better.
2007-08-03 10:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it might be harsh- I would say LOSE the guy. Why would you want to be with someone that makes you feel so degraded? If you have been dating him for months and he still won't commit to the title "boyfriend and girlfriend." Then he's probably not worth your time. Have you ever heard of the book "He's Just Not That Into You"? It has helped me through a lot of relationships and answers so many questions that women have about relationships. It is a totally uplifting book and I would recommend at least scimming through it. Most women want to analyze why men do what they do....why they tell you one minute how into you they are and the next be a total jerk....Sometimes it really is as simple as: "he's just not that into you" and men don't have the guts to just say it. This sounds similar to a relationship that I had in the past and I can tell you now....you'll just end up regretting that you wasted so much of your time on someone that doesn't care about wasting your time. I'd get rid of the guy now and let him realize what a great girl he could have had. Good Luck!
Here is a link to information on that book if you are interested:
http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/hes-just-not-that-into-you
2007-08-03 17:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by monday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, he's a jerk. After 7 months he should have been able to commit to at least a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship. And he's speaking crudely about you, and bragging about it. Just dump him and move on already.
2007-08-03 17:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! You need to dump this immature LOSER!!! No female should ever be talked to that way!! And if you ask me he is either seeing other people, extremely immature, or he just doesn't really care at all about you.. maybe you are just a BOOTY CALL?!! Get rid of this guy fast!!
2007-08-03 17:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aprincess007 Sweety move on.I don"t know you but I know his type and you deserve better ! Respect yourself baby,you deserve a gentleman.
2007-08-03 17:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should b mad. if i were you, i'd "break up"(?) with him NOW. he's obviously an obnoxious jerk who's not worth your time
2007-08-03 17:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaaaa be mad....... u have a right to be mad
2007-08-03 17:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Turdly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋